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Janine, 47
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

Offline, last seen Sun, 05 May 2024 22:43:59

About Me

Well here I go changing again! for those of you who've read my profile before you might like this new thing changing it often. Lol. Truly though I feel like there's no point in talking about the past it is the past. My marital status will be separated untill it's divorced if it matters to you you'll know when that happens, I want to say more about me and what I want (of course). I am a woman who enjoys getting dressed for an evening out with my man, I like to take my time, to do my hair, have my nails done, pick the right dress, shoes,etc. I want you to be proud to be out with me and I want to be with someone I can be proud to be out with. Now with that said I can get down and dirty on game day with the best of them. I love live sports and whatever it is I'm going to I can represent my team with the best of them as you can see! I love boating, snorkeling, I am a certified diver but haven't been in a while (not much right here in this area). I love live music all kinds if you played my ipod you'd swear it was stolen and someone couldn't figure out how to erase some stuff. Theres everything from country to rock, hard rock and enya! and some obscure artist not too many would recognize. I have gone to many concerts even by myself that's how much I enjoy them. I am not afraid to do/go anywhere on my own if I want to. Life is to short to miss it has it happens and it seems I make friends wherever I go. I love just to have fun, I love to laugh, I am joyful, I love to challenge myself learning new things and I enjoy that in my man as well as long as where here right! I don't like drama I've been there done that, don't want to fight to be quite honest theres really not that much worth getting that upset over and two grown adults should be able to talk and compromise to a happy medium. I am very warm and affectionate, I like to hold hands, I love long slow kisses, I have discovered a new openess to a certain level of pda. I am looking for someone who can rise to meet me, who can challenge me to be better, yet still love me as I am. It is the heart, soul and character of a man I'm looking for and I hope there looking at mine! I want my guy to be my best friend although I think a healthy amount of time with our friends apart is important. I want my guy to be the one I want to call first with the exciting news, or cry to when it's rough, or celebrate the best. I also want that great chemistry-- part of that long slow kiss is so you can feel those butterflies in your tummy or your nose tingle whatever lets you know this is special and it doesn't come around too often hold on too it. So here I am, but I would like to find the special someone to take me away from here (POF) no offense :) I think the first date should be very casual no pressure check each other out meet for coffee or drinks see how we mesh and go from there, if nothing, nothing lost. If good the rest of the evening is ours to do what we want.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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