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Lynne, 45
United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

I am going to try this ONE more time. Brief and to the point. "I want my best friend and soulmate!!!"****Please have a profile picture of yourself and not your vehicle, dog, or kid (you with the these, is quite alright)! Oh, I don't reply to, "hello." Now, if you are searching for someone to make you feel better? That would be me. I am a loving, caring, thoughtful, positive, empathetic person. However, this has caused some problems in recent history on here. I'm still persevering, however (a good characteristic - perseverance). I know, there is the right person out there. It may not be on here; as my mother always stated, "it will happen when you least expect it." Someone gave me good advise with his own profile. Look through the windshield and not the rear view mirror. Take a sad song, and make it better (aka, the Beatles). I am family oriented, although I do not have any children of my own (not by choice). I married and divorced my high school sweetheart. I have good qualities and some pretty awkward ones (hey, I'm not perfect)! I work hard, college educated, well-rounded, and grounded. My laughter tends to lift people's spirits. If, I can make one person smile a day, that makes my day.I have resided in big cities; therefore, I'm a city girl, and your typical free spirit. Friends often refer to me as the, "chameleon." I can be very professional, dress up, sophisticated, walk into any room and begin a conversation with anyone. I can also be very relaxed, put on my favorite team's sweatshirt, and sit at a dive bar. Awkward means, I really am a compulsive clutz.C.). I have already been there and done that with my career, and residing all over the country. I'm ready to settle down with the right person, who shares the same values my parents *** me. Work, be frugal, enjoy life. I take one day at a time now. My parents were the best people that gave me the values of integrity, respecting myself and other's, regardless of their race, religion, or financial background. Give me a chance, and I will "Change Your World," "I will be the Sunlight in Your Universe," courtesy of my favorite artist, Eric Clapton. I am a basketball fanatic (Dad was a basketball coach). I love all types of music (Journey, Eric, the Stones, Eagles, Foreigner), and any old R&Life is so short. Enjoy it. I'm not lonely or desperate. I may reside alone; however there is a difference. That displays security within oneself. Insecure, is when you are unable to be alone. Never mind...that wasn't so brief. I have worked in politics, public relations, and law firms. I write a lot, okay?By the way, this will most likely be revised tomorrow....... Lunch, an adult beverage, or coffee. I love fall and winter. A walk around a lake or park, would be great (bundle up)!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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