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Shae, 45
United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

I am a twice divorced mother of 6 none of which live with me...I have 2 grandkids and am happy with life....I work a lot.I am not looking for a casual bed partner or a live in. I want a well rounded wholesome relationship and have been told several times that I live in a fairytale world where my ideas of a relationship are concerned. I know that what I am looking for is out there, it took my nephew a long time but he found it and I know I can. I would like to meet someone that could be my best friend not looking to get in my pants. There were really 10 kids and I am the youngest but that wasn't an option. I was informed that I was not a few extra pounds but heavy so sorry if I was misleading on that....I have recently lost weight and am still going down. I used to be a stay at home mom who kept a very clean house took care of all 6 kids, raised a garden and canned all our food. Recently I went and stayed a few days with my oldest son and daughter-in-law while they were having their 1st child and got to help her can and milk the goat....made me really miss the country life....would love to go back to that someday. I am very old-fashioned with good morals...I will have to be number one with the exception of your children...my favorite saying..."if you want a steak then order it but if you order a hamburger then be happy with that and don't be drooling over everyone else's steak"...It is not true that God gave men wondering eyes...love her as Christ loved the church and gave himself for it and she will have no problem submitting to you and you alone. Meet somewhere for dinner or drinks and spend a lot of time talking. Then go our separate ways to decide if we want to meet again or not.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Blues Jazz Indonesian Korean Portuguese Soccer / Football
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