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United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

I’m Adrienne. I am a good person looking for my someone special. I am usually serious, but have a flare for sarcastic wit. I'd like to meet someone who can dish as well as receive it. He needs to have a humorous side. I have been known to be goofy around my kids, especially when a song I know every word to is on the radio. Then the volume goes up and we sing along. A good laugh goes a long way. My kids keep me grounded and have always been a priority in my life. I would really like to meet someone that can relate to being a parent. Time with my kids is precious and alternated weekly with my ex. Major decisions in my life have my kids' interests at heart, and they will for a while still since I have a 15 year old son and twin daughters that are 11. They are the reason that I have no drama with their dad because that wouldn't help anyone. Today, I am in a good place emotionally and spiritually. I am looking for someone that can appreciate me and the progress I am making of moving on to the next chapter of my life. Dating has drastically changed from 20 years ago. I am optimistic about my future. I can see my life shared with someone, not that I intend to marry anytime in the near future. But it would be nice to be in a comfortable relationship with someone that it would be a possibility. Right now, I want to enjoy the company of another person. Someone to go to the movies, a concert, share a walk on the beach, dinner, talk on the phone, whisper sweet nothings to, miss, and enjoy when we're together. I try to get out and do things. My goal is to regain my fitness level I had 5 years ago (prior to retiring from the Army.) I want to meet someone that is easy on my eyes, tells me things that are on his mind, listens to my successes and troubles, and treats me like I'm a special part of his life. I'd like to meet the person that I think of first thing in the morning and last before I go to sleep. I'd like to do something active so that we can learn more about each other. Having coffee or a drink is nice, but tends to feel more like an interview. I think something active but not too loud would be good to find out about each other - bowling, pool, darts, painting class.I really don't like *** someone for weeks only to never meet. If there is a hint that we like each other, I'd rather go ahead and meet to know for sure before a lot of time and emotion is devoted to a relationship that wasn't there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Punk Comedy Crime War Baseball Nascar
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    .GEEZIf you have a crazy ex wife who was in jail, currently in jail, tried to murder you or just downright unstable..move on. If YOU were in jail, tried murdering someone or unstable..move on. Unfortunately I have encountered both and it is not pleasant. Seeking someone who is spontaneous, loves to travel and is willing to take a chance! A sense of humor is a must. Please have a stable job..I have met all kinds on here so I know what I want and don't want.It seems as we get older it becomes more difficult to find the one and I am starting to lose hope. Please restore my faith!I am a single mother of a little boy who is 10. He means the world to me and my match should understand that he comes first. Family is extremely important to me as it should to you. I have a pretty good sense of humor...which is needed in the world of online dating lol. I think I am a good person and try to treat people with respect. I am guilty of caring about everyone's feelings and not my own. Don't get me wrong, I am not a pushover or let people walk all over me. I guess what I am trying to say is I am a kind hearted person and I am seeking the same! I want someone who is not afraid to show or express their feelings. Wounded birds need not apply. PLEASE HAVE A PIC!!!!!!!!! Getting tired of getting *** people who don't have a pic and is not willing to share it OR their pic doesn't represent who they really are which makes for a very uncomfortable first meeting. Something low key like grabbing a beer. I prefer not sit through a 7 course meal, especially if you don't like the person!

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm gonna lay it out there on the table... I'm tired of being single , I thought it was for me, and I did just fine for about 4 years. But I realize that I am truly missing a part of my life that IS actually important to me. I am looking to have a serious relationship. Progressing to marriage. I want my dream guy... Professing his love and loyalty to me, forever . Yup, I want it. I'm not afraid to say it. Well, that or really good seats at Consol for a Pens game..... I'm not super model material, I'm pretty simple. I Have posted a pic , full body shot, as some people requested before they decide whether or not to talk any further to me. Which I feel insulted to have to post, but I digress. I'm about 5'2" (depending which citgo I leave) I have red curly hair,that I do, on occasion straighten, and blue eyes. I pride myself on being able to hold a intellectual conversation. I clean up decent.If you feel compelled to open a conversation with "hey babe, nice pics" I will just say "thank you" now and have a good day. UPDATE: dear God, why can't everyone read my profile. I still get"you're hott, beautiful eyes, hey sexy mama" really dudes? Come on... I'm not 20, I don't think those opening lines are "cool" anymore....geesh! I feel like there are a lot of people up here who are just playing games. If that's the case, please go to your apps store and download something .I want to find a decent, clean, honest man who isn't looking for a friend with benefits , or sex within the first 10 dates ( yes I said 10, lol) and please don't assume on date 11 I'm going to show up in lingerie,lol. I figured I would try this site before I start collecting cats and getting a reputation around town for being the crazy old cat lady. I am trying to be honest about what I'm looking for, I figure if some guys can post " no fat chicks" I think posting My little list of mood killers wouldn't ruffle too many feathers, lol lets try coffee, that way you and I can meet, you determine I'm not clingy and needy, and I'll survey whether or not you are potential serial killer material. LoL.

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  • Daphne from Benton | Woman | 41 years old | Libra
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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    **** A quick note: I am not looking for ***/ chat buddies - there is life beyond the computer - if nothing progresses beyond a few days of endless banter, say "it's been nice chatting with ya, good luck in your search", move on, tempus fugit! Life is too short and precious to waste such effort in nothing that will not progress. In fact, say that to everyone! It is only common decency.Also, when we progress to exchanging numbers, again... Not looking for endless texting... The purpose is to make a date and meet up for coffee or dinner...I understand there are plenty of other more beautiful and prettier women than I who like to tease, stroke and boost your ego and waste your time) Rant over lol *****.... wait, never mind, they all die at the end of the movie. A Yin to my yang or a yang to my yin. Anyways, you get the picture. Someone who is an equal and balances me out (yeah, the scale is a bit outta whack). So a bit about me: I'm just a bit shy and quiet when you first met me, yet easy-going and friendly and out-going once you've met me. I am not one to talk your ear off. I've been told that I am funny and make people laugh (not quite sure how to take this -- do they mean I make them laugh as comedienne, or a source of laughter and ridicule - I guess that's up for you to decide. I can and do tend to be sarcastic and snarky but only with good intentions. I love to laugh and not take things too serious (tried that route before, didn't quite work out well for me). Games are only fun when everyone knows and plays by the same rules. I am not a good game player, strategies always ellude me - Sun Tzi would make an example of me. Drama belongs on TV or the movie screen. (I tried to get rid of it but i think the Voodoo priestesses ripped me off) At this point in my life, I want simple and easy...Believe it or not I've made it this far without heavy duty baggage ( i think a lot of it got lost back in ***???? Any ways, I don't have the claim stub, so it doesn't matter) I like 60's and 80's music with a bit of ABBA and Mozart thrown in. But can rock out just as good.I like to learn new things and will try almost anything just about once (maybe). So with that said, I am always learning something new about myself and the world everyday. I just recently discovered that I might have the travel bug and would eventually like visit a few places. But for now, going to Vegas for long weekends is the extent of it. And just once, i would like to do a "guy's weekend in Vegas" the whole whiskey and cigars, all night long at the craps table sort of thing. A bit about you: Someone who enjoys laughing yet knows when to be serious...likes the fine and good things in life yet can appreciate Honest Ed's style. You "give in" to go ballroom dancing one night and "make me" go to a Jay's game the next. You know what Wednesday and Saturday matinees means. You like to volunteer and help out at charity events. There are times for going out or staying in and watching that night t.v line-up. Willing to try out new stuff but also know to stick to the tried and true. And once in awhile sit back and be amazed with what crazy and whacky things civilization is up to.Someone who willing to learn new things with me and teach me things they've learned. You like to suit-up and have legend- wait for it- dary day/nites (bonus if you know what this is in reference to)and go dancing and dining, but you don't mind staying at home and watching T.V. (and yes, we can even watch hockey, football or your guilty pleasure of DWTS***but my club days and nights are long gone and in the past (R.I.P.)But the reality is, we are all just looking someone who can be happy with what we can offer and vice-versa...If you made it this far, yay!If I added you as a favourite - was surfing on the phone and your profile caught my attention for one reason or another. Not for nothing but if you message me, please be able to string more than one word sentences. Good luck and happy fishing. An ideal first meeting would be to just meet up for a coffee or drink on a nice patio and have a conversation to see how things go to.

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