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Catherine, 44
United States, Illinois, Auburn

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About Me

i'm a thinker and dreamer, i have a thing for crunchy and sweet, i'm the kind of girl you take seriously, i dont articulate as well as others but my intentions are always honest, i'm not patient but i'm working on it, you'll always know where you stand, even after i love you i will still flirt with you, i subsconsciously yawn when i'm over it, i travel with my pillow, i keep almonds in my glove box, i have had a life of many failures and i shouldn't be as intact as i am but bitter is not an option, i'm sure kissing, class and intelligence will never go out of style, i don't hate but i hate liars, i'm never afraid to ask, i'll always try to sympathize when you tell me i've hurt you, i am a snob when it comes to shoes and who i call friend, i will not allow pride to destroy my relationships, i'll insist on candlelite dinners in our sweatpants, i have low blood sugar so i eat every two hours, i'm comfortable in jeans and flip flops or at a black tie event, i'll take a glass of wine on your front porch over a pretentious restaurant, i'd rather you write me a love letter than buy me diamond earrings, i'm addicted to chap stick, i talk to my sister and parents daily, i can't get enough of my 3 yr old nieces kisses, i consider family everything, i'm fiercely loyal, i listen w/out interrupting, i like the finer things in life but dont NEED them to be happy, i crave chocolate every day, i have had the occassion to dance with amazing souls who rarely came wrapped in a box with a pretty ribbon and i'm gratefulyou live for today but have a plan for the future, you admit when you're wrong, your core is loaded with integrity and you know that humility makes you a person of character, you don't agree with me just to shut me up, you are my biggest fan but you're not afraid to tell me when you think i handled something badly, you're never obnoxious on purpose, you look forward to quiet nights at home, you appreciate what you have when you have it, you take pride in your appearance, you love affection b/c you ARE affectionate, you keep the zipper on your heart close to the top but you're not afraid to be vulnerable, you let me pick up the tab when i want to, you'll share dessert with me, your face lights up when i walk into the room, you're evolved enough to know that it's about how someone makes you feel and not how perfect they look, you know the difference between sexy and trashy, you are sure of yourself - not full of yourself, you are confident - not c**ky, you make me feel protected, you're CONSISTENT, you love family, you are ready for a relationship and have time to cultivate it, you believe in romance, you are looking for more than just a good tiime..i want something REAL, a life partner. i would rather meet in person after a phone conversation to see if there's a connection before i tell you my life story. once we meet, if we have a mutual interest, then i want to know everything you have to say, in every language you know how to say it. i prefer something casual for a first date...let's save dinner for our second date when we know we want to share a meal together.a physical attraction is needed at first, but if i don't find our conversations stimulating, i won't stay interested (i hope you feel the same way b/c i want a guy who needs a girl with depth, not just a pretty face). i am attracted to someone of substance, who is sophisticated, ambitious, cultured and physically fit. i want my guy to consider family very important and to gladly welcome mine into his life since we're very tight. holidays will never be boring, i promise!! you should like to eat, i'm italian, food is everywhere and i love to cook....and bake!! a nice smile makes me melt and a sense of humor is a must! ** have recent pictures and show your smile. i like a killer smile!! if you have pictures in the bathroom mirror with no shirt on and sunglasses on...yikes! you're not my guy.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Indian Vietnamese Comedy Mystery Dance Shooting Sports
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