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Maegan, 37
United States, Illinois, Auburn

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About Me

I want to fall madly in love with my best friend who effortlessly makes me laugh so hard that my stomach hurts. We'll build a little house with a breakfast nook and a garden, and I'll make jam from the berries that grow out back while you wax up our skis (or vice versa--this is a partnership, after all). Eventually, we'll have a couple of smart, beautiful kids and we'll show them this beautiful world. Or not. You have dreams of your own, and half the fun of a relationship is in the compromise, in building our lives together. My friends would say that I'm outgoing, funny, smart, and great at keeping in touch and keeping a wide circle of lovely and diverse people in my life. But these are my friends. It's their job to say those things. I think I'm a good balance between academic and spontaneous, silly and serious, social and reclusive. I used to talk too much, but I'm working on that. I can be impulsive and am also working on taking a deep breath before jumping in. Or maybe not jumping at all. We're all works in progress, right?I'm passionate about and within my relationships, about being a part of something greater than myself, about my writing and the literary traditions that inform it, about those break-through moments with a student who didn't know what she was capable of. I'm passionate about hollandaise sauce and Ashtanga yoga, although sometimes I give up both. Our best days are when we sleep in, cook together or go out for brunch, and then build a bookcase or a coffee table. Or when I get up early to make breakfast burritos so we can hit the road and beat the crowds to Fenway (I'll be rooting for the Yankees, btw). Or when my ship comes in after six weeks at sea and you're on the dock to meet me. Our best nights are when we go to bed early because we can't keep our hands off each other. Or when we stay up late having drinks and great conversation with our fabulous friends who don't resent us for beating them so badly in Cranium.I'm looking for someone who enjoys playing on the edge but is mature enough that he won't cross over the line. Someone who knows that if we dance together around the fire, neither of us will get burned. I want to challenge and support each other, to relax with and excite each other. A partner in crime. A jack of all trades, perhaps. A Renaissance man? Someone who can read what I write and use more than just an adjustable wrench without cutting his fingers off. Someone who isn't afraid of hard work but who doesn't take himself seriously. Someone who knows himself and isn't afraid. Intellect, emotional maturity, and a physical connection are important. I think that sex and sexual compatibility are a large part of a relationship. Give me a good reason to stay home... Here's the thing: I don't do awkward.; a gala ball where I was publicly accused of being a communist by a music producer; a dinner with my date's parents; a three-day offshore sail with my co-workers; a walk to a clearing in the woods during the Leonid meteor showers;;; a beer at the dive bar down the street from my school. I don't want to be impressed--I want my date to feel comfortable, because only then can we truly get to know each other. And the guy I spent 7.5 years with? He took me to a dive bar for a beer after class.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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