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Mahalia, 39
United States, Illinois, Arthur

Offline, last seen Mon, 22 Sep 2025 09:57:27

About Me

CAUTION: Be prepared to be very amused or highly disturbed. SIDE EFFECTS: with any woman: Logical reasoning is not tolerated. Mind reading is expected. IN CASE OF EMERGENCY: When does laughing at yourself escalate into an illness? On a more serious note, I think there are many sides and angles to every person. Maintaining balance in all aspects of my life is a empowering challenge. What you see is not what you get. I am honest to a fault, often expressing my thoughts out loud. I have been through it all and have not became bitter or disgruntled. I learned in life a we should never stop flourishing, yet quit being so hard on ourselves. Attitude and perspective can make the difference from living a life of misery to mastering the art of happiness.You: Loyalty, honesty, and respect are a must. A sense of humor, the ability to appreciate or at least tolerate my silliness is necessary. It would be a plus if you could join in with me.I AM NOT LOOKING TO HANG OUT, TEXT, CASUALLY DATE. OR HAVING A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP SO PLEASE DO NOT WASTE OUR TIME IF YOU ARE NOT IDEALLY PURSUING A COMMITTED RELATIONSHIP.FOR ME.Ladies love to talk about themselves, if you did not know this, at the very least I taught you something. Just nod every now and then, most of us will never know the difference. Back To Me:P, I am not a controlling, critical or a jealous person and will not date someone who is. I believe that we should be supportive, encouraging and each others' #1 fan. I enjoy going to black tie events but just as happy to be in jeans and a tee. I will usually choose to watch and participate in sports rather than girlie stuff. I love being on the water on my boat, boating is mind altering, totally free of responsibilities and thoughts other than the peace and beauty of being on the water and have . I enjoy going to concerts, enjoy social events and love spending time at home relaxing in my pajamas with a movie or reading a book. I also enjoy laughing with and at myself, discussions with others goofy and deep. Everyday I learn invaluable information. We should continue to learn, grow and better ourselves until we take our last breath. Anything is possible, it is never too late to make that dream or all your dreams become a reality.There is much more to each of us than this space provided to explain about ourselves and what we would do on our first date. Looks can be deceiving and sometimes that package with the black and white newspaper wrapping contains the most treasured present inside. Good luck to all on your journey. The path to happiness and fulfillment never ends and it always difficult to follow. I hope you realize that enjoying the journey on that path is more important than trying to reach the destination. That will allow us to get to know a little bit about each other and see if we have chemistry.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Crime Drama Music Mystery
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