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Vannessa, 49

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Interested in ages * **** I love to just BE. It's not the easiest to let go of what happened yesterday and not to be anxious about tomorrow, but I truly believe in this and work constantly at it. It's liberating and frees up the heart and soul..... I enjoy the company of another in doing whatever activities we come up with. I've had a long-term relationship in Fitness and it continues to be important to me, however, obsessed Muscle-Heads need not apply---no longer have time for that. I prefer to wash and detail my own car and fix things around the house myself and not just the girlie things. :-) I'm quite self-sufficient, believe me. However! Is it so wrong to imagine my partner just taking care of me from time to time? Reciprocated, of course, when you're on your "deathbed" from that headcold.... :-) Personally, I continue to grow in many ways....so important! Something to share but not on a public profile … I'm probably too sensitive for my own good, but I’m a passionate person (Scorpio) and am fiercely protective of myself and those who are important to me. Tenacious, Strong-Willed, Compassionate, and as Silly as often as I can get away with.... I LOVE to laugh! I love easy and silly humor...... So! I will preface what you read next by saying that the following represents so much about me and how I feel. However, at the same time, I want to slowly build a friendship and not jump into the serious aspect too soon.I'm somewhat of an introvert, although you might not think so upon us meeting! I don't feel comfortable in large groups any longer....haven't figured out this one yet :-) But I will say, if there were a great club to go to for dancing, I'm there! I do know that I want that one on one best friend-in-a-man thing. Not the clingy thing, but just being content hanging out together and really enjoying it!...the list goes on.. Hiking, some reality shows (yup), and Concerts (from rock to classical), watching pro football games (go Titans!.. no comments, please). Love the Arts and live concerts: Dance, Comedy, Musicals, etc.....Calm communication is key towards a healthy relationship... You can ride emotional rollercoasters on your own; besides, they make me nauseaus. Make of a relationship what you want. Yours is the choice to believe it to be a gift or not. I’m an eternal romantic and appreciate the importance of having true romance in my life. I want to meet someone with great teeth and a warm smile, a truly open heart, honesty and real integrity. Someone not much older than myself; a little younger is fine :-) . I don't see where we can post the age range we look for, so I'll put it here: ***age range. I was open to longer distance, but if we can't see each on a regular basis, due to drive time, how could things go anywhere? Would it set us up for disappointment? These song lyrics come to mind more and more: "I Might Have To Wait, I'll Never Give Up, I Guess It's Half Timing, And The Other Half's Luck / Wherever You Are, Whenever It's Right, You Come Out Of Nowhere And Into My Life............I Just Haven't Met You Yet......." The deeper qualities in a man I hope to meet can’t just be shared in this format. I’m not looking for, nor do I need perfection! Merely perfect for me; perfect for each other. Meet for coffee first?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Tamia

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a mother of a 20 and 17 year old. I am a creative, energetic person that enjoys laughing and cracking jokes. I enjoy dinners out with friends or just as a couple. I like to stay in shape but not a fitness guru. I've danced most of my life and am currently in a dance company. I enjoy going to the beach, but I really want to explore other places overseas. I volunteer at Children's Hospital in the oncology clinic and I have volunteered for Habitat where I learned how to build a house. This year I will be a crew leader. Love to learn new things and challenge myself.What I'm looking for:Professional guyAthletic and toneNon-SmokerSomeone who enjoys a drink now and thenA sense of humorHas at least one solid foot on the ground....I can help with the otherI will only consider people with a photo.I am financially stable and want someone who is as well.* I am not looking for a good ole country boy. Sorry!No FALSE ADVERTISING: Don't say you are 6' when you are 5'8", (I'm 5'6" and I like to wear heels and don't like to be taller than my guy), athletic build when clearly you aren't, non-smoker and yet you smoke. Come on...

  • Hang

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I love to be outside as much as possible, like working in the yard, love saltwater fishing, walking my dog, playing with my son, going to the beach, hiking, motorcycle riding, kayaking, just anything! I am an animal lover, love dogs & will probably always have one. Something is just wrong ... if you don't like dogs!!! They are the most loyal & forgiving things on earth, all they want...is your love & affection... unlike a few people I know. LOl.... no.... but for real.....I am an honest & trustworthy person. I'm not interested in controlling type people OR people that lie even when the truth would be better. The truth will come out one way or another. So if you are a person that has a problem with lying just DON'T contact me. Just be real from the start, don't waste our time with B.S.!! I love to do things on a whim,at least when I can these days. I have a 8 year old son that is 850% all boy, so ya gotta love kids, he is my lil man!! So if your not into kids...keep lookin, my son is awesome & the person I'm with needs to understand he is in my life forever!! I love the feeling of being in love and being loved back just as much, it just feels good! Love to cuddle. Would like a man that is my best friend as well as a boyfriend or husband. Would like to be with someone who wants to do things together & and really have FUN together as a couple in whatever we do. Someone that will help support & be there even in the rough times, not run away, but work thru it. Life & relationships are NEVER gonna be perfect, but a lot of little things can be worked out to prevent the big bad blow ups, but only if you are willing & COMMUNICATE!!!. That's why I believe each others space is so important! Men, need men time & girls need girlie time! Believing in God is a must with me, I'm not a holy roller but I do have God in my heart & life and I want that with whom ever I'm with. Last of all...as much as I like to look nice, I also enjoy getting down & dirty doing fun things outdoors! I bait my own hook & believe it or not,,,I use to run a backhoe/front end loader & box blade,,,so I can hang with the best of the guy things too!! I mean EVERYTHING I say in my profile!!!Have a Great Day!! WARNING: Any *** this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects -You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this." Have a nice quiet dinner get to know one another, see if we click & see how it goes from there.

  • Shenna

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Not interested in writing words Only interested in real personalities that know how to communicate . Very independant have house, job car ect... looking for relatinship or dating. sorry there is no time in my life for driving. Just talk and getting to know eachother.. Hope you live close by . I enjoy waking at park and outdoor activities. Willing to meet at park or public location for first date. Love meeting new people always willing to be freinds if nothing else. Hope life has treated you well if not sill might be interested.

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