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Raelene, 49

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About Me

; "How I wish that I could write you tonight such a letter as I should like to write; but it seems as if my love for you were literally unspeakable...Thoughts of you fill my life. You seem to be in everything I read, in everything I do. I can't enjoy myself without wishing that you might share the enjoyment; I can't read anything that is stimulating or eloquent or *** wishing that I might share it with you. I involuntarily smile in sympathy with anyone who seems happy, because I am happy; I pity everyone who seems down cast because I imagine they are not loved by those whom they love. I am fast losing all semblance of a reputation for dignity because of the way I frolic and joke and rejoice in the manufacture of light-hearted nonsense when I am with my friends. I feel as if I should like very much to repeat poetry all the time ---if I know any to repeat. I am in a fair way to be run away with by this love that has taken possession of me. If you continue to love me and write me such elating letters I don't know what will become of this ththerto respectable person!"Here are a few other things that I have learned about what I like/looking for in a partner:RomanticSense of humorTrustworthyPatientCaringIntelligentSuccessfulPositiveAmbitiousA gentlemanKindI am kind, sweet, and attentive. I am looking for the same in someone I am with and will accept nothing less - because I will give nothing less. Some of the things that I know would NOT be a good match for me:If you are still trying to "find" yourself, have issues with drinking or drugs, want to do nothing but fish or watch Nascar all day...we would not be a good match. If you are looking for a "hook up"...then I know you are not the right man. I am really more interested in meeting someone who has children that are grown - or close to it, but it would necessarily be a deal breaker. I just am at a point in my life that I would like to have a relationship that didn't have to be planned around visitation weekends, or Saturday ball games, etc.(I've been there....trust me I know what you are going through and it is what good parents are SUPPOSED to do!) But, I've spent 25 years doing those things with/for my kids - and I guess am just ready for some "big people" time .....I suppose that makes me sound selfish :(If you are looking to develop a sincere, loving relationship with a sensible, stable, caring woman then I just might be someone you would want to message. I've always believed that it's who you are with more than what you do. If the chemistry is right...then just sitting on a bench can be fun. If it's not there, the most exciting, extravagant date isn't any good.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Macey

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Recently divorced and looking to infuse a little fun back into my life. You know how that goes...a couple of months being sad, a couple of months being angry, a couple of months hanging out with friends and then the decision to put it all behind you and get on with it. I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason and the trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same.So, what am I looking for? Someone fun to hang out with. Someone who wants to catch a live band on a Thursday night or bike the trail on a Saturday afternoon. I try to live a relatively healthy lifestyle and while I'm definitely not a gym rat, I did just start crossfit (after about 3 weeks of internal debate and 10 minutes of sitting in the parking lot talking myself into going inside) and I'm pretty excited about it! Maybe we could flip tires together. :) I should mention that I don't swim so I'm not much of a water baby. In other words, paddle boarding, diving, snorkeling in the Keys, while very Floridian, is not my thing. I might, however, be persuaded to sit on a lawn chair with a cold beer and watch you fish. How about coffee to start? Test the chemistry and see if there is mutual interest? If there is, great...we'll plan an adventure. If not, we both got to meet someone new and drink coffee...how can that be a bad thing?By the way, "wants to date but nothing serious" is not synonymous with "casual encounter". If that's what you're looking for, you won't find it here.

  • Coco

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I am a mother of two wonderful children. They certainly fill my life with joy, laughter and lots of love. I have just earned my BSN and hope to be working as an RN in the very near future! I love to be very active but unfortunately since going to school the past few years my fun has consisted mostly of school work. :( I enjoy all the activies many of you enjoy like the beach, boating, concerts, amusement parks, sporting events and most importantly spending time with my family and friends. I love to laugh and you will very seldom see me in a bad mood.I am looking for that person who wants to take things slowly to build a solid friendship that can last in a life long relationship. My ideal mate would have a great sense of humor, be honest, trustworthy, a great communicator and lover. It would be nice to have someone that I can spend some of my free time with. I want someone that we can at least talk daily and share our life together. If you are looking for a girl that sets goals and achieves them…..then look no further. As you can see I have posted several photos of myself so please have a photo as well. I wish you all luck in finding your special someone…..hopefully it is me :)P.S. This is very sad that I have to add this but if you plan on sending me a picture of your well endowed self please pass me by.....I am much to classy for you. If that is what you want to do it just means we are NOT looking for the same thing. I am sure you can find many women on here that would like to see what you have probably already shared with many others I am just not one of them! I guess it depends on what we both want to do....FYI.....I am not sure how this will come across but there is nothing that bothers me more then someone that can't send a simple Thanks but I'm not interested reply to an *** those that don't want to take the time to type just Copy and paste the following message.....Thanks, but unfortunately I don't think we are a good match.

  • Helena

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    So I'm not blonde, or an athletic model...and I won't ever be (no, I'm not a gym rat). But that doesn't mean you shouldn't check me out. I'm a nice lady looking for a man who will appreciate me for me and allow me to do the same in return. Nothing special, fancy or spectacular. I live a relatively happy life...without drama...I have 2 teens who are rarely home, and all that other stuff that people do and acquire by the time they've reached my age of 49. I work as an Early Childhood Educator with kindergarten children 5 days a week so it keeps me very active...I love this profession and wouldn't trade it for anything. I like a little of everything as my interest list indicates...if not going to see a band, I love listening to music whenever given the opportunity. Not crazy about country, definitely don't like rap... otherwise, I'm game for it all. I like going/watching movies --coms. I love to entertain friends and enjoy their company very much. Drawing, painting and photography are 3 past times I have reconnected with and enjoy immensely. Dancing is also one of my fav past times ... live or dj... it's great fun! I did do ballroom dancing lessons many years ago and would love to do it again.I am told I'm an attractive woman, have all my teeth (yes, the pictures are accurate and current), a minimal amount of wrinkles for a lady my age, long red hair, blue/green eyes, a warm smile and an equally warm heart. I am a casual dress person most of the time but do enjoy dressing up when opportunities present themselves. I would like to meet a man who can wear jeans & a tee, do what needs to be done around the house, loves to do things out and about...doesn't mind dressing up a bit when called upon to do so...and is still relaxed doing it :) Someone who is easy to talk with and will listen. I would love to do more!I would love to do lots of fun, exciting, and different things yet to be discovered...and maybe some romance thrown in for good measure :-)I DON'T want to do endless chat on here. If you are interested, contact me and let's meet for a drink :) Life is meant to be lived outside :)It says long term on my profile but dating for now on the basis it all has to start somewhere right? If you say you are a "non-smoker", please be a non-smoker. If you have younger children, best of luck to you. I'm at a point in my life where my kids don't need me as much and I want to be able to spend time enjoying the company of a male friend/companion.Out of courtesy, it's nice if you respond at the very least to say ...Thank you for your interest. Looking forward to hearing from you... after the initial meet and greet... guess it's up to both of us. I do like surprises though... I am a romantic at heart... so if you know what romance is all about, you will know what to do :-)

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