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Erlinda, 46
United States, Georgia, Vidalia

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About Me

I am a secure single female BBW and knows what she is looking for in a man. If you can't handle honesty and be drama free in a relationship then keep looking. I need someone who can be in it 100% just as I will be there for them. Friends 1st, I'm not into jumping into bed with just anyone JUST BECAUSE, and if you think you can change my mind you are seriously mistaken.I am honest to the point of being blunt, caring, trustworthy, funny, a bit on shy side at first, but warms up easy to the right person, I have a good heart and a strong moral attitude.People tease me that I am too independant and allow my "relationships" too much space, well that's just the way I am. I'm not looking to change anyone, decide anyones future, or fix their problems, but I am however willing to respect that this special man has his own life outside of mine, the choice to be his own person, and the freedom to do whatever it is that makes him happy. It's up to them to live by their own moral compass. Having said that, I am by no means a push-;mis-interpretation of events", if you know what I mean! Stand by your word, control your actions, and live your life, and you will get all my respect.What I am looking for is a flexible man who doesn't always see it my way, or his way, more of our way. He should be down to earth, more on the funny side than the serious, life is too screwed up to take it serious anyways! Even if I dont find it all that funny you will at least get a smile LOL!!!I am having a bit of trouble with older guys, we don't seem to have a good connection. So if you are older please be young at heart! Know at least some of the top 40 thats out now, hip hop or country I'm not much into the heavy metal even though both my boys tried to hypnotize me at night with it for years... And lets face it, there has to be some common ground and mutual attraction. And the very last thing, I have tattoos not just one or two...10.Sorry, if you still are living the soap opera, please stay away, I don't watch much TV! I'm not a home wrecker, a rebound, or "just because" kind of girl.All my children are grown adults, have their own lives, makin their own babies, I don't need a sitter,or a father for them. I just want a decent man, someone who will respect me, understand my life doesn't always involve them and that we can spend time apart and really not be mad, sad, hurt, or cheating on each other.AND IF YOU DO NOT HAVE A RECENT PICTURE FELLAS FORGET IT, IT HAS ALREADY STARTED WITH A LIE!!... I am truthful with my appearance, NO SURPRISES HERE!! I understand that alot of men do not like bigger girls and I am fine with that, I don't really care for skinny guys either, so we are even :), My pants may say Yoga, but my butt still says McDonalds :). But seriously guys, try a CURRENT picture. I thought only women did that!! UUUGGHHH!!! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm interested in meeting someone who enjoys what they have chosen to do with their lives and is tolerant of others. Someone who is full of "joie de vivre", kind, well balanced, sensual,has a great sense of humour, intelligent and loves animals. Someone who enjoys sitting quietly with a book or in meditation, or taking an energetic hike on local trails, or hanging out on Mayne Island or traveling to Europe. Ideally we'd have fun doing ordinary things like grocery shopping! My friends say I am "a delightful human being: playful, passionate, funny, open hearted, respectful, easy going, full of life, imaginative and easy to be with." Things I am most thankful for: that I had a loving supportive family growing up, that I am energetic, have good health, a kind heart and a great sense of humor,and that I live near the ocean and mountains. Looking forward to meeting someone who shares these qualities, appreciates their family and has a good relationship with their siblings.I am passionate about having art and culture an ongoing part of my life. I love to makefriends laugh, and find new adventures. Energetic, upbeat, curvaceous and easy to talk to, I am a good listener and have diverse taste in music! Looking for someone who is also a good listener and curious conversationalist.As a creative person, my interests include writing, theatre, singing & song writing, performing, cooking, traveling, painting, yoga and movies.A healthy lifestyle is important to me, going to the gym, swimming, tennis, Yin yoga and Pilates....hiking boot and pearls I've got em. Ideally we'd encourage each other to live our best lives.Not your ordinary fish.(Must have photo to contact this user. Must not be married. Someone who is available, time wise!) Meet for coffee and or a walk, to see how we click...That "first meet" is just casual friendly meeting with another human being, to see if we enjoy each others company.Second or third date... Tennis (I'm level 2), Dancing, Swimming & hot tub, Movie, Theatre, Hiking, Biking, Kayaking...

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    As a contented lady I live a pretty happy life. It treats me good! I have always liked living on the coast and enjoy almost things outside such as gardening, boating (have sailboat) home renos, or walking my dog.I have been single for awhile and haven't been looking up to now. My friends tell me my receptors are shut off! (they also point out that I would be a great catch for someone). I would probably need some training but I am very open to a cooperative merger.My man should be a happy and confident guy too.I love music, I think I can sing and do so at random times, just 'cause. Variety of experiences and perspective make life interesting thus I cannot exactly define my ideal guy. Let's chat if you are intrigued. ***friendly.I am too old and wise to waist time so if you are not really looking for a special long term woman thank you for checking me out, but...

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Time to change up the profile!I am really not sure about this meetville thing, but am willing to give it a try. I am a self employed mom to two kids and that sure takes up a lot of time, but I am committed to chiseling out time for the right person this year. I like going for walks and plan to renew my interest in tennis, squash and boating this year (probably in the form of rowing or paddling but that's ok:)) I like dining out, live theater, the symphony and the opera. I'm adventurous and love a challenge.I'm looking for a professional man who has his sh*ttogether, who is challenged by his work and has his baggage neatly stowed away:) If he is physically fit that is great, we could do activities together, but you don't have to be rabid about it, just healthful and (at least) working towards fit. You should also be a gentleman who knows how to treat a lady and who knows there are certain moments a gentleman isn't needed. If you have kids that's ok... I'm not looking to be their mom anymore than I want you to be my kids dad. I will always be respectful of your commitment to your kids first as I would expect you to be of my commitment to mine.Please have a picture on your profile or I likely won't reply and if you do have a pic and I don't reply, that's my way of saying "thanks but I'm not interested"Oh this is hard! There is so much more to me than can be written here as I am sure there is to you... so message me and let's see if there is a spark. Oh and btw... if you message me and expect me to talk to you about my sexual preferences in the first few conversations... don't bother...won't happen. Something where we can get to know each other... lots of talking is required... so no movies please:)... Tea (I don't drink coffee but you can:)) or wine or beer somewhere? Walk the seawall... sit and chat while looking at the ocean? How about when we get to talking about meeting, we'll decide together what we'll do?

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