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Gillian, 46

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About Me

*** Disclaimer I'm not always online when it says "online" my phone has a mind of it's own.**** While I am very flattered by the attention, I DO NOT date outside my race or anyone who wants to SHARE me with his WIFE or girlfriend (or son). So Black and/or Married is Deal Breaker.Like my headline says this is also a work in progress......I tried this when I was overseas and met some really nice folks to hang out with and I traveled some. I love to stay in touch. So about me...... I threw my work boots away when I got off the plane in Dubai. I eventually have to go back to work maybe something less dramatic like bartender or flight attendant for a lil' while.Tired of trying to save the whole world maybe time to try and save just my little part of it.Just got home and I plan on hanging out on this side of the world for awhile. I like all kinds of music and all kinds of food. I love to dress up, but I'm more comfy in my jeans and flippie floppies.If the destination includes the word beach I'm in. I enjoy the mountains in the fall when the colors are brightest.;I want to see anywhere big enough for that plane to land", or "oh no my plane left me" (again) Got tired of the plane leaving without me so when my son turned grown I started traveling, but my mom says I leave just so I can come home, I really love coming home. My family is all local. There are 50 of us on Christmas morning. I never get to sit at the "adult table" but I carry on a fairly intelligent conversation when I am in the mood. I love to ride, but I don't own a bike. Big trucks and fast cars are sexy.My exes (yes I have plural) and I usually remain friends. We were friends to start with, and stay friends even thru the hard times. I've been told I'm independent to a fault.(its an act to hide my insecurities) I seem to fall for "action figures" (police fire Marine Medic) Still looking for a superhero in uniform, knight in cowboy boots, or just someone that the thought of seeing makes me smile each time. Being over seas has made me really appreciate holding hands, I'm a very affectionate person. Sometimes a touch or soft word is all it takes to put a person at ease. I tend to wear my heart on my sleeve, so it occasionally gets broken. I expect people to be and do what they say when they say it when they don't I get my feelings hurt.(though you may not see it, I hide it pretty well)Have I sparked your interest at all ? Coffee Shop to talk or Margaritas and Mexican on a patio somewhere ? Nothing too formal or high pressure until we're comfortable with each other I would hate to sneak out the back door on you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kristian

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Into fitness as I am a trainer & work all kinds of hours training & teaching group fitness classes, so when i do have free time i want to enjoy it. I'm pretty straitforward and tell it like it is. Not into games and i've learned by being on this website you're open to all kinds of them. I hope you at least kind of have your life together cuz i'm not looking for someone to take care of. If you're looking for just a hook up don't bother messaging cuz i won't answer. And if you're not the person you portray yourself to be remember if you do meet up with someone they are going to see who you are offline. Sounds hard i know, but it is what it is. If you don't take a chance you never know but it really would be great if it started off on the right foot. That being said i do enjoy life and spend alot of time with family and friends. I'll try anything once and always have a good time. Its the people not the things that make my life. Hoping to meet someone to enhance it, not make it for me. Basically i'm looking for someone to spend time with who enjoys spending time with me. If you're looking for a grown up relationship and think you can handle this shoot me a message and see what you get. If not good luck fishing and i hope you find what you're looking for. As for a first date, coffee or a lunch. If there's interest on boths sides then we can take it from there.

  • Shawn

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Hi, thanks for reading my profile. Let me start by saying that I am not here just to make new friends and date. I am seriously looking for a long term relationship. I have full custody of my 12 year old daughter and 11 year old son who are my world. I come from a very close family who all live locally. I'm a very caring and honest person, to a fault sometimes. I speak my mind and appreciate someone who is up front with me. I'm not into games and the right one must be faithful and honest. Communication is key. I'm very open, easy going, interested in trying new things, and have a good sense of humor. I like get togethers with family and friends, dancing, going out to dinner, love the beach, water and water sports, getting back into downhill skiing, variety of music, hockey, festivals, and not very good at it-but I like to golf. Want to become scuba certified for those warm weather vacations. Hoping to do more camping and travel in the near future. Like spontaneous day, overnight, or weekend trips. Exercise on and off and would love to find someone that would be willing to exercise with me and keep the motivation going. Want someone who is active and committed to living a healthy lifestyle. I am a Christian and I'm looking for someone who also believes. I attend a non-denominational church and it would be great to find someone who wants to grow in faith together. I also think everyone should know what their love language is and that of their partner. If you don't know what I'm talking about, I recommend you get the book and read it. I can go from working in the yard to dress and heals for dinner in less than an hour. I get along with my ex and we communicate pretty well concerning the kids. So, all this being said....if your a positive, (cup more than half full) kind of guy, and you're trustworthy, fun, have a sense of humor, enjoy some of the things listed above, and hoping to find the right one, send me a note and lets see where it goes. Please have a picture or send one with *** goes both ways. Thanks and best wishes on your search. Would depend on our level or length of communication up to that point. Whatever the two of us agreed upon. I'm pretty easy going. Quiet place for coffee and conversation is always a good...see where it goes from there...walk on the beach, sunset, or live music and dancing are always fun. --Attention--Saw this in another profile and since I've had someone do something with my info before... Any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law.

  • Melisa

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello I am very honest sincere faithful I do NOT Bit** argue fight or complain. Im not into shopping sprees I want to travel some and just be happy. I am looking for the man thats not afraid to show affection a hands on man. walk hand in hand with and maybe steal a kiss or 2.

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