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Isobel, 48

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Hi... welcome... and thanks for checking out my profile.I'm a fun loving, happy, down to earth and social person. I have a great job & two wonderful kids ***& 23). I am not a serial dater....just looking for that one special person to share my life with. Someone who is fun to be with, honest and caring. Distance is not an issue - connection is most important. I tried dating someone without kids and they just don't get it (if you have kids, you'll understand)! My children are a big part of my life yet, they are not my whole life - there is always room for a special someone, especially now that they are older. Family and friends are important to me and should be to you as well yet having time together, just us two, is just as important.I believe in open, and truthful communication. Honesty is the best policy and if you can't be yourself with a person, you shouldn't be with that person! After all, your "real" personality will come out in the end!I am confident with both my inner and outer beauty, and I like a man who is self assured and confident as well. I watch what I eat but I'm not a freak about it.... I keep my mind and body in good condition and value others who do the same...then I'd have to say 'yes"...lol) but I am looking for a relationship with substance. Friends first and foremost... I'm a one-man woman who gives 110% to a relationship and I expect similiar in return. I'm a very giving person by nature - be good to me and I'll be GREAT to you ; )My ideal match is someone who is loyal, honest, and trustworthy. You will be the first person I think about in the morning and my last thought at night. You are smart enough to realize there are no perfect people in this world and, if you're lucky enough to find someone who loves you for who are are, someone who shares your likes, hopes and dreams - you grab on tight ; )You will be a good communicator and realize everything worthwhile in life takes some work - including relationships. You will know how to have a good time whether that's a night downtown, a week in the Carribean or a weekend camping! We will have that special connection and "spark" so it won't matter if we're out and about, sitting at home watching the game or cooking together because we enjoy JUST BEING TOGETHER. We will be best friends who make plans often because we miss each other when apart.Lastly, if you do not fall into my age requirements, please do not contact me! I'm not looking to date boys my son's age and I don't need a Sugar Daddy....lolIf you are emotionally unavailable or looking to just date around - don't contact me.I want to share my life with someone who can appreciate and recipricate all I have to give.Thanks for taking the time to read my profile.Let's chat and get to know one another. Location isn't important... the company is ; )Having said that, first meetings are always hard..... so I prefer a place that puts us both at ease. How does sitting by the water, watching the sun set, while sipping a glass of wine and talking sound?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I will keep this short, we are all busy...Looking for a great guy with energy, humour and compassion. Someone with a respectful attitude is also essential. I don't have a lot of must have/must nots, I tend to be flexible and open to many makes and models :)I'm at a place in my life where I have room for someone to share my time and have fun with! I've learned to laugh at myself and let many things that might have concerned me in the past now roll off me. I would be looking for someone with the same outlook. I am financially AND emotionally stable and would expect the same. I'm a mom with four fabulous kids (2 home, 2 away). But, they don't need me as much as they once did, I did my job well, and I have more time to myself. I have a job that I absolutely love and I am blessed to never spend a day without laughter and smiles.I won't bore you with a laundry list of every sport and activity I have been involved in or tried in the hopes of appearing to be something more than I am. I am in good shape, I enjoy being healthy and active, I work out regularly, end of story.Please don't be insulted if I don't reply. While I appreciate the effort it takes, I tried responding with a "thanks for taking the time to say hi" type message and got some nasty replies, so if I don't say hi back I still wish you best of luck in your search. Let's have coffee and see where we might go from there...

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Hello,I am a positive person and am described by others as easy going. I like to think of myself as down to earth and I definitely have a dry sense of humor. I am financially responsible and have integrity in all aspects of my life. I always respect other people, and their ideas. I feel at home in formal surroundings as I do in a third world country. I can always find the good side of people.I like an easy going self-assured man that is financially secure, fun loving and is not an addict or has been an addict of any kind.I also like to take care of myself, stay active and like a man that generally does the same.I have traveled extesivly lived in central America and Europe. I am definitely not high maintenance and as I’ve mentioned easy going, however not a complete push over either LOL.And yes I'm an upfront no hidden agenda type person (in case you hadn’t noticed) ;)I would like to be involved in a stable, positive and monogamist relationship, but I dont want to take it too seriously either.If you truley have good intentions and want to get to know each other through dating, having fun, and enjoying each moment, then I hope to hear form you. Living in the present and not the past is a must. :) My photos are 1 year old or less. And yes I look exactly like my photos and so should you. ;) I think a great first date would be to meet for coffee or if you have a dog at the dog park. I'm open to what you would like to do as well.

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

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