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Alayah, 49

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About Me

about me...... well... i'm playful & easygoing...independent and stubborn....but gentle and submissive when i need to be. I'm outgoing and gregarious... yet have shy side that i just cant explain at times.... am goofy and fun...yet practical and serious, but thoughtful and kind..... Too nice for my own good.... Wow!!! now that makes no sense!! Pretty ridiculous sense of humour...but i dont get jokes!I'm a nice girl.... sincere and brutally honest... and have a heart that cannot say no to anyone. Love kids and dogs!!!! Mine are grown and gone.... and now its time for me....Profile says im looking for a relationship. I dont know what i'm looking for to be honest. I would love to meet someone to spend time with and figure it out from there..... there's no rush in anything worth anything.im a country girl who loves living in the city. grew up on the water and am at home there for sure..... love the 70's era of music... but find myslef belting out the words to some 80s stuff at times.... ohhhh the 80s were mean to us all no? dont make fun....but i am a Leafs fan...... all the jokes in the world will not change it.....this girl loves road trips.... just to get out of town where no one can find you!!!! luv it.... love to spend time with my friends.... but love going into hiding more.... i live a simple life...but love spontenaety if you have it..... what else....omg thats enough already im sure.... xo would love to just do coffee.... or stop by the pub for a casual pint...talk and see what goes from there.... i'm open to new ideas.... something casual and fun would be good

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Janeth

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I am not in a hurry to get into a relationship because I want the fairy tale this time around! I am looking for a good looking, well established, confident, intelligent, fun-lovin', funny, athletic man! I hope that his expectations are as high as mine. I am very self-supportive and I am not looking for someone to support me. I love to have fun and enjoy life. I want to spend the rest of my life with my best friend, with which I have an unbelievable chemistry and many of the same interests. I love college football and almost any sporting event. For a first date I would prefer to meet at a quiet restaurant where we can have a long relaxing dinner with a nice bottle of wine and plenty of time to get to know each other. If we do seem to become friends during dinner it would be nice to pursue more conversation either at an outside cabana, or a piano bar.

  • Abbigail

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm quite a bit different from most gals-most people even. I'm an Avid gardener, outdoors woman (as in I have a serious 'relationship' with the outdoors. (( Pioneered in the BC wilds for 1 yr, built log cabin, no outside contact, -.)), smart (duo masters) , very very playful, & mostly sane! An accomplished artist, adore most kids (wish i could have had more), fun mom I'm told (by my very cool 10 yr old), traveler ***countries), 13 yrs as expat in Jpn, good dancer, democrat, am goofy often (not weird- just goofy like sing a little opera baritone when I cook Italian), bold and blunt as is needed, love good food -espec sauces and seafood, have chickens (for the glee of it - have some that lay blue eggs), bunnies, a tabby, goldfish. Just dug a swim pond on my farm. (hmm, now what..) Guess what I get to research this winter by the fire? I'm also learning golf as a meditation. Relationship wisened. I am very loyal. I am 100% committed when I do commit (I was married a lovely 13 yrs and the 2nd was a big oops of 2 yrs). Know the joy of 'service' ( yea I figured something important out!!). 2nd degree is Master of Social Work (service).-, Sail as a lifestyle: Cat, herbs, and geraniums aboard, and of course my wonderful mate... because all this is scary. (And it's so much better to be scared together. Just holding hands is soooo under-rated)...any good playoffs, any quality music - all grand! I am happy in my life (it's been a lot of dedication, work, and dug up faith***and am looking for someone who is also happy, believes in magic, what you think is what you get, good morals, practices Empathy, not lazy, brave, knows they are are going to die, accepts and is a bit gritty and a bit sweet as all possible parts of character. I've noticed that I grow by being the best wife, mother, woman (&). I am not a fixed type of person and am "mutable" by nature and love the challenges and growth (Adaptation!) of being that way. Intelligence reserves the right to change it's mind frequently. Curiosity, creativity, and a genuine sense of play are essential. Have learned life is mostly perception. I think, by nature, I am never too serious & always serious, all at once. Belly laughter and touches are the love-o-meter my home. I know I need a cheerful mate who is a good: communicator, physical lover, thinker, dreamer, self aware and a do-er. Just friendship and sharing hobby/brains/ aptitudes or that 'special ka-zingggg one' ....both scenarios are welcomed. If you have substance issues, are abusive in any way-on any level, have a temper, lazy, depressed, dull, or just want to meet me because it just might be cool to do so, well.. then please carry on without me. Thanks for reading all this- it's a lot- hopefully worth it on some level for you. I may or may not respond if you *** am sorry. Sometimes life calls. I am busy. or.. i sense you are not the one for me....or I am just not sure...and may rtn to your profile many times.. before I decide. My best gal pal said it best, that i should write..... "you have read a little here about me, and all I can really say (as she recommends) is.... 'Seeks Same". Be well. Ahh heck, i don't know! It's so often about the scent/ chemicals anyway.

  • Kell

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a hard working, fun loving, down to earth, southern girl! Enjoy camping, I go alone ... well almost, I take my Dawg with me! Love almost anything out doors! I am looking for someone honest and loyal. Somenone who wants to explore this world with me. Someone to enjoy the little things in life as well! I listen mostly to Country music, but enjoy all kinds. Oh yeah I am a redhead lol, so if you dare drop me a line! Meet at a resturant and have Coffee and breakfast. Either off on a hike. Or a drive into the mountains, beach ( I am versital ) ... you learn alot about a person on a long ride in a car! A picnic that was prepaired for me, maybe even a nice bottle of Marlot. With music playing, a dance or two. If all is still going well and that chemistry feels good. Out for Dinner and maybe drinks and dancing or Karoke. Okay though I love to ride on the back of a motor cycle too, just saying ; ) Taking in a museum, and going to Six Flags, Stone mt. or the zoo would be nice too! Now the work has been done for ya (lol) ... where ya at?

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