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Avelina, 48

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About Me

I am a pretty relaxed type of person. Looking to focus on happiness and get out and have fun... I like sporting events, horse back riding for relaxation and recreation. I am just as happy with a nice night by a fire with friends, and a cooler within reach, not having to fight through a crowd to get any kind of refreshment. That is all good every so often but not an every weekend event for me. I am a social drinker but not big on drunks....cant handle that kind of thing! Not a smoker but I do like the smoke of a bonfire! anytime anywhere or.a.bbq with family and friends. Family and friends are an essential part off my life.I have to say I love to laugh, and I have a pretty raw sense of humor and very witty.I am a retired Veteran (GO NAVY). I continue my service and work with our AMERICAN HEROES! I couldn't ask for a better job. "It's our turn to serve! What am I looking for .. a creative minded man. someone with an honest heart and compassionate but not emotionally starving. Someone stable in all aspects.Finding this online "fishing" a challenge as it just does not reflect Who a person truly is..thanks for viewing my profile! If you text me please be original....one liners are not attractive at this age! however reserve them for a good laugh if we reach the point of a meeting...laughter can break the ice... I am a talker, I wanna get to know you, who you are, what you do, where you have been, goals long term and short term. Not looking for dazzle, just the truth. We arent perfect people so I dont want a perfect line......So with all that being said, I would like to go somewhere where a discussion between 2 can be heard. I am a coffee junkie so a get to know me/know you date would be great at any coffee spot...or thermos on the beach,park, etc..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aliya

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    Family and friends would tell you that they consider me to be Intelligent, Fun to be around, Personable, Classy, Devoted, Compassionate, Considerate of others, Romantic, Passionate, and Witty. Whew! That's a pretty extensive and modest list, huh? ;) Well, let's go with it since I do feel that it truly does depict my character. So why still single you may ask? Career development over the past few years probably got the best of me, as well as a wrong turn or 2 along the way. :) Ok now, let's move on.... I'm searching for my best friend and confidant to share great times as well as the inevitable, not-so-great times. I want yours to be the first voice I hear in the morning and the last voice I hear at the end of the day. Someone with as little baggage as possible, (after all, everybody's got some) would be appreciated. I enjoy the finer things that life has to offer, although its the simple things that make me most happy. You'll see that should you get to know me well enough. I don't fit the high maintenence profile! I'm considered easy going and up for anything, as well as doing nothing at all with the right guy! As we all would probably agree, when the company is right, it's all good!!! I'm a very loving and caring girl so if you're able to show affection and appreciation, I promise that you'll receive that much more in return from me! How great is it when you can just look into each other's eyes and know exactly what they're thinking or know someone so intimately well that you can literally complete each other's sentences? The idea of knowing, that on any given day which may seem extremely challenging, your special someone can keep you grounded and make you feel like nothing is insurmountable - there for you always, as you are in return, providing a comforting love that is indescribable! Always making you feel beautiful, inside and out. Experiencing these feelings in a relationship is absolutely priceless!!!!! While I love a self-confident man, I also admire one who is not afraid to expose his weaknesses. Feeling completely comfortable with your partner is key! With that said, I'm somewhat of a realist and know that this doesn't come along everyday. The 8 essential traits I'm looking for in you include being: HONEST, LOYAL, AMBITIOUS, ATTENTIVE, AFFECTIONATE, PASSIONATE, and HUMOROUS. Oh yes, of course being a REAL CUTIE doesn't hurt either! NO PLAYERS NEED APPLY since the man I'm searching for should be looking to form a committed relationship (once we both determine that we are a match) with an intelligent, confident, sweet girl who appreciates the same qualities in a man. Chemistry is necessary to complete the picture. It's either there or its not. You simply can't force it! I believe love should have no boundaries, and that includes geographical, however if we are states apart, it is unlikely that it will work for me. If it's meant to be, we'll know. Now that you know a bit more about me and what I am looking for in a relationship, are you still interested??? If what you've read appeals to you, and you miss being "The Other Half", but also embrace your independence, we might just be a match.

  • Columbine

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Now that my son is nearly grown, I have more time for me! Just "me" is getting kinda dull, so I'd love to make the me, a "WE!" =)So as not to scare away those that like correct grammar, I know that the "we" should have really been an "us"...but not as catchy...sorry ;)!I am a pretty unique gal that does not fit the mold of most women. If it is a girlie girl that you are looking for, then I am not the one for you. I love to sweat and don't mind getting dirty. Don't get me wrong, I do clean up nicely too! I am not one to talk much about pop culture, in fact, I am not really sure who the Kardasians are, or even care to know...Not much of a TV watcher either. I am not materialistic and live pretty simply. If your profile pic is of you standing in front of your expensive car...we are probably not a match. Also...I have noticed many of you guys are into your motorcycles! Honestly, they really scare the heck out of me...being an orthopaedic nurse...so if this is an important part of your lifestyle, I don't think I can share that with you.I am an independent, down to earth, positive, and basically happy person. I am looking for that man out there who will thrill me, challenge me , inspire me, and be my missing piece. I am in a wonderful place in life....it is truly good...and look forward to sharing my happiness and time with that special guy.I live a healthy lifestyle and and am very fit and active. I love anything outdoors! Swimming, hiking ,biking, kayaking, beaches, lakes, mountains...can you introduce me to more?I am an avid runner and love the challenge of races, the longer the better! I adore my running friends, but would love to have a new training partner ;)! There is something very special and intimate about working out alongside a partner.....I want that. I also enjoy Yoga and practice nearly every day. This world of flexibility, strength, grace, and spirituality is my new frontier. I would also love to share this love with a Yogi guy!I like to cook and am getting better and more creative now that my son is past the chicken nugget stage. There is nothing more satisfying than feeding someone and getting their genuine compliments! All healthy stuff...if you like a steady diet of grease, you will become bored with me and my choices.I love music and always try to keep a good song in my head. When the going gets tough, just start singing it! I especially like classic rock, jam bands, reggae, and the blues. Love live shows in smaller venues or at huge outdoor festivals. Bob Marley once said: "a good thing about music, when it hits you, you feel no pain"...ahhhh so true, at least for me :)On the spiritual side, I am a thoughtful, kind person that always seems to take the side of the underdog. I've been told I have a big heart. Born and raised a Catholic. It is my foundation, and has helped to shape who I am today...although I haven't been to church much lately, I am more spiritual than ever. I find that I no longer need rules and structure to help me be my best possible caring and compassionate and peaceful me....I try to live by the Golden Rule. When you think about it, isn't it the basis behind every world religion?I hope to find a like minded, passionate man who also does not fit the mold. Please, please be happy, optimistic, fit, active and soulful. Did I mention fit?? Respect for your mind, body and soul should be a priority. Are you kind? Crunchy, chewy and yummie are an added bonus also! Did I mention fit? Oh yes, I did...sorry to be redundant but this is a must. One that knows the correct use of an apostrophe and "their, there, they're" is a bonus too!Intimacy and affection are also very important to me. You too?Are you out there? I look forward to meeting you......together!

  • Ila

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I have a good sense of humor and appreciate that in others, I love to laugh. I'm honest, loyal, fiesty, fun, passionate and enjoy the little things in life most people don't take the time to notice. Think it's important to give back (receiving ain't too bad either!.a good horror movie...kind of hard to find, again the classics.Love anything English, especially Downton Abbey despite them killing off Matthew!Food, whats not to like??

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