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Jacque, 49

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About Me

A little about me:My kids are grown, out of the house, and I'm looking for someone to get through my "bucket list" with. I have lots to do, see, and explore - are you in?For a more detailed description of me - I work hard and want to start playing hard too. I'm a bit of a junkie when it comes to learning about virtually anything. I've traveled quite a bit but still have many more places to explore. I continually strive to be the best person I can be, am typically self motivated but I'm looking for someone that challenges me to be a better person.I love music - all genre's. I find it interesting that virtually every man's profile on this site says they are looking for someone that is affectionate. Must be a lot of frigid women out there. Of course we are looking for someone that shows affection, otherwise I would just stay single. I don't need a guy to pay my bills (I've got that covered). Don't need any more friends really (although my ideal partner would also be my best friend). So, yes, a little affection would be nice.I love the outdoors (except when it is cold). I like dancing, bicycling, walking, hiking, playing basketball, gardening, and virtually anything else that requires me to be outdoors. I guess what may make me unique is the odd combination of being a "free spirit" yet very career focused. I'm quick to laugh but not afraid to make tough decisions. I want to experience each and every day of my life to the fullest extent possible, and to realize my full potential. I've worked very hard my entire life and spent a lot of time multi-tasking - now I want to just "be in the moment" and truly experience every thing and every person as it (or they) cross my path.I love to laugh and a great sense of humor is a must for my likely partner. Make me laugh and you are halfway there with me. Have brains, a legal source of income, no addictions, a little romance, and a sense of humor and you are pretty much golden. I try to live my life without a lot of expectations. Life is too difficult as it is without placing expectations on someone you hardly know. I'd like to meet a person that is responsible, can laugh easily, is willing to discuss "deep" topics, carry a conversation, and is ready to have fun. On a first date I would enjoy the opportunity to be someplace where we can talk and get to know each other - the zoo, a walk through the park, dinner and maybe a club where the music is nice but not so loud you can't have a conversation. Just please don't take me to a movie on a first date, please (the use of the word "please" twice was intentional).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

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