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BelyndaOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
Don’t need too much just let me be all about you during the moments I’m with you… wrapped around the fingers, hugging you. I badly need a tender, romantic, loyal and sincere caring partner.
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SelinaOffline
Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 47-57
I'm an extremely busy professional but getting close to retirement,who is extremely independent, (set in my ways - where's the font setting? I'd prefer that in small print), financially secure and emotionally stable. I have a never ending desire to experience it all. I will try anything that sounds like fun - the unique or even the unusual. Very young at heart - need someone similar and close in age! I'm confident but I'm not stuck on myself. I know my strong points but it gets better - I know all my faults too (but I certainly won't be spilling the beans here! Not on purpose anyways!)I suppose I should get some things out of the way - for *** is a dating site and we won't all click with each other. We all know what we are and aren't looking for. For me and my hectic schedule - long distance romance will most likely leave us both frustrated. Also I date within my age range - plus or minus about 5 yrs. or so - that will most likely assure that we are close to being at the same stage in life. I'm also not here to chat, kill time, play games etc - I truly am super busy and I really know what I want. If you've lied about anything in your profile - age, marital status, self sufficiency etc - it definitely won't go over well. And believe me I know how cold and impersonal this sounds and it is so sad that it's totally necessary - but I've been here a while and I'm not interested in settling ~ I'll wait for the real deal. ( P.S. the real deal will have read my profile and feel like he knows me and he'll put some thought into communicating intelligently and unoffensively)Although the past has shaped us into who we are today - I would prefer to leave the past behind as much as possible. I'm friendly still with those who I've had relationships with in the past but I'm completely over any romantic attachments I may have once felt. I don't want to spend too much time thinking or talking about where I've been and I'm not really overly interested in hearing the blow by blow details of someone elses missteps. I've come here unattached and very ready to check my baggage. I'm active - enjoy being fit and need someone who is able to keep up with me. You MUST be social and able to communicate effectively!! Although psychic phenomenon intrigues me - I have to admit that I am not very good at reading minds or even reading between the lines! I have had difficulty in the past because I listened to words and didn't pay attention to actions that didn't match the words. But wisdom comes with age truly is the case. I say what I feel and do what I say! It really is that simple. Although I am a nurturer at heart, I would prefer that you be self sufficient, I want to hang up my mothering hat for a while, if you know what I mean! If you cook that's a plus. I'm a simple gal when it comes to food - I think my smile is my best feature and I could lose myself in an expressive set of eyes! An impish smile and a great sense of humor are both a plus. I can tell a great story. When something goes wrong, I'm usually capable of laughing it off and announcing that "This too will make a great story ... someday!" I am not too much of a homebody although I enjoy being home working on a project or in the yard but I love to travel ... 5 star accommodations not necessary. I live on a lake ~ finally in my dream home. Love the outdoors ... beaches, boating, hiking, rock climbing and long walks with the dogs! Although I enjoy being fit and active - I'm not very good at winter sports - the MRI of the knee after snowboarding with my daughter proves as much! Like snowmobiling, jet-ski's and spending time with family and friends - playing cards, board games or charades. I enjoy playing racquetball and volleyball through the local Park & Rec drop in program. I also enjoy a good game of cutthroat setback and am on a setback league. I enjoy an occasional "Girls Poker Night". I like to watch sports at times - I'll bet on anything for fun - football, "March Madness" and whether the moon will be out tonite! I'm slightly competitive (font setting???) but I'm never a sore loser. It really is all about having fun.I have a diverse and interesting collection of friends which makes me gravitate towards people who are not bigots or judgmental. I love to laugh and get along best with people with a good sense of humor.I can be passionate about a lot of things and stubborn at times. (Still haven't found that font setting! LOL ) I am honest, loyal and trustworthy and always about 10 mins late. My Dad used to say I'll be late for my own funeral and I'm hoping to prove him right on at least that point! I'm very close to my family - I come from a very loving background. One brother, one sister, nieces, nephews - a beautiful daughter, my Mom - they are very important to me. My Dad recently passed and we alI miss him terribly.I am open to but not necessarily looking for a serious relationship at this time and I certainly don't need to be rescued, I am open to spending quality time with the right man for me. Although I do consider myself a realist when it comes to the dating scene - I have to admit that I secretly hope that the man who can make me go weak in the knees is not just a figment of my imagination.
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LeeanneOffline
Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 43-53
(Updated ***I've been on meetville before. I was on for approximately 3 months total. I met some very nice people while I was on here. Sadly long distances, job schedules and such can make life difficult. Also life gets busy, friends get sick and loved ones need us. Life is always busy but it does go on and so I've decided to try this again.I'm separated and eager to move on with my life after a long term marriage of 24 years (his decision....not mine). I'm beginning my journey to move on with my life with a positive and hopeful outlook. I'm not looking for a casual hookup but for someone to do things with and get to know. Someone to go places with, share laughs and enjoy one another's company. Because ultimately friendship is very important in a relationship. Someone to spend some quality time with and if there's a spark, then we'd see where it leads us to. And if no spark, then maybe we will have gained a friend. I realize that being separated at this point is a deterrent for many. I understand that. However, I also know that life is far too short. It gets lonely and we're not getting any younger. I ask myself if I want to take that chance and possibly miss out on meeting that special someone simply because all of the i's haven't been dotted and all of the t's haven't been crossed just yet. There is no drama in the separation or future divorce. It simply is what it is.If you're still reading.......then I guess I haven't scared you away yet. :-)Honesty, integrity, trust and respect mean a lot to me. Without these 4 things in a relationship, you have nothing. I'm old-fashioned. Does that sound boring? Maybe. :-) But there are worse things in life. :-)I'm a very busy and active person with many interests. Definitely not a couch potato (although a nice movie and cuddling are enjoyable too). It doesn't matter if it is working at home, exercising, helping someone out, going some place and doing something fun. I'm looking for someone who is willing to do things with me. And yet .......it's also healthy to have our own interests in life. I'm a country girl. Plain and simple. I'm not into designer this and that. And yet.........I do take good care of myself, like to look nice and I do like to dress up. I work hard and like to play hard. I'm not into the bar scene at all but sometimes it's nice to go listen to a band play. It's the little things in life that make me happy and that I appreciate. You do not need to spend a lot of money in life in order to have a good time. We live in a beautiful region which we should explore and appreciate.I grew up with horses, dogs, cats & one guinea pig. I love animals. However, they do require a lot of love, attention, time and work. Someday I hope to have another dog in my life. I do love horses but our area has grown so rapidly that there's really no safe place to ride any longer.As for music. I LOVE all kinds of music including old and new (with the exception of rap, metal and opera). I'd say I have a diverse appreciation for all types (even some dub step). I enjoy plays, ballet & different performances. I grew up with an old player piano and even know songs from the ***'s.I'm 5'8". Not a short petite woman and by no means an extremely tall woman. But taller than quite a few other women. This is my one and only hang up in life. I don't know why, but it is. When it comes to friends, I love everyone and do not care how tall they are. But eventually when I do find someone to spend my future with, I'd like them to be taller than my 5'8". I love children and have two older boys of my own (ages ***senior in HS & ***is in college). If you have children, that's fine with me since children have a way of making life fun and help to keep us young...............(for the most part - although maybe that's where some of my gray hair came from lol). Sometimes parenting can be tiring but it's well worth the effort.I love to laugh and love to smile (a smile can always make someone's day a little brighter....at least I think it can). And I'm definitely drawn to happy, nice and positive people. Maybe because I was in a relationship for such a long time, I'm just not a cynical or jaded person. But I have seen it sometimes in others or have heard stories about it and it's definitely a turn off and not what I want in my life.Yes, I'm romantic. I believe most women are. Romance to me doesn't mean expensive gifts and such. Romance to me is more about being thoughtful of one another. Doing little things to make the other person happy.I'm not perfect but then again no one is. I do not believe in perfection (however, it sure would be nice..........although that would possibly become tiring.........we can't laugh at ourselves if we're always perfect).My photos are from last year and also this past winter ***. I haven't changed (I will get some new ones taken soon). They show me as I am. I have a few pounds to lose and it's not from lack of trying. It sure would be nice to find someone to do things with, exercise, and stay active with. I am who I am and I'm proud of who I am. I will not pretend to be someone who I am not.I wish you all the best in your journey and search for the friend and woman of your dreams. We all deserve to find that bit of happiness in life. Although it's not always an easy journey. Is it? :-) It all depends on the person you are having a date with. It depends on what you both like. Possibly some place quiet and casual. Coffee? Hot chocolate?