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Becky, 45

Offline, last seen Sat, 06 Sep 2025 06:19:27

About Me

I feel like I am trying to sell myself to the highest bidder, on the auction block along with the rest of the herd. It's hard for me to feel as if I'm degrading myself to try to make someone like me or learn to care for me.I'm going to put this out there up front, if you decide you would like to know more and keep reading that would great. If not, I wish you the best in your endeavors. I am nonjudgemental, outgoing, friendly, fun-loving, dedicated, honest, faithful, loyal and the best thing you will ever find to take home to your family. Your family will love me, not tooting my own horn but it's just the way it is. IF we meet and you're loud, obnoxious and an overall pompous ass, I will walk out as fast as I walked in. NOT ONE person on this site has a normal life, if you say you do, you're a liar. We may try to have as much normalacy as possible but it doesn't always happen. I do not believe in judging anyone because of their race, religious, status in society, or sexual orientation. If you have you beliefs and opinions, it's great, and I will never try to dissuade or change them; but I am not interested in hearing bad things about people because of those topics mentioned about. I have a lesbian child, if this offends you, I DO NOT CARE! I don't want to hear what a horrible person my child is because of this nor do I want to hear what a horrible mother I am for accepting and loving my child. I do not want to hear that I"m a bad person because I do not agree with your religious or political beliefs and do not expect me to talk about these things within a few minutes of meeting. My kids are the most amazing kids and have suffered tremenously. Despite all this, they are honest, forgiving, and survivors.NOW: About me: IF you've gotten this far, nice to have you reading. I am energetic, fun, and a very good person.I ABSOLUTELY love laughing. I have many many faults and am so far from perfect that it's not funny. I've spent the past 10 months losing 31 pounds and with hard work and determination, that process continues. I go to the gym and I work with a trainer. I do my best to eat healthy but I do cheat...love chocolate. I love to do anything there is to do and if I don't like it, I'll still do it just to see if I will have a better time than I did last time. I love being outdoors but I hate being cold. But I sleep as much as I can. I do not like sitting and doing nothing all the time.I have a great career and have decided to go back to school to further that career and get another degree or two. Yep, thats right, I'm smart too and educated. Maybe not about every topic but always willing to learn more.NOW! Read MORE!You MUST have nice teeth, maybe not perfect, but nothing missing or rotten! Gross! A good job and decent transportation. Not sure what's left to say, I'm a great person, I love life and everything about it.I've been off meetville for over a year and yet, I still see the same people with the same pictures. Update them please. I'm extremely picky about who I go out with and if I end up alone, it's my choice. I'm not clingy or needy. What do I want?Nice, someone to make me laugh and someone who can listen when I've had a hard day at work. . I like tall guys that have arms to hold a woman . No liars, no cheaters, no criminal records, no moochers. No being friends with your ex. . Tired of everyone wanting something for nothing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Angila

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    hi ya'll moved up here about a yr ago from ga an not sure if I like it here yet. I don't know that many ppl yet but im hopin this will help. i'm lookin for a guy that isn't to clingy or needed that likes to do things on his own as well as with me cause I like to do things on my own an I think that it is good to do some things apart to have something to talk about when we are together. i'm a simple drama free country girl an plan on it stayin that way so if you have drama keep it I don't need it an im pretty sure that I wont hang around if you got it. I wanna laugh hard an love strong an I don't want perfect but I m loyal faithful an I don't lie an want the same. I can take care of myself so don't need a man to do it for me but it would be nice to be with someone that wants to have a life, a life full of all the things that are important an money aint it baby an if you aint figured that out by now just stop readin now cause im sure that im not the girl for ya. I want it all in a relationship laughin lovin cuddlin goin out stayin in stayin up late goin to bed early an yea sometimes not always getting along cause that is real but I can live with you don't like me much rite now but you still love my crazy ass. I want the good the bad an all the in between whatever that might be. I wanna try new stuff an do the stuff I like all over again an again. anything else we can talk about cause I don't want to give all the good stuff away lol. oooohhhh just to give ya'll the heads up it your contactin me to talk dirty an breath heavy in your ear or sextin or any of that plzzz don't bother with a messege cause when I decide to get my freak all the way on I actually want to be in the same room with the person I m with. just thought I would throw that in there so I don't waste your time or mine. grilling out with a cold beer sittin on a picnic table on a warm summer nite. just spending time together or with friends

  • Keena

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Ok, First if you are not interested in meeting quickly then move on, I am not one to chat for weeks on end. If you are serious about meeting me in person (which is so much better) then you ROCK! and we should chat and meet. Funny, Humorous, and you could throw in a tad of sarcasm. That kinda rounds up my personality. But don't forget we all have that serious side to us. I just keep mine tucked away most of the time. I am so attracted to someone who can make me laugh and just goof around, but can challenge me at times. Besides the typical girl stuff, like dancing, cards, movies..blah, blah blah, but would like to do something I haven't done before. First date for me would be to just grab a drink, then go to a local park and walk and talk. I like to be a little active when I first meet someone. I like to go listen to a band somewhere.

  • Silvana

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have a pretty great life with great family and friends. I would love to have someone to share it with. I love hanging out with friends and enjoy many social situations. I play softball and work out ***days a week and enjoy taking my 2 dogs for walks. I am easy going and laid back and am hoping to find someone that loves life and can go with the flow. Somewhere to be able to talk to see if there is any chemistry.

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