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Becky, 45

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About Me

I feel like I am trying to sell myself to the highest bidder, on the auction block along with the rest of the herd. It's hard for me to feel as if I'm degrading myself to try to make someone like me or learn to care for me.I'm going to put this out there up front, if you decide you would like to know more and keep reading that would great. If not, I wish you the best in your endeavors. I am nonjudgemental, outgoing, friendly, fun-loving, dedicated, honest, faithful, loyal and the best thing you will ever find to take home to your family. Your family will love me, not tooting my own horn but it's just the way it is. IF we meet and you're loud, obnoxious and an overall pompous ass, I will walk out as fast as I walked in. NOT ONE person on this site has a normal life, if you say you do, you're a liar. We may try to have as much normalacy as possible but it doesn't always happen. I do not believe in judging anyone because of their race, religious, status in society, or sexual orientation. If you have you beliefs and opinions, it's great, and I will never try to dissuade or change them; but I am not interested in hearing bad things about people because of those topics mentioned about. I have a lesbian child, if this offends you, I DO NOT CARE! I don't want to hear what a horrible person my child is because of this nor do I want to hear what a horrible mother I am for accepting and loving my child. I do not want to hear that I"m a bad person because I do not agree with your religious or political beliefs and do not expect me to talk about these things within a few minutes of meeting. My kids are the most amazing kids and have suffered tremenously. Despite all this, they are honest, forgiving, and survivors.NOW: About me: IF you've gotten this far, nice to have you reading. I am energetic, fun, and a very good person.I ABSOLUTELY love laughing. I have many many faults and am so far from perfect that it's not funny. I've spent the past 10 months losing 31 pounds and with hard work and determination, that process continues. I go to the gym and I work with a trainer. I do my best to eat healthy but I do cheat...love chocolate. I love to do anything there is to do and if I don't like it, I'll still do it just to see if I will have a better time than I did last time. I love being outdoors but I hate being cold. But I sleep as much as I can. I do not like sitting and doing nothing all the time.I have a great career and have decided to go back to school to further that career and get another degree or two. Yep, thats right, I'm smart too and educated. Maybe not about every topic but always willing to learn more.NOW! Read MORE!You MUST have nice teeth, maybe not perfect, but nothing missing or rotten! Gross! A good job and decent transportation. Not sure what's left to say, I'm a great person, I love life and everything about it.I've been off meetville for over a year and yet, I still see the same people with the same pictures. Update them please. I'm extremely picky about who I go out with and if I end up alone, it's my choice. I'm not clingy or needy. What do I want?Nice, someone to make me laugh and someone who can listen when I've had a hard day at work. . I like tall guys that have arms to hold a woman . No liars, no cheaters, no criminal records, no moochers. No being friends with your ex. . Tired of everyone wanting something for nothing.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Divorced, 41year old mother of 2 teenage boys, searching for the one she can't live without. Someone that is warm, genuine,considerate, loyal, faithful, generous, intelligent, and has a great sense of humor. I don't care about how much money he makes or what kind of house or car he has. I don't care about material things, I just want someone that will love me and be good to me. I have met a lot of really nice guys here and have made a few friends, have even had relationships with a couple of guys, but I am back again, searching for the one. I love music and like just about anything, but metal, hard rock, 80's hair bands and country are my favorites. I would rather listen to music than watch television. I like to fish, camp, ride motorcycles and atvs. I like spending time with my family and friends, grilling out or just hanging out around a bonfire listening to music. I am very easy going and have a great sense of humor, almost always have a smile on my face and usually see the glass as half full *** half empty. I have a big heart and have a lot of love to offer the right man. I am easy to please and don't mind what we do, but much rather, who I am doing it with. I won't say that looks aren't' important because there has to be an attraction, but I would rather have someone that is as beautiful inside as he is on the outside.I am a country girl that is most comfortable at home. I do like to go out and take weekend trips, but I am definitely a home body. I try to treat others as I want to be treated and would give someone my last dollar to help them out. I am not a skinny supermodel, I do have a few extra pounds on me but I am proportionate. I very rarely drink so I am not into the bar scene, nor do I want someone that parties all the time or drinks excessively. I don't date men that are married, living with someone, or seperated so if you are any of these please pass me by. I ALSO DO NOT DATE OUTSIDE MY RACE...I AM NOT RACIST, THAT IS JUST MY PREFERENCE.If you have made it this far and you think that we might click, send me a message, you never know until you try. Good luck to all who are searching for love!!!!

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