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About Me

I am a mother of two...a 19 year old girl (who I am sooo ready to choke half the time lol)...who is at Ball State now ..and a 10 year old boy (who is a typical boy! And is in every sport)...I have a very demanding job, and work crazy hours, but I try to find a balance to enjoy life. I enjoy hanging out with my kids.....so I go to lots of games!). I love getting a break from life and going out with the girls to dance the night away too. I enjoy taking road trips to the Riverboat(even better on a Harley in the fall!) or just a weekend getaway somewhere to refocus. My family is big and awesome! We do lots of things together: camping, vacations to the beach, cookouts, etc..I love my family very much!; however, I do love to go fishing! I love our COLTS! But my true passion is basketball...playing and watching. I'm a huge animal lover...especially my golden retriever! I love most music...just depends on my mood, and on occassion, after a few drinks, I believe I can sing too...LOL! I would love to meet a man that is finally on the same page...no games...no drama...just honest and respectful about what they really want and expect...easy going and fun!I am very independent; therefore, I'm not into being clingy or jealous (thats a waste of energy!) I truly believe that when you're in a relationship, that each person needs their own separate private time...whether its going out with the girls or taking a weekend motorcycle trip with the boys...and each person needs to be supportive of that time. I'm one of those girls that when I say "sure! go have a good time"...I actually mean it..LOL! I love to go out and have fun, but can be just as happy hanging at home with a fire and a movie. I've never been a big "dater", but the last 7 years I have focused on me, my job, and my kids... so I thought if I meet someone I really click with that would be great...if not, then, at the very least, I have met a new friend in the process! A first date? Wow! It's always good to do something fun and laid back. A comedy club, or a concert? I would personally prefer a sporting event...Colts Game (love the Colts!)...or any basketball games. Just a fun time with no pressure to get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

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  • Becky

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I feel like I am trying to sell myself to the highest bidder, on the auction block along with the rest of the herd. It's hard for me to feel as if I'm degrading myself to try to make someone like me or learn to care for me.I'm going to put this out there up front, if you decide you would like to know more and keep reading that would great. If not, I wish you the best in your endeavors. I am nonjudgemental, outgoing, friendly, fun-loving, dedicated, honest, faithful, loyal and the best thing you will ever find to take home to your family. Your family will love me, not tooting my own horn but it's just the way it is. IF we meet and you're loud, obnoxious and an overall pompous ass, I will walk out as fast as I walked in. NOT ONE person on this site has a normal life, if you say you do, you're a liar. We may try to have as much normalacy as possible but it doesn't always happen. I do not believe in judging anyone because of their race, religious, status in society, or sexual orientation. If you have you beliefs and opinions, it's great, and I will never try to dissuade or change them; but I am not interested in hearing bad things about people because of those topics mentioned about. I have a lesbian child, if this offends you, I DO NOT CARE! I don't want to hear what a horrible person my child is because of this nor do I want to hear what a horrible mother I am for accepting and loving my child. I do not want to hear that I"m a bad person because I do not agree with your religious or political beliefs and do not expect me to talk about these things within a few minutes of meeting. My kids are the most amazing kids and have suffered tremenously. Despite all this, they are honest, forgiving, and survivors.NOW: About me: IF you've gotten this far, nice to have you reading. I am energetic, fun, and a very good person.I ABSOLUTELY love laughing. I have many many faults and am so far from perfect that it's not funny. I've spent the past 10 months losing 31 pounds and with hard work and determination, that process continues. I go to the gym and I work with a trainer. I do my best to eat healthy but I do cheat...love chocolate. I love to do anything there is to do and if I don't like it, I'll still do it just to see if I will have a better time than I did last time. I love being outdoors but I hate being cold. But I sleep as much as I can. I do not like sitting and doing nothing all the time.I have a great career and have decided to go back to school to further that career and get another degree or two. Yep, thats right, I'm smart too and educated. Maybe not about every topic but always willing to learn more.NOW! Read MORE!You MUST have nice teeth, maybe not perfect, but nothing missing or rotten! Gross! A good job and decent transportation. Not sure what's left to say, I'm a great person, I love life and everything about it.I've been off meetville for over a year and yet, I still see the same people with the same pictures. Update them please. I'm extremely picky about who I go out with and if I end up alone, it's my choice. I'm not clingy or needy. What do I want?Nice, someone to make me laugh and someone who can listen when I've had a hard day at work. . I like tall guys that have arms to hold a woman . No liars, no cheaters, no criminal records, no moochers. No being friends with your ex. . Tired of everyone wanting something for nothing.

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