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Shawanna, 43

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About Me

I am a 43 yo old Irish catholic who unfortunately looks younger. I am tired of being chased around by younger men and have to whip out my ID.... don't laugh this IS actually a problem. Men my age don't think I am their age and don't take the time to talk..... most younger men have the most moronic opening lines. Amusing... but not lasting. I love music..all types, except country! and sorry...I'm not into anyone who could be mistaken for my dad either... a happy medium? I have a very strong character, some people who have weakness within themselves see me as someone who can change their lives. Then, there is the opposite. The ones who wish to control me...I would like neither of the two...I want my equal, patience is a virtue. I consider myself very virtuous. I am not into playing cyber games either.* hundreds of you say you want to meet me...only a handful of you tried. I don't bite, unless you like it. lol this site is crazy. you all just want to send me ***?**oh...and then there is the fake gentlemen, who pretend to be something they are not. They get my number and text me for sex...then when I block them, tell me I am fake. I am very real and really know what I want. Respect gets respect.*.lol** I have been told by some people that I met on here that my profile may be perceived as b*thcy...and that I was not indeed such a thing;) I just know what I want and don't want is that a bad thing? Any outdoor activity like minature golf so we can talk and get to know each other and have some fun at the same time... A quiet little outdoor cafe before the sun goes down on a Saturday night with some Zinfandel... or if I must be inside, I could make you nervous that you are losing a pool game to a woman while we chat. Pick your pleasure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lili

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am in the process of a divorce and would like to meet someone to spend some of my free time with. I am not looking for anything too serious at this point, but we all know how sometimes things just happen when we least expect it. My son is my most prized possession and my main focus at this point in time. I am independent, and a hard worker. I am career driven and have been at my management job for over 25 years.My ideal mate would be someone who is between the ages of ***, takes care of himself physically, has a sense of humor, is financially stable (no I don't want your money, but I don't want to support you either), likes kids, and maybe even has one so they can at least relate to being a parent. I like going for walks, camping ( not roughing it though..!!) cooking and baking, reading and listening to music (all but country,and rap). I feel I need a little more adventure I guess!! I am not a fan of sports (mostly because I don't know anything about them.. (sorry!! I guess I can be taught...?!), and although I have nothing against hunting and fishing, I was a fisherman's widow for TOO MANY years and am not interested in going down that path again. A hobby is one thing...obsessive about it, something totally different.I have found that after being on here for a bit I now need to be more specific about what I am looking for to weed out some men that only choose to look at my pic and not read anything about me. Lets see if this helps... Meet for a drink/coffee and hopefully have stimulating conversation.

  • Meryl

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Im Not looking for perfection, just an HONEST guy who isn't going to lie. If you are looking for a piece of ass then look elsewhere. And if you are looking for fun outside of what you already have then please don't write me. By no means am I needing anyone to pay my bills or play daddy to my kids. That's my job!!! I'm looking for a real gentleman to make time for me aside from his own life. I hate clingy mommas boys who can't handle their own responsibilities. So if your mom still does your laundry and cleans your room then I'm not for you. Not looking for a guy that want's just sex, but hopefully a decent man to start a relationship with that can make a difference in my life *** negativity. I always put other before myself...that's just the kind of person I am!!!! Everyone tells me I'm too nice do I allow individuals to walk all over me and take advantage of me but I know in the end it will pay off and god will reward me for my unbelievable kindness. My style is comfortable and I love jeans and uggs. I am a smoker so if that offends you then sorry. I'm fun, out going and I love to joke around but I know their is a time to be serious, I'm and 80's girl so I am into rap, R&B, freestyle and all old school hip hop music, going to the movies occasionally or watching one of my ***dvd's at home is even better. I live a block from the beach so walking the boardwalk is a passion of mine. It's like a getaway from life when I walk the beach and listen to the waves. Going out to dinner isn't really my favorite thing to do because 13 years ago I underwent a surgical procedure to loose weight and the operation was a success since I lost over ***lbs but it left me with an almost non existence to eating normal ever, I have never learned to dance but I have always wanted to try. I am more of a home body and just plain hanging out getting to know someone is more of a turn on than a fancy dinner out. I don't really cook because of my lifestyle change. I'm no chef but I never had to cook for anyone except my children so that's one of my flaws I do have to admit but I am willing to learn for the right guy. I'm just being honest at that. I enjoy hanging out with my friends, meeting new people, I always say that you can never have too friends. I would Like a well Educated Man that's Family Oriented. I never get tired of being admired for a man to keep a woman interested by any means necessary.I'm DRAMA free I'm not into childish games. I don't like negativity vibes so if you have stupid drama please respect me I'm not with it. I'm sure you wouldn't want to deal with that either. Just the simple things in life.

  • Mendy

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    The biggest thing on me is my heart. It\'s been broken a few times and there\'s room in it for you. My perfect mate is attractive, well-groomed and physically fit. Education and money are a plus.

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