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Josephina, 42

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About Me

Too much information makes online dating difficult; we tend to eliminate people prematurely before getting to know them, and basing it upon nothing more than a few photos, hobbies, and sentence structure. Because of this, I am hesitant to include too much…but here I goSince I am deciding on paint colors for a room there are splashes of different colors on most every wall. The cable guy was here to do a repair, and when he was finished he stood up and pointed to a color and said, “this one” and we chatted about it briefly. After he left, it occurred to me that was what I was missing. Not the romance and dinners (those are nice as well) but a partner, someone who asks about my day, who has my back, and values my heart.There are thousands of men and women on this site who are searching for that same connection. Why must we make this so difficult?I am on a mission to find an intelligent man with a sense of humor. We all have had past relationships and carry some baggage, so I’m not expecting to find perfection, but loyalty, honesty, and being treated as an equal are the most important qualities I am looking for in another person. Also, I want you to want me to have my own thoughts, opinions, and hobbies-even if we do not share them. Who wants a clone anyway??Okay, enough of the serious stuff…The fun side of me loves witty banter and intelligent conversation, attending concerts and festivals, last minute road trips without a plan, exploring different cultures, roller coasters, anything paranormal, and of course shinny girly stuff. I recently discovered bowling and yes, I am really bad at it.I grew up in the South but I lost my appreciation for southern foods. Other than that, I love trying new foods and restaurants. Disco music makes me crank up the volume and sing, but it’s still uncool to admit that. So, it is now called dance music and that is acceptable. I also love old rock from the 70s and 80s.I am a free-spirited individual and believe, wholeheartedly, in live and let live. I am able to laugh at myself, and for the most part, I am optimistic and easy going.And finally, I have never regretted putting my feelings on the line and making myself vulnerable - even when I didn’t get the person I wanted.Okay, now you have the inside scoop. Feel free to send a message if you have not appeared on any episode of Cops :-)FYI, I am unable to change my age on this account. I am 48 not 42! Coffee or ice cream makes the world a better place..I just gave you 2 ideas :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Talisha

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I have a really fun, open personality. I enjoy spending time with that someone special. I am a very affectionate person once I get to know you and would like to have someone that is the same. I love going to a good movie, out to a nice dinner or can enjoy a nice dinner at home just relaxing and enjoying each other's company. I do love high school and college football!!I am attracted to guys that are physically fit and take care of themselves since I try to do the same. I know looks aren't everything but that is the first thing that will catch your eye if we are being honest here and there has to be some kind of chemistry to get things started. I am looking for a guy that is social and outgoing but does not necessarily have to be on the go all the time. I understand if you do not want to have a picture on here but please be ready to send one that is actually YOU!!! I try to keep mine as up to date as possible. I am looking for that kiss that makes my heart skip, my cheeks blush, and my knees weak. Are you the one that can do that??? I do know HE IS OUT THERE. Now maybe, we should talk and see if I am her, and you are HIM :)Please don't use the "Meet Me" feature and say you want to meet me and then not respond when I message you. Kind of defeats the purpose don't you think???? Just saying.... :)

  • Maryetta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    ****Update**** please do not contact me if you use drugs, are married, or attempt to use site as a virtual escort service. Hi!I truly enjoy my life and love new experiences. I am fun, energetic, and have a great sense of humor. I'm a woman of faith, very spirited and creative, banter with loving sarcasm, and pay attention to the details in life. I have two great kids who are the center of my life. Still interested...? Ok then, let's start with this. I need a Right Man in my life!! You know, someone who can handle me, understands me, not be intimidated (and not be afraid to tell me if I'm out of line!)! I love to experience life so I'm looking for a Right Man who approaches life with gusto and is capable of a) surprising me at the most unexpected times and b) staying a step or two ahead of me (well, most of the time!). Most of the time I know what I want and set my goals accordingly. My ideal Right Man also knows what he wants in life, is goal oriented, and not afraid to go for it! (But not in a jerky sort of way). Honor, honesty, integrity and loyalty are the foundation of my character. My Right Man understands this and has the same values.I'm not a barfly and don't do the bar scene. I do enjoy going to nightclubs and dancing with my date - but have no interest in going there hoping for a pickup. I am a romantic at heart. A silly romantic, a sappy romantic, a passionate romantic - it all works for me! I travel frequently so my Right Man will hopefully be excited to meet new people and see the world. When traveling I like to bypass the tourist traps and chain restaurants to find the hidden gems and interesting people wherever I go.I do attend social events for my job. My Right Man should be comfortable going to a few black tie events and holding his own while we are there. In a perfect world, I would rather be the shadow to him than the other way around. (I will point out, I am just as comfortable in jeans and tee having a beer in a local hang out as wearing an evening gown and fur coat.)I like to work out and would like someone who is fairly athletic and active - i do not like to spend all my free time on the couch! . I'm looking for that someone special....... I'm taking my time and finding the right person. Is it you? Daytime - btw - I keep one in the trunk of my car at all times! Great stress reliever and makes you feel like a kid again!Evening - great food, great wine, great conversation!

  • Valda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a happy person, loves making other people happpy. I enjoy movies, reading. Watching the bears play. I have a great personality,outgoing. Always there to lend a hand or shoulder. If you have any questions just ask. Not looking for intimate encounters. Love da bears, bulls, blackhawks I would like to become friends first then see what happens

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