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Josephina, 42

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About Me

Too much information makes online dating difficult; we tend to eliminate people prematurely before getting to know them, and basing it upon nothing more than a few photos, hobbies, and sentence structure. Because of this, I am hesitant to include too much…but here I goSince I am deciding on paint colors for a room there are splashes of different colors on most every wall. The cable guy was here to do a repair, and when he was finished he stood up and pointed to a color and said, “this one” and we chatted about it briefly. After he left, it occurred to me that was what I was missing. Not the romance and dinners (those are nice as well) but a partner, someone who asks about my day, who has my back, and values my heart.There are thousands of men and women on this site who are searching for that same connection. Why must we make this so difficult?I am on a mission to find an intelligent man with a sense of humor. We all have had past relationships and carry some baggage, so I’m not expecting to find perfection, but loyalty, honesty, and being treated as an equal are the most important qualities I am looking for in another person. Also, I want you to want me to have my own thoughts, opinions, and hobbies-even if we do not share them. Who wants a clone anyway??Okay, enough of the serious stuff…The fun side of me loves witty banter and intelligent conversation, attending concerts and festivals, last minute road trips without a plan, exploring different cultures, roller coasters, anything paranormal, and of course shinny girly stuff. I recently discovered bowling and yes, I am really bad at it.I grew up in the South but I lost my appreciation for southern foods. Other than that, I love trying new foods and restaurants. Disco music makes me crank up the volume and sing, but it’s still uncool to admit that. So, it is now called dance music and that is acceptable. I also love old rock from the 70s and 80s.I am a free-spirited individual and believe, wholeheartedly, in live and let live. I am able to laugh at myself, and for the most part, I am optimistic and easy going.And finally, I have never regretted putting my feelings on the line and making myself vulnerable - even when I didn’t get the person I wanted.Okay, now you have the inside scoop. Feel free to send a message if you have not appeared on any episode of Cops :-)FYI, I am unable to change my age on this account. I am 48 not 42! Coffee or ice cream makes the world a better place..I just gave you 2 ideas :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Bernie

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I\'m a hopeless romantic looking for love. My hobbies are making jewelry, catching up on my TV, and shopping. I need someone very special to stay with me and love me (and my interests).

  • Rebecka

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Where are you? For me, a true connection is hard to find. I have a great life so finding a match for me would be icing on the cake. I keep pretty busy working and playing and going to grad school so my match would need to understand my schedule and work around it. I would expect my match to have a life without me and still do those things that he loves. There is a place in a relationship to be with our friends and do our own thing as well as be together. In my free time I enjoy going to festivals, dancing to live music, watching movies, creating art, and traveling. I also enjoy the great outdoors and adventures. I am an avid recycler and am also into alternative healing. I am rather shy but once you get to know me I am silly and very open. I value honesty, compassion ,and flexibility. I would love to be with someone who is easy going, fun, and funny. So, if you are out there and are a gentleman who respects woman, I'd love to hear from you. I would like to meet as friends first to see if we like each other in person. A casual coffee or drink is a good start. If we have a connection, who knows, it could turn into dinner. After that I have no idea. If I'm with someone I like it doesn't really matter what we do.

  • Raquel

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Looking for any sort of friend, really, but hoping for LTR eventually. I will not be compatible with conservatives, the religious (spiritual people, however, are highly desired), law enforcement/military types or any groups with similar mentalities. I am NOT old fashioned and I will be bored with the usual dinner/movie, dinner/couch lifestyle...though I'm not at all opposed to a homebody-type life.I would prefer someone who uses proper grammar. I like my men a little bit older...at least 10 years, but I'll consider the right man who is around my age. I'm looking for a physical and sensual relationship. I'm completely happy being single, so I'm willing to hold out for what I want even if it never comes. I want to surround myself with positive-minded, upbeat people! so if you have gotten this far and are still with me, read on...I'm imperfect; you be, too! I don't care what you look like, what you do for a living or what kind of car you drive (though please drive something!) Funny people go to the front of the line. Funny people who are also smart and good conversationalists get in the "speedpass line." I can cook. I can even make a man a sandwich.I like my house to be clean, but my car is disgusting. I will also kiss a fish before I throw it back. And that was me, myself, taking the hook out, just so you know. I like to watch baseball, football, hockey and ice skating. I prefer the Winter Olympics. In the age old question: "Dunkin Donuts or Krispy Kreme?" The answer is Dunkin Donuts, hands down. Let's go hiking, swimming, kayaking, rollerblading, bicycling, boating or tennising ;) I enjoy anything to do with the water, nature, the arts. My favorite tv programme is Top Gear UK. UFO's are real. My work here is not done. I grind fresh coffee beans and I might be an addict.I have 2 amazing sons, one grown and attending UGA who lives in his own house, and one almost grown, in high school, who lives with me. They are large, powerful and protective sons....(thought I'd just throw that out there now since this is that frightening realm we call "online dating!") Obviously, they are still my number 1 priority, but they seldom actually need me since they have fun and interesting lives of their own, so I fairly often find myself with nothing to do and nobody to talk to.I have the luxury of working from home and setting my own schedule, though I do sometimes have to work nights and weekends. I'm happy to work my schedule around to spend time with you, though.May The Force be with you.And now, now...I want to learn about YOU! Something unconventional. I am greatly pleased by imaginative and inventive people. If you catch me on the right night we might be able to go see my son play music at one of the venues downtown (after all he is my favorite band). Or perhaps you know a good spot for great rocks as I'm starting a rock collection now that my shell collecting days are on hold since I no longer live at the beach (a girl's gotta have a hobby) or perhaps we can dig out my really lame, but fun telescope and start a year's worth of star gazing, watching and plotting the movement of the heavens...or we could just do dinner, because I do like dinner!

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