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Nella, 41

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About Me

Shall I dare say this......here it goes....I am an independent woman and I know what I want....this should thrill a man and not intimidate him :~) I read many profiles of men who claim they want a women who is independent and knows what they want...but I'm getting to the point where I disagree...and that's too bad...for you that is. :~) Besides the entertainment of this site....I enjoy hanging out with my friends and value my family very much. I am a very honest, dependable, loyal, drama free, hilarious (yep - I'm a funny girl) and trustworthy. I am outspoken and tend to tell it like it is.....yet on the flip side, I have a filter...know how to use it when needed, I am very sweet and caring with a heart of gold (so I've been told). Pretty much..... what you see is what you get, I can promise you that :~) I am looking for a man who has a great sense of humor, who is honest, trustworthy, someone who can handle a woman who can be a bit sarcastic at times, someone who is up for some bicker/banter and does not take it personally. Someone who enjoys going out and doing things but can also stay in and enjoy a relaxing night at home. Someone who is not afraid to open up and communicate (eventually).....communication is essential. I believe in spending time together as much as I believe in spending time apart. Oh.....and to be my "tell it like it is sort of woman"....if you don't have a picture...please don't expect me to respond to your message....that bugs me...it's like your trying to hide something. Now, I do realize....looks aren't everything BUT there needs to be some sort of attraction to even get started...right ??? So since I've shown you mine then you can show me yours....picture that is !!!! :~) And PLEASE....PLEASE.....PLEASE.....no cheesy pick up lines...that will NOT get you a response. :~) ** Note....I have come to realize that not everyone reads down this far because I still continue to get them. **Oh....and I know this is alot to ask but.....PLEASE be who you say you are and it would be just GREAT if you really did look like your pictures....just sayin'. :-) So.....I guess the bottom line is....I am looking for an overall great guy...not perfect.....no one is perfect but just an overall great guy....I am sure there are plenty of you out there !!! I'm sure we can figure something out !!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Maddie

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Are your friends amazed that you're still single? Do you ever wonder to yourself, where the heck is she? Well I'm right here gentlemen, just waiting to be taking off Match. Now you're probably wondering what makes me such a great catch? I have a good heart and I wear it on my sleeve. I'm the real deal...no hidden agendas and most definitely no drama. I'm passionate about my life and value those who are in my inner circle. I'm extremely loyal to my partner and my friends and family. I enjoy and appreciate the simple things in life and always try not to sweat the small stuff. I lreally ike Thai, Indian, Mexican, American and Italian. I do like to cook for that special someone...spicy chicken anyone? :-) I've worked within Film and Telvision my whole life and yes I enjoy going to the movies. Last film I saw was "42," which was incredible. I'm a big Seinfeld fan. The reruns still tickle my funny bone. Best cast ever! I guess the only show I watch religiously now is "Breaking Bad." I really like going to concerts...but haven't been since seeing Madonna last September. It would be great to catch a fewconcerts before the summer ends. Musically, I enjoy listening to mostly rock (70s & 80s), but also like pop, R& I stay active whether playing tennis, volleyball, taking a walk or hike or going canoeing. Pretty much any activities outdoors I enjoy. It's a real breath of fresh air. What's not to like? I'm really not interested in meeting serial daters, only men who are seeking serious longterm relationships. I tend to be more liberal than conservative and would probably be a better match with someone who is liberal or independent. Hoping to meet a college educated, intelligent, athletic, and attractive man who is both emotionally and financially stable. If you have a good sense of humor (and a lot of charisma - that little spark) and can bring the back and forth banter to the table...please reel me in. Something casual and comfortable. To me it's more about the company and less about what we do.

  • Kalyn

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a vivacious woman who wears her heart on her sleeve; but don't let that fool you! I am anything BUT weak or dramatic! I love to laugh and can usually be found with a smile on my face. I am very proud of my accomplishments in life and work hard to achieve all of my goals. I try to surround myself with other genuine and fun people who share the same values that I do. I am outgoing* and enjoy spending time with friends and meeting new people. But I also enjoy quiet nights at home snuggled on the couch or sitting outside just listening to peepers or looking at the stars. (*When it comes to romantic interest, I get SHY and prefer a man who will a)spell out his interest and b) make the first move! So I may "show interest" but I am likely to wait to get an *** first.)Turn ons:animals, the beach, books, working out, exploring, music, traveling, adventure, SLEEP, laughter, passion, true genuine kindness, self-confidence, self-awareness, date night IN, feeling valued and attractive and making others feel the same, and turning the ordinary into the extraordinaryTurn offs:people who are too familiar too soon, self-absorption, deception, cowardice, ***, meanness, couch potatoes. computer/cellphone/facebook/video game addicts, no strings sex, too many compliments before someone has even met meDealbreakers: intolerance to cats (I'm not a crazy cat lady but I do have 2 loving cats who like to love on their humans and share space-SO, with that said, if you want to spend time with me at my place, you have to be able to tolerate 2 very sweet, loving cats.), drug use-yes I consider pot a drug, cigarette smoking, chewing tobacco, no emotional availability. These are the big ones that come to mind.Although I have lived all over, I consider myself a free spirited girl with a southern heart. Ultimately I am hoping to find a good, kind, funny, affectionate man who knows how to treat a lady; In the meantime, I like making new friends, having a date and talking about movies, music, politics, books, and learning about others. Maybe bowling or putt putt? Except my competitive side could emerge! But I think it allows for conversation, some laughs and activity without looking a fool??? (ok except for the ridiculous bowling shoes!) :)

  • Jerica

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy the outdoors like camping,going to the lake,riding ATV's,horseback riding,playing pool,watching movies,traveling,watching OU football and basketball,attending or watching on tv OKC Thunder games. I enjoy listening to country,classic rock,80's rock and pop and dance music.I enjoy going out and having a good time and listening to live music.I love to laugh and smile. I am ornery at times and like to make you laugh. I have a great personality but I can be shy when I first meet someone. If you like what you are reading, please drop me a line or two. Go somewhere like Bricktown, where we could talk and get to know one another.

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