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Ember, 44

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About Me

Well, here I am! You can stop looking! lol! TOTALLY new to this whole dating thing. It's fun talking to new people. I'll talk to anyone, and, geez! It's just dinner or a cup of coffee? I'm completely ddd free, drug, disease, and drama free!Love music (mostly metal), concerts, hanging out with friends, Oh, and I'm sane! Js lol Love hanging out, listening to a good band and enjoying a cerveza with friends. Even brewed my own for a while. ;) Beer is good. As far as dating. I know right away if things are going to result in a second date. So do you actually. lol A great date is one where conversation flows and nobody looks at their watches. Time seems to stand still and the beer you ordered an hour ago has barely been touched. Oh, and gotta have a lot of laughter and smiling. To be honest, if there's no laughter when we go out there probably won't be a second date. Just being honest. I love to laugh and truthfully, a sense of humor is wayyy more important than being really attractive. Don't get me wrong looks count but, laughter counts more. :)Okay, gonna have to revise this. I've been in the "pond" for a while now and I've made quite a few male "friends" JUST friends. Mind you. What I have found out is that you're all sleeping with the same girls. I'm NOT the standard "Pof" girl. I don't want to meet you, have sex on the first date, and never see you again. I PROMISE. If that's what you want please continue on. The next girl WILL. But, don't forget to wrap it up if you do, because I have more than one guy friend on here who is trying to sleep with ALL the women here and a different one every day (sometimes two or three) . I have one friend that slept with over 20 in two weeks. It's a game to them. Let me make this perfectly clear. I'm NOT playing the "game" I freaking LOVE sex and don't suck at it.lol But, there's more to life than sex. Well, there is for me. Now, if you still want to meet me after all that I DEFINITELY want to meet YOU. Because, you're probably a good guy and I'm soooo done with jerks. :D I'd love to go out to dinner or even just grab a beer and a play a game of pool. LOVE riding on the back of a motorcycle. Nothing like putting your arms around someone you really like and holding on for dear life. Love smiling and being happy. Like I said before. Sex isn't happening on the first date so, that kinda takes the pressure off right?. lol Now, if you score a second date.....all bets are off. lol jkjk Idk let's just play it by ear k. I've gotten more friends (not fwb;) from this place than anything else. So, let's go out, and see if we click.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Green-gray

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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