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Patricia, 43

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hmmm.... I'm self sufficient, quite able to take care of myself, support myself and my girls. I'm done having children, but will welcome yours I have 2 beautiful girls who come first, one still at home one on her own, a couple dogs, cats possibly some ninja mice in the creepy basement.things I like in no particular order summer/warm weather, PVR T.V., ice cream, going for walks, hanging out with my girls, laying by the pool soaking up the sun, going to the zoo, holding hands, dancing, sex, vacations on a beach at least once a year, kissing, alternative medicine, gardening, renovating my money pit so you need to be handy or take direction well lol ~ I live in the country, but still close enough I could walk to whatever I need if I had too, I can't ever imagine living on a postage stamp lot, though wouldn't mind a place in the city toonon - smokers only please. But ***friendlymust like big dogs ......but not be one, and can tolerate catsIf you want a response please have a recent picture!I'm looking for a man not boy, though some boyish attributes are charming I do not mean to offend if I read and delete your *** reply. I thank you for taking the time , but if I don't think there will be a connection then I do not want to waste anybody's time good luck, all the bestThe following is from a compatibility test and who I would best connect with so if you can relate let me know, by relate I mean you agree with the following statements and are natural and comfortable doing so always not just during the courting stage.You should know I demand a lot of demonstrations of affection, romancing, and quality attention -- and am willing to give it in return. the minute-to-minute PLEASURES of relationship - touch, laughter, play - are also a big part of life and worthy of lots of time and effort. Such a person offers flowers (buy them pick from the garden it the thought that counts)and writes poetry(quick short notes or texts or message on the steamed mirror again it the thought that counts), will still flirt shamelessly with me ten years into our romance, and in general is one who wants the process of "falling in love" to last as long as the beating of both of our hearts. I won't need to guess what your thinking or feeling: this playful, even flirtatious, courtship behavior is a big area for me. "Falling in love" may work more easily here than "staying in love," but that's not nearly as bad as it sounds -- falling in love can take a long, long time.You will have tenderness and sensuality, be an earthy, grounded person, not confused about the physical body, and deeply aware of the wider erotic palette -- touch, cuddles, the delights of a friendly, warm, familiar body sharing the bed on a winter night. For me, stability and reasonableness are tremendously desirable qualities in a partner.I like a lot of mental stimulation and exchange, and am willing to provide plenty of it in turn. Such a person is rarely if ever bored, leads an active--perhaps even a hyperactive--life of the mind. Moreover, you can still stay up into the wee hours just talking deeply with me, years and years into the relationship. You have, and enjoys using, a busy brain. my mate doesn't have to be an intellectual, but should be curious about the world, and enjoy exploring it and comparing notes about it with me. After you ask me out ;)I'm sure we can come up with something

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Evelyn

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm a geniune individual with an easy going spirit. Caring to a fault and I tend to be a bit reserved and maybe alittle shy til things warm up. I am very affectionate, holding hands and grasping a moment when you think no one is looking is always fun! I have been blessed with three amazing children that are now grown and creating lives of their own. I used to enjoy spending my down time as a volunteer firefighter, I was involved in the Fire/EMS field for alittle more than 12 years. It was very rewarding ! Unfortunately the day job that pays the bills take presidence. I dont get to do it as often as I used to. looking for Someone that knows what he's looking for and is not afraid to open up and that wont play games. Someone that desires to share in the everyday journey. Having integrity,morals and family values is a must. I am very family oriented and would much rather be grilling in the back yard, sitting around an open fire with friends gazing up at the stars. I'm a woman that is able to cut loose and not be afraid to get my hands dirty to have some fun. Most comfortable in jeans and tennis shoes but enjoy pulling out the heels and the little black dress once in awhile too. Trust and honesty are a big deal to me! I believe this life journey was ment to be spent in the arms of someone you don't want to live without !!

  • Estela

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    PLEASE***I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A HOOK UP OR TO JUST "HAVE A GOOD TIME" IF YOU ARE NOT LOOKING FOR A SUBSTANTIAL RELATIONSHIP THEN RESPECTFULLY MOVE ON AND DON'T FEEL COMPELLED TO WRITE: Note: lots of you play Peek a Boo, You view and don't write. While that is fine -- I know some of you may be saying maybe she will view me in return and write. If I see that you viewed me and didn't make the first move, though, I assume you weren't interested and won't write you. So, don't play peek a boo and hope I will write if you don't say hi first. There are a lot of women on here for you to choose from--how the heck do I know if you are interested if you don't say so. ABOUT ME What can I say. I am a simple woman with good family values. Some think that's a drag but I like me. =) I know my worth as a human being, a mother, a friend and as a significant other. I cherish family and friends. Just looking for someone to embrace both myself and if the time comes, my children as well. Would love to meet someone close in location and close in age I am looking for depth of soul -- not deep pockets. While on that subject***if you are looking for a sugar momma---I have nothing to offer but my love and devotion. I am not looking for a sugar daddy either. I am very proud and don't expect anyone to take care of me. I have two rambunctious boys -- They will undoubtedly attach themselves to you should I bring you around in time, so if you are not up to that challenge I ask respectfully that you not pursue us. We are the package deal. I in return, I will cherish your children should you have any. I am not looking to have my own babies anymore---sorry guys. IT IS A TOUGH JOB!!! Glad they are getting older =) God bless xo an informal meet and greet. Come as we are -- we should like each other in jeans as much as we do all dressed up =)ANYONE ELSE HATE ALL THE NEW POP UPS HERE! UGH SO ANNOYING!

  • Keavy

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm a loving, loyal, honest, kind, caring, thoughtful, compassionate, affectionate, hardworking, independent, easygoing, down to earth person. I'm not a girly-girl, I can and will dress up but I'm more a jeans and t-shirt kind of girl. I try to always be positive and don't like drama. I have a big heart and a love for animals. I have a cat and a dog. I love hanging out with my family and friends. I'm a christian, I'm spiritual not religious. I'm currently going to IUPUI. I love the outdoors, camping, hiking, sitting by a campfire and going on long walks. I do not have kids and I don't want to have any of my own. I love being an aunt. I've never dated anyone with kids before but I'm willing to try. Right now I'm looking for friends and if we spark we'll see what happens from there. I would like to find my best friend/my partner. The one that will share the good as well as the bad times together. Who is loving, loyal, honest, caring, thoughtful, compassionate, affectionate, respectful, easygoing, down to earth, a little romantic (would be nice), that likes to laugh and have fun. I want someone that we will be close & open with each other. I believe couples should do things together and spend quality time together but I also think it's important they still spend time with their friends & family, have time alone and even hobbies of their own (basically I'm mature, I'm not a leech). I've learned a lot from life and my past two long relationships. I believe we all make mistakes so live without regrets. I admire people that are willing to try to work things out *** taking the easy way out and walking away. I'm an open book, so if you have a question just ask. From my friends:She is a loving person, great to be around. (From my cousin)She is a very organized and matter of fact person, which also has a friendly personality. (From a friend at work)She is Strong, Independent, beautiful inside & out, loyal, strong family ties. (From a good friend)She is a wonderfully caring and loving person who has so much to offer the world. (From a old school friend)She is detailed, organized, dedicated, friendly, insightful, loyal, a people-person, spiritual, charming, probably too friendly and too helpful to others. (From my best friend) Going out to dinner to a nice place where we can talk and get to know each other or going out for coffee. Not really sure since I'm not used to dating.

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