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Merla, 42

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About Me

Tried the online thing several times w/out much success. Did meet and date someone for 6 mos but distance and schedules made it difficult to maintain the kind of relationship I want. I did walk away from it a stronger person tho.. learned some valuable lessons about myself so even tho I wasn't happy to see it end I l wouldnt change it for anything. Really would like to meet someone who has time to put into a committed relationship. looking for my best friend..partner in crime.. soulmate.. Lover..life partner.. Tall order I know lol! I've tried casual dating but enjoy the closeness that comes when in a monogamous relationship. Sharing inside jokes and looks that only the two of us know. Want a partner to walk thru life with, share the good and bad times. Be my rock when necessary and know that I will always be yours. Someone who realizes that sometimes it's difficult to maintain a relationship w/the craziness of life but if it's important enough you stick with it. I'm honest, trustworthy, great friend and mom...believe that family and friends are what makes us who we are.treat them right and you cant go wrong.. im sarcastic at times and always ready to laugh. Want to find someone that has same qualities and moral compass as me. Believes that good outweighs the bad... Love concerts, sporting events, bonfires..beer..wine.. couple time, family time.. Anything is enjoyable w/the right company;-) Look forward to hearing from you!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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