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About Me

I love God..... I'm active in my church, The Potters House, and it's a big part of my life, I love to travel and SCUBA dive. I'd try almost anything and I have a bucket list that is always at the forefront of my mind. I have no preference dating any particular race. It simply doesn't matter to me. What does matter is how someone treats me and others.Please don't initiate contact if you smoke. It's just not something I choose not to be around. I'd rather be upfront and honest from the start. Also, if you first contact with me by a simple, "Hi" or "Hello" I'm not going to respond because one or two words might be an indicator that you can't hold a real conversation. I LOVE good conversation!! Chatting and texting will only carry me so far.My day job of 11 years is managing pre-litigation for a F500. My Associates is in Business Mgmt and Bach in Criminal Justice. On the side, I manage gospel artists and I am a concert promoter. Go figure right? It keeps me busy but I'm able to pick and choose what concerts, artists and events I choose to work with. My son is almost 20 and I have no drama in my life. I hope the same can be said for you.I love to do volunteer work. Something where we can interact. A walk.... a hike.... Top Golf...something fun... I don't drink coffee. I love the teas at Starbucks but I just think the whole, "let's meet at Starbucks" is overrated.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Arthur

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I love being outdoors, hiking, kayaking, and road trips. I also enjoy art, writing books, and snuggling on the couch for a good movie. My goals are to become a published author, live life to it's fullest, and be the best mother I can. I am the most down to earth person you will ever meet, non-judgmental, quirky, and kind hearted. I love music, dancing around the house, walking in the rain, and laughing until your sides hurt.I am currently looking for good friends, with the potential of finding a meaningful relationship. I would be interested in a man with a stable career and lifestyle. Someone who is family oriented, loves to laugh, and is confident in himself as man.I know you're out there somewhere.Btw please understand if I don't respond if you don't include a recent pic. I like to see who I'm talking to. Thank you. My perfect first date would involve good company, great conversations, and lots of laughs.

  • Winter

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    This was my original post two-plus years ago when I signed up: " Looking for a long term - it doesn't have to mean marriage...but I want someone who wants to actually DO boyfriend things! Hang out, go places..... I do not want a friend with benefits.... If it's going to work, I come with two little boys and a big black lab...and I want that person to actually WANT to know about the boys ...not just know about me :) Sexy to me means...more than physical..I want someone who can get attached emotionally, who is smart and motivated, who I can have conversations with or just watch a movie and share some wine. I want to relax and I want to feel warm in that person's arms. Is it asking too much to want to finally feel like a princess? ha ha....well?"So after a few years of dating here and there, meeting interesting people who stayed in my life....and quickly did not...even though some of us never even met..ie. a guy who who owns a PT/Massage therapy business who I never met (you know who you are) but over the short years gave me advice about whatever I needed, and the guy I met once but only once who became the only knowledgeable one to give me the best and most profitable financial advice, etc...I made friends, I made simple "acquaintances" and in one *** short term relationship turned in to what is most likely a life long friendship... I had one real long term ...10 months anyway....my record.. ... and he was not a guy from meetville ...but he was great and wonderful to me and my boys....and I just dont know... We ended it mutually and for personal reasons. I guess I learned that putting in that "I want a long term relationship" thing is harsh but this site doesn't give you detailed options. I think I know what I want in a man.... but ...I know I won't settle because even if my boys really like that guy....(of course i want only the best for my kids!) but when they leave for college years later....it's me and that guy....and I want it to work in a chemical, loving, best-friend, physical/sensual/sexual way. I hope I don't sound selfish....not sure I'm explaining it all but I'll be honest at this point....Relationships...I'm not sure I know what I want in a relationship...I just hope it comes some day and "boom"...I just know it's whatever it should be ........ I learned that I need a companion, a best friend...but one who is also attracted to me in so many more depths ....and can talk about anything....someone who loves me first (so we dont get wrapped up in family life before we know each other one on one, ...next phase...that person wants to love my boys and supports the life I lead and the structured way I can be sometimes so I can be everything to my family ..I'm the mom and the dad, and I work hard ...(freaking 100,***times that I hear..."but it's only 99 Cents!" downloads.....) ...etc I am a person who needs personal space and time alone with my kids.....go out on boys night! Just be happy. I need my time, too. I'm not a jealous person .....if you're trustworthy. I will give 110% and I hope it's reciprocated....unconditionally. So this is my latest attempt at updating my profile. Be true to thyself. Ps. I'm a Taurus ... Not sure why meetville picked up Gemini .... meet for coffee or drinks ....a meet-&-greet and figure out if there's a second date at hand....you pretty much know in the first 10 seconds.......

  • Palma

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    If you would like to "Meet Me" then send me a message so we can chat :) Someplace casual to break the ice and get to know each other..

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