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MathildeOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
I'm a single woman looking to meet some good men. If I end up meeting an awesome man that sweeps me off of my feet great if not then It will be more friends gained from this site. I love to joke around, so don't get offended if I say something in a joking manner, It's only a joke, not a death sentence. I love to meet new people. I love to go out and have a good time dancing with friends, I listen to country, rap, hip hop, alternative rock, NO head banger here. Not looking for a booty buddy!!!! so if that's all you want I'm not in!!! I started my own lil house cleaning and painting business, and yep I do all the work myself ! Which suits me well since I am a very clean and organized person. I don't like clutter or filth. Heads up I am no size 0, I'm what I would call thick and sexy. Don't most men like thick cheese burgers anyway? lol With that being said ,I changed my eating habits,3 years ago. strictly healthy foods, low carb I like to workout. I power walk an hour a day 5 days a week, tone up with the weight machines 4 days a week, and work on abs 3 days a week..I may be ready for a bikini contest this summer....Ummmm YEAHhhhh....NOOOO !!! But I have been melting down and toning up week by week ! Proud of myself! I may not have a perfect body but let's face it after having 6 kids who would?!!! But I do have a great attitude! I like looking good but I mostly workout because I am the last parent left and I want to be around to watch my babies grow up.I am def no couch potato, I'd rather do something productive than sit around and waste a day. As far as the shallow men go,Yall can't say much.about womens bodies..none of yall have ever been pregnant but your bodies look as if you have. Aren't we past the shallowness by this age? I think it's good to workout and be healthy but I don't mind extra weight on a man, That doesn't bother me at all. I prefer big men. My husband had always worked out and body builded until he had a blockage in his heart and had a stent put in, he was put on so many medicines for diabetes heart etc etc etc until it blew him up to ***lbs,for a couple of years. until he was taken off of some of them then he had lost back down. My kids are (B27, G24, B21, G19, B13, B5) all by the same daddy, We were married almost 25 yrs together ***yrs. So I never thought I would be thrown into the single life. My plans were to be married til we were very old. He passed away ***yrs ago in a car accident.My oldest son was with him and thankfully survived. He was a good man, I lost my momma suddenly in ***, her heart just stopped, and my granddaughter in ***. So I know first hand that saying is so very true...You really don't know what you had until it's gone!!! So enjoy your loved ones while you still can! OK kids class dismissed lol OK so let's see what's out there!
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WinterOffline
Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 42-52
This was my original post two-plus years ago when I signed up: " Looking for a long term - it doesn't have to mean marriage...but I want someone who wants to actually DO boyfriend things! Hang out, go places..... I do not want a friend with benefits.... If it's going to work, I come with two little boys and a big black lab...and I want that person to actually WANT to know about the boys ...not just know about me :) Sexy to me means...more than physical..I want someone who can get attached emotionally, who is smart and motivated, who I can have conversations with or just watch a movie and share some wine. I want to relax and I want to feel warm in that person's arms. Is it asking too much to want to finally feel like a princess? ha ha....well?"So after a few years of dating here and there, meeting interesting people who stayed in my life....and quickly did not...even though some of us never even met..ie. a guy who who owns a PT/Massage therapy business who I never met (you know who you are) but over the short years gave me advice about whatever I needed, and the guy I met once but only once who became the only knowledgeable one to give me the best and most profitable financial advice, etc...I made friends, I made simple "acquaintances" and in one *** short term relationship turned in to what is most likely a life long friendship... I had one real long term ...10 months anyway....my record.. ... and he was not a guy from meetville ...but he was great and wonderful to me and my boys....and I just dont know... We ended it mutually and for personal reasons. I guess I learned that putting in that "I want a long term relationship" thing is harsh but this site doesn't give you detailed options. I think I know what I want in a man.... but ...I know I won't settle because even if my boys really like that guy....(of course i want only the best for my kids!) but when they leave for college years later....it's me and that guy....and I want it to work in a chemical, loving, best-friend, physical/sensual/sexual way. I hope I don't sound selfish....not sure I'm explaining it all but I'll be honest at this point....Relationships...I'm not sure I know what I want in a relationship...I just hope it comes some day and "boom"...I just know it's whatever it should be ........ I learned that I need a companion, a best friend...but one who is also attracted to me in so many more depths ....and can talk about anything....someone who loves me first (so we dont get wrapped up in family life before we know each other one on one, ...next phase...that person wants to love my boys and supports the life I lead and the structured way I can be sometimes so I can be everything to my family ..I'm the mom and the dad, and I work hard ...(freaking 100,***times that I hear..."but it's only 99 Cents!" downloads.....) ...etc I am a person who needs personal space and time alone with my kids.....go out on boys night! Just be happy. I need my time, too. I'm not a jealous person .....if you're trustworthy. I will give 110% and I hope it's reciprocated....unconditionally. So this is my latest attempt at updating my profile. Be true to thyself. Ps. I'm a Taurus ... Not sure why meetville picked up Gemini .... meet for coffee or drinks ....a meet-&-greet and figure out if there's a second date at hand....you pretty much know in the first 10 seconds.......
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ReneeOffline
Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
There is so much that all of us can write in this blank space that we feel might *attract* that right person. Looks always grab a person at first but if there is nothing there to keep you beyond that, it would all be a waste of time. Physical looks and health are important but character, integrity, loyalty and honesty are the foundations of someone/something worth trying for and fighting for. I strive to be those things and look for the same in my partner/companion. Marriage is not my end goal but a life-long partner in life to share all my happiness and shenanigans with would be a wonderful addition to my life. Remember: Looks, physical attributes, cars, wealth, big homes and designer items... all these things fade or lose their worth and cannot cover up or make up for what is lacking in a person's life. Laughter, joy, authenticity and love for our fellow man is what will keep up going today and every day until we die. Your car and job may impress many women, but they won't impress me. Tell me a joke that makes me laugh and show kindness to strangers or someone who really needs it ... and THEN you will have gotten my attention. The hard part is keeping my attention ;)It all comes down to making sure you enjoy every single minute of whatever it is you are doing. Time is what we can never get back... so we should make great use of it - especially since we live in one of the most beautiful places out there! Set out on a quest to find the best fresh roasted Ethiopian coffee we can! Walk along the beach while singing "Reminiscing"... something that is fun, crazy and completely different!