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Kamala, 44

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About Me

I am a confident, independent, adventurous lady who works hard and plays harder; looking for a man that can appreciate that...and keep up! I have a great life to share with the right guy. I took a break from serious dating to focus on raising an incredible daughter. Now that she is in college and on her own, I have the time needed to put into a great relationship. During that time, I became a much stronger person and have figured out what qualities are important to me while creating balance in my life. I am looking for a man who shares similar values, is trustworthy and trusting, takes care of himself physically and well as emotionally, works hard, is truly over whomever may have wronged him (we all have a past...let it go!) and isn't smothering, yet is able to be affectionate. Chemistry is very important to me, but it's only part of what I look for. You never know who you may click with! Please don't shy away from the fact that I currently live "up north". Besides, sometimes it's nice to take a drive in the beautiful country, which just happens to be where I reside. I have alot of hobbies but also look forward to learning things that my partner is interested in. Travel is one of my passions! A partner that likes to take a vacation and an occasional day or weekend trip would be a plus. Must love dogs...or at least be willing to tolerate two smaller ones. My love of photography also makes the camera come out quite often so don't be afraid to smile:) I just started golfing and it isn't too pretty so if you can teach me to golf better, that would be great! I've noticed that about 95% of men on dating sites mention motorcycles and fishing as their favorite hobbies. What's up with that? LOL! Unfortunately, I'm not really into either thing. I've tried them both and although they are ok, I honestly don't care to do either more than once or twice a year. If that's your passion, sorry but keep going. Please don't respond if you smoke, are a heavy drinker, live more than a couple hours away, are separated or any version of "technically still married", are looking for a one-nighter, or are just want someone to raise your young children. I love kids and would enjoy dating someone with them but don't want to raise more little ones. No offense, but there is no sense in wasting my time or yours. There are so many great things to do on a first date. As long as there is some chemistry and spontaneity, it can go well. Generally, coffee, dinner or drinks is a low-key first date that gives two people time to talk but doing something adventurous or new together is always fun! Wine tasting anyone?! Relax, be creative and see what happens!Let's face it, if everyone was taking long walks or enjoying all the candlelit dinners that they talk about in their profiles, the beaches, parks and restaurants would be packed! Besides, a long walk with a stranger doesn't sound like the safest thing, and that expensive dinner could really be a waste of money if there's no chemistry:)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Lorri

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi! My name is Lorri. I am divorced other caucasian woman without kids from Rossville, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

  • Isadora

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Ok, a little about me: I have a couple of degrees in the graphic design/video production field and a career currently doing something else which I have aspirations for in the form of my own business. I love art & animals and the vast beauty and amazingness of nature. There is so much more to this world than meets the eye! I like different kinds of music but love rock/old metal, although the newer stuff sucks lately & I really hate scream-o.; Those are some of my favorites but there are more. I do like to dress up and have fun on Halloween... I like to have fun any time if possible, but I love it when everyone dresses up for Halloween. I think this is an amazing planet we live on and would LOVE to travel and explore it. I look forward to traveling someday to many beautiful places and soak up some scenery and culture, visit ruins, cathedrals, caves, pyramids, etc. I like to joke around and have fun with people and would like to find someone who will appreciate that and have fun with me.Who I hope to find:First off, I am not looking to jump into a relationship, I would like to take the time to get to know each other first and find out if we are compatible and have fun with each other. With that said, I would really like to find a good man. Self confident yet not arrogant who believes in loyalty and faithfulness! Someone who takes into consideration and respects what I want and what makes me happy, has my back, not just my backside, who treats me well, with respect and not just talk about it. I want a man who does what he says he is going to do (otherwise don't talk about it; show me, don't tell me). I want an attractive, good looking man who is clean, takes care of himself and keeps in shape. I want a man who is respectful and communicates & shares who he is with me but listens as well. Someone who is upfront and honest about who they are and what they want. Honesty, trust & respect are of UTMOST importance as well as a good sense of humor. By the way, I do not ask for anything I am not willing to give, myself. I would really like to find someone who loves and adores me as much as I do him, can be a best friend and have a blast playing around & hanging out, and be my sexy, hot lover. I would love to one day find a fun, monogamous relationship where we communicate & support each other rather than tear each other down or shut each other out. It is important to put in the effort to make a relationship work. I want a man who wants to please me and gladly puts in the effort to help create a great, fun, romantic, relationship. I think it is important to take the time to get to know each other first though, and find out who we each are; I'm not interested in jumping into a relationship right off the bat. If you want to date exclusively after the very first date, then it won't work out. If you are not needy, yet not into the game playing thing, are straight-up about who you are and how you are feeling, good or bad just so I know what's going on, would like to take a little time to relax, have some fun and get to know each other first... great! Does such a man exist? I hope so... Oh, and I don't "chat" online, I don't give my number out nor am I looking for a pen-pal. I also will not call you on the phone. If you are interested, absolutely do message me and we can figure it out on here. I am more about meeting up in person and talking face-to-face to see if we like each other. That's really the only way to tell if you are actually interested. :) I would like to get to know who I am with. Dinner is fine for a first date, some chai tea/coffee, or possibly if you have something different in mind that you would like to do. NO Pressure, it takes time to find out who a person is. :)

  • Mariann

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    HiI'm a fun and adventurous woman with a sense of humour and an outgoing personality. I like to meet a man to spend time with whether it's a night out having dinner, sitting on patio having drinks, enjoying the outdoors or relaxing at home cuddling on the couch watching TV or a good movie. I like to laugh and have fun. I consider myself to be honest, down-to-earth, genuine, funny, generous, independent and very straight forward. There is a side to me that is impulsive, unpredictable and spontaneous. Needless to say, I'm not boring....I'm Italian after all. I'm not a materialistic or a high maintenance woman. I take pleasure enjoying the most simplest of things like going for a walk as well as indulging in the finer things in life such as treating myself to a day at the spa.I listen to music all the time everything from Pop, Classical to Country. I look forward to trying new activities. I speak Italian and French fluently and know enough Spanish to have a conversation. I have a passion for learning new languages as well as experiencing different foods and cultures. I do like to cook and bake. I'm a bit of a daredevil and I'm up to trying almost anything once. I want to spend my time with someone I'm compatible with who shares similar interests but I'm willing to open my mind to new interests, hobbies etc.I prefer to talk over the phone to get to know someone. I'm not into texting or chatting for long periods of time without meeting. I don't think you can really get to know someone that way. By the way men, I really did caught those perch. I even baited my own line ;) Good luck in your search.Ciao.... We can decide together to meet some where we both feel comfortable to talk and get to know one another.

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