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Aleah, 43

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About Me

Please READ my profile..If you can't handle a successful woman and all that comes with it....It won't work. * I'm not trying to be ugly, but it's my preference and a waste of time contacting me if otherwise.*I am diverse and well rounded. I embrace all life brings and stay busy. Between children and business I work very hard. Being the best person/parent I can be is very important to me. I enjoy my downtime. I love the ocean... I love to travel, I am... adventurous, smart, witty, loyal, outgoing, sweet, kind, confident, generous, loving, affectionate, love to laugh and not being treated like a lady is a deal breaker. I love intellectual conversation...I can go from a ball cap to a ball gown. I'm very down to earth and always try to see the positive side in any situation. God is at the center of my life.I am always open to learning and exploring new things and places. I am a self starter, philanthropist and entrepreneur. I have many different interests, far too many to list here.Please have a pic on your profile, after all initial chemistry is where it starts.I deplore liars. I will not date anyone under 5'10. My preference...Attracted to 5'***'6 tall (I'm 5'7 put on a pair of heels=tall) I am not interested in dating anyone younger than me. There is no wisdom greater than experience. I am attracted to self confident men, not arrogant, there is a big difference. Presence is a must. If you're insecure, I am not the one for you. My guy has to be loving and compassionate, but strong enough to handle me. Looking for quality individuals to spend time with and get to know starting as friends. Live by the Golden Rule...God is in charge of my life and has blessed me many times over. I am not perfect by any means, but strive to be my best. Actions speak louder than words. Control freaks.....Move on!As for you, your sense of humor will make me cry, your intelligence will keep me riveted, your smile will become an indelible image in my mind, and your eyes will reveal your love of humanity. You are never fake or pretentious - it's just not who you are. Your creativity in any way, music, writing, designing, technology, building, painting, hands that heal or words that move people, will capture my curiosity. You naturally have a way of bringing out the best in me and those around you. Being self driven and motivated, you have achieved and take pride in what you do and what you have accomplished. You also know the importance of balance of work and play and the impact of that within your life and that of others around you. Mostly, I would love to find someone that is my best friend, lover, confidante, as well as makes me laugh..loosen up, life doesn't have to be soooo serious all the time! Don't get me wrong, I have serious,deep side, but I love to enjoy life, family, friends and laughter is key. Men, if you are searching for the perfect body and size 2, I am not the women for you.If that's not ok, then pass me by...I'm not looking for the shallow Hal's of the world. ..I'm 43, beautiful, charming, funny, sexy, successful, smart, very smart, an incredible kisser and mother of three! I'm a real women and not trying to be a plastic barbie that's 25 yrs old... I was an All American athlete in 2 sports, basketball and track; a 2time gold medalist in the Jr. Olympics in the ***meters and long jump...a LONG TIME ago...Being at that level fuels me...who I am and responsible for much of my success, but I'm not in shape now. This is just where I am at this particular time in my life. I'd rather spend my extra time being a mother to my children! I believe in honesty...so there ya go! Yes, there must be attraction, but not perfection, nobody's perfect, including you. If you don't like me calling it like it is....good then, Quality Control ;) Honesty is the best policy :) My pics are CURRENT...are yours?Lastly, as direct as this profile comes across, I am quite soft, sweet and tender to those I let in my world and would do anything for those I love!A few fav quotes:How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.~; joy's soul lies in the doing.~William Shakespeare“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts"~ ~ With the right person anything can be fun! Coffee, lunch or dinner. You typically know right away if there is chemistry or not. No pressure and laid back. Intimate setting so we can talk and get to know each other. Stroll on the beach, a sunset, a glass of wine, dinner in a small quaint cafe, coffee.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ona

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I have a good sense of humour, I'm direct but not rude, independant and thoughtful. I'm very easy going and will go with the flow. Whether it's camping or a nice hotel (although I have to admit the hotel plumbing is more appealing), jeans or a dress with heels, beer or wine, going out or staying in, variety is the spice of life. It's all fun with the right person.Fitness is a big part of my life and I'm pretty active. I workout at the gym ***times a week (I love spin classes) or I'm outside running and biking in the summer. ;) I am looking for someone who is also active. Would be great to have someone to go to the gym with.I love food and I eat healthy (yes I eat my veggies) but I do splurge once in a while and enjoy a great meal, a nice glass of wine, desert, a cold beer or ice cream (ok I could keep going here lol) and it's all even better when shared with great company. I love to socialize with friends, try out new places and new activities (makes life interesting!). I love to travel! Whether it's a winter getaway to somewhere hot with a great beach or a just a road trip for the weekend. I'm up for it!I have 3 teenagers who are awesome young adults now and very proud of them. They keep me busy but now that they're older I also enjoy certain freedoms.I'm looking for someone who has a positive attitude, is easy going, who likes to do physical activities, stays in shape and has a good sense of humour. Let's decide together but I prefer something quick and easy for the first meeting. That way if we don't find each other interesting we can make a quick exit lol.

  • Kandis

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    ABOUT ME: I am easy going, joyful, helpful, creative, hardworking, motivated, love to laugh and make others laugh, not high maintenance (but I do like to look my best). I enjoying trying and learning new things. I have been known to take off and see what the outdoors has to offer...love the water!! I enjoy a day trip up to the lake just to get my fix! Content with a good movie and relaxing on the couch, but don't want to spend my life there. Getting to know new people and trying new things sounds much better! I enjoy the arts, zoo, the park,beach, lakes or ..pretty much anything I can learn from and find new enjoyment with (disclaimer..as long as I can't get injured from it :) )I am just a good ole country girl who loves the simple things in life.......sitting out by a bonfire, going for walks in new places outdoors, and chilling out on the back porch with friends and family for a little party, and yes fishing off a boat or dock is one of my favs! oh and I'm not a hick...but..spitting watermellon seeds to see who has the best distance...come on you know it's fun!I I am a person who has a strong faith and believe in treating others as I want to be treated.I haven't traveled a lot, but really want to get out there and see more of what this world looks like :)Most of my friends and family tell me I am a lot of fun to be around and very insightful about people. Easy to get to know me, I am not one to keep things inside, I will tell you how I feel in a respectful way, but you will know where we stand. I'm not into playing mind games! I'd much rather just be playful!! I can be very goofy and enjoy not taking life to seriously!WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR :I am interested in getting to know someone (at a slow pace) who is willing to completely be themselves. At this stage in life I want it all on the table so we know if we are compatible. I am looking for a best friend, someone who I can share myself with and they are willing to do the same. I am interested in a man who is secure in who he is and is confident, not full of himself, but sure of himself :) I am looking for a man who knows how to treat a lady like she is special to him and wants her to know it. A man who can work hard but be able to come home and share his day and then enjoy each others company :) I want a man to captivate me to the point I smile when we're apart, just because I have thought about how amazing he is!WORK: I am a hairstylist and have a small salon I operate full time and as a marketing tool for new clients I have a part time job at Kohls (it's a great way to meet new people and I often get asked who does my hair...so this has been a win win..I enjoy the work and it's helped my salon business grow) I do work a lot, but I am in control of my schedule, so if I want to take time off I can make time.FAMILY: I have 1 son who's 21 and in college. He's a great man and has a great future ahead of him :)ok, so if your still with me and I haven't lost your interest and sounds like we would have some common things to start a conversation, message me :) I think the first date should allow for conversation, so as long as we can talk and get to know one another it really doesn't matter so much what we do! I think weather permitting meeting at a park or going to the zoo can be enjoyable. Of course a nice meal is always great. I good concert or local band is fun! The possibilities are really endless, it's mostly what allows for us to get to know each other :)

  • Danica

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I enjoy being outdoors enjoying concerts and festivals of all sorts. From time to time, I also enjoy a quiet evening at home with a nice dinner, bottle of wine, and good movie. I am looking for someone who isn't playing games and ready to have an honest and trustworthy relationship. I believe that friendship is the basis for any solid relationship. I am easy going and looking to meet new people and start enjoying what life has to offer.Lastly, If you are looking just to text and not actually talk and meet to see if there is a connection, I'm not interested. casual meeting for coffee or a drink

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