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Trace, 41

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About Me

Hi! I am a professional writer, ***with an athletic build - I've played sports my whole life. So...loving sports is a must for me. :) I adore animals (also a must) and foster rescue dogs. I have my own house and a solid career. Though I've had several longterm relationships, none have ended in marriage, usually because of distance ***moves for a job, etc. I don't think I was ready then, but I am now. Regarding kids, my profile says "undecided" but that's not true - I would love kids, definitely to adopt. But if you have kids and do not want more that's OK too. At age 40 I understand I am probably not going to have kids via the traditional route if at all - I believe a relationship with your partner must absolutely come first before children should even be considered.My career goal is to continue writing and be self-supportive; I'm very good with money and financing. This helps as I like to travel (who doesn't?) and scuba dive.I think what makes me unique is I am extremely passionate and have been told I have a "childlike" response to life. I like that. It's important to have enthusiasm for life. I am easily entertained and can find fun in mundane activities. People tell me I am funny. As for flaws, I am definitely not a patient person (traffic, etc.), and I tend to overload myself until I get stressed out. That's when someone cool comes in to tell me it's going to be OK. :) Finally, it says to mention music ***Coffee/quick drinks are good for a first meeting (please call, texting is too disconnected). Would love to have a nice dinner outside somewhere, followed by some live music. Would also be fun to meet with our dogs in a park somewhere and have a picnic. This would also make my dog very happy. :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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