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Saige, 42

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About Me

basically i'm a 41 yr old mom with a 4 yr old daughter who is my world. i'm not looking for a dad for her, she has one. i'm looking for someone for me. remember the days when you were in your 20s and you just stated dating someone without knowing where it was going? if it lead somewhere awesome, and if it didn't, who cared, you had a life lesson. that's basically what i am doing here. would i like to meet my soul mate, of course. but do i think i'm going to meet him tomorrow...no. i'm realistic, very easy going, and laid back. i love to laugh and have a good time. even though i am 41 i neither look nor act like it, but i do know how to be serious when i need to be. i'm looking for a honest, easy going, positive (do not like negativity), caring, open, good at communication, attractive, basically an all around good guy. i know i am what is considered a bbw, and i am not that way because of not taking care of myself. i actually got cancer in my thyroid several years ago and had to have it removed, when that happened i ballooned up. it really sucked, but i don't care. i still look at myself as a sexy, beautiful, caring, having lots to give a man. i am an awesome girlfriend, i do lots of little things for the one i'm with just to let them know i care. actions speak louder than words i always say. A first date could be anything from dinner/drinks to movies to shooting pool and beer. I can have fun doing anything as long as the person I am with is fun. Please do remember I have a child and can not just set up a date last minute unless you want me to bring her along...lol. I have to get a sitter like a normal person and can not just whip someone up with my magic wand. ***\\***Please Place***\\\***This Ribbon On***Your Page If***Someone You***Know Is Fighting---\\\***Cancer Or You've***\\***Lost Someone To***\***Cancer.***\\\***Cures Start***\\\---With Us..

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jamesina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I know that it's important to find balance in life. I work full-time and have a part time job. I have two great kids, who I am extremely close with. I try to do yoga everyday and make classes a few times a week. I enjoy hanging out with friends. Growing up Sundays were family day and spending time with the ones that mean the most is still very important to me. I can be serious and focused when I need to be; but I love to laugh, have fun and am playful. I feel just as comfortable in a dress as I do in jeans. I love packing up a picnic basket and going to the park, walks along the beach, spending a few hours in a bookstore, going to the city for the day, weekend getaways, go carting, amusement parks, trying out new restaurants, catching live music, dancing or just going for a drive and stopping along the way to take photos (my camera is always on me). I enjoy going out and am a bit of a night owl, but I value quiet nights at home, cooking a nice meal and listening to music. Casual, just to get to know each other.

  • Adella

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Alright I’ll just admit it, yes on OCCASION I have been known to have my blonde moments. However, I like to view that as me just being a trustworthy kind of person. A very strong value, and one that I hope I display to my daughter, is to treat people the way you want to be treated. As I'm sure everyone does, I love to laugh and hope that the person I meet has a sense of humor. I love doing things outdoors. I’ve been riding my bike to work for the last 12 yrs and will pick that over metro any day! I work out most days in our gym at work. Absolutely love to stay active but also love a cozy night at home in the pj’s watching a movie, reading a good book or snuggling with someone special. I'm a morning person. I’ve inherited the family gene of competitiveness. If I think I have a chance to beat you in something watch out………..it’s ON! Don’t worry I’ll tell you you did a great job in losing to me!;-) I love going on hikes with the dog and exploring. My biggest downfall…sweets! When I first meet people I am quiet and kind of on the shy side but I open up more as I get to know you. Once I do feel comfortable around you I tend to have a sarcastic sense of humor. I'm originally from NJ which mean I'm a Giants fan!! FYI - if you're a Cowboys fan hopefully you have a ton of great qualities that will make up for that mistake in your life...lol. I do prefer a guy to be at least 5'10.My family is my biggest blessing. I only wish they lived closer! But one piece is missing and that’s someone to grow old with and enjoy the second half of my life with. I would prefer to meet someone that lives close by to me. I am a single mom and if my daughter suddenly gets a play date it would be nice if you lived close by so we could get together. My faith is also important to me so if you are not a religious person, I'm probably not the girl for you. Thanks for taking the time to read this! Have a wonderful day!

  • Tashina

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hi. Thanks for taking a minute to read this. I am here looking for just one good, decent, fun, smart guy. I know, that's not a lot to ask for...right?I've been on this website for a bit and I've met some fascinating guys...and I'm using both the good and bad connotations of that word. I've definitely learned what does and what does not work for me. It all comes down to this...I want a guy to enjoy my life with. I need someone who can be my partner, who likes to laugh, who knows how to let go and relax, who will make me feel special, who will excite me, who enjoys trying new things...I am tired of the men who are looking for a plaything or side piece. Please don't contact me if you're only looking for sex. I want-and deserve- more. Also, since I'm being honest, I'm attracted to younger men (***Edit-I'm only referring to men in their mid-late 30s. I'm shocked by the reaction that this one section has gotten!) and men of my same race. I hope that doesn't sound rude...but I don't want to waste your time. I'm open to suggestions!

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