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Arnita, 42

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About Me

ok, so, about me...I am a fairly sarcastic person & tend to appreciate that in others. I need to be able to have an intellectual conversation with someone but also be silly & stupid sometimes. I am compassionate & empathetic. You don't know what any other person is or has gone through, and I think it's important to remember that as you go through your own life.-love the snow & snowboarding but also love just sitting on the beach & reading a book. I couldn't live in a place where the seasons didn't change. I like to be outside on a deck drinking beers, having a nice dinner with some wine, laying in bed listening to the rain, walking outside while it's snowing, cuddling on the couch, going on a long walk, hike, or run and having that exhausted but great feeling of accomplishment at the end. I can't cook - at all - just being honest :-) I love my Doc Martens, and all of my tattoos &;..but the hat is a must! ha ha) I like sports - live or on TV, watching football in the fall with a bunch of friends or going to a baseball game in the summer! I like all kinds of music but NOT country (with the exception of Johnny Cash) and mostly alternative...Social Distortion, New Order, the Smiths, Metric, Offspring, Keane, Spinnerette... I have 2 children who are with me 50% of the time. They mean the world to me & we are absolutely a package deal. There is little that is more important to me than helping them become kind, genuine individuals. I am not looking for someone to be a father to my children. They have a father & he is a good dad. I am here looking for someone for me. Someone that I can connect with. Wow, there's so much more to me that can't be explained here. If you want to know anything, just ask... :-)Please don't contact me if you ***have taken a picture of yourself w/your cell phone in your bathroom mirror or ***I can see shotguns in the background of your picture. coffee or a drink, walk or hike.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Looking for a guy who wants to have fun, conversation, laughter, open to new experiences and activities. Chemistry and physical attraction is important- I want the electricity.- just not if that's all there is. Let's do stuff- walk around the city, hike, ski, six flags, play pool, bowl, museum, drive someplace....whatever-I'm open to ideas. If all you want is to hook up, keep looking. But if want the company of girl who is REAL- nice, fun, intelligent, laid back, sensual- and has it together- that's me.No pressure. Relationships just happen...or not.I'm not trying to win anyone over, but just be myself.I have 1 child who is 7 and the greatest gift ever. He spends time with his dad regularly, ***time during summer. I'm laid back, non judgemental, and accept people for who they are. I appreciate people's differences. This is the guy for me:easy going muscular/bigger than me- (I'm very muscular)non judgmental socialsilly side and says crazy thingsgentle when he touches me exudes confidence even if he's unsuresensual and passionate compassionate for the vulnerable speaks his mindsays what he meansmeans what he saysdoes fun things with medoes fun things with his friendsvalues his familyhas flaws, just like merolls with it if feelings develop, while we see what happens...Age doesn't matter if we're a good match, but if you're twenty-something or look like you could be my father its not going to work. If you think that's shallow oh well. PLEASE don't add me to Favorites...that's just weird Whatever is comfortable for both of us. I'm open to ideas.

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  • Lucrecia

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    in my life I seem to encounter waves of change… what I mean is, as I grow and my life's circumstances change around me, I seem to be constantly trying to redefine who I am. Switching careers, going through the phases of entering and then ending a marriage, moving, becoming a mom… all these events present challenges to maintaining a sense of individuality. I keep trying new things, new ways to keep it real and remind myself of the enjoyments of life.I love to write, but when I can't get to the computer or focus enough to put pen to paper I enjoy daydreaming. I smile a lot… because I'm usually thinking about things that make me laugh. I'm a little bit shy and try to cover it up by being silly.I play the flute, sometimes to get my daughters to eat their dinner but sometimes I just play it because I love playing. I belong to a flute choir, and we perform about once a month. I've played since I was really young, maybe third grade, and I still enjoy it every time I pick it up. It makes me especially happy to be able to share this with others through performance. Who I'm looking for: PLEASE NOTE: If you are an overw***something-yr-old, please DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you have nothing to say, DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you have no picture and no information in your profile, DO NOT CONTACT ME. If you don't speak or write fluently in English, or have limited education, please DO NOT CONTACT ME. Just because I'm no longer in my 20s doesn't mean I'm interested in settling. No plumber-butts need apply.I'm adventurous… I like skydiving, playing pool, target shooting, roller blading, sailing & wind surfing (although I haven't been in years!) riding on the back of other people's motorcycles, going swimming at night…I love wine and good conversation! Pour me a glass and get me talking; as long as you're conversational we'll have a good time.If worse comes to worst I'll get a little giggly and start telling you stupid stuff like how my youngest daughter likes to compose songs which she yells at the top of her lungs while playing the piano (which she is doing as I write this...) My one stipulation is that you be reasonably open-minded. I sometimes get tired of political discussions, because it seems that most people who want to discuss politics seem to be far more opinionated than open-minded — but I'll give it a shot.I'm interested in someone highly intelligent, successful, with a strong personality - confident, but not arrogant; active, athletic, adventurous, kind, sincere, with a sense of humor...Someone who has something to say to me

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