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Maya, 42
United States, Georgia, Palmetto

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I am a single mom with three kids. I have been divorced for almost nine years and single most of those. I am finally at the point that I have the time and energy to put into a worthwhile relationship. I am looking for someone to be my partner in life. I know how to communicate and am not afraid of my feelings. I am a tell it like it is kind of a woman.That being said, Gentlemen - judge though you may, if you see yourself in any of the items listed below please move on. If you think about it logically, I am sure all of you have a similar list. These are my preferencesopinions, whatever you would like to call them. I don't think I'm better than any one of you, I'm simply trying to avoid wasting anyone's time - yours and mine. 1. You smoke 2. You are more than a social drinker 3. You have or plan to have a motorcycle 4. You are very conservative or very republican 5. You enjoy watching anything or anyone beat the s**t out of each other for sport (MMA, UFC, etc.) 6. You enjoy hunting and-or consider hunting putting food out and laying in wait (I do like to fish) 7. You love country music, two stepping, etc. 8. You are very religious (regardless of your religion) 9. You own several firearms and-or carry one when you are out and about10. You are intimidated-threatened by a woman who has opinions and knows what she wants ** (not that I think I'm always right - I love a good discussion-debate)11. You think-believe that all men are superior to, smarter than, etc. women OR that a woman is supposed to complete you**ATTENTION MEN OFFENDED BY THE LIST ABOVE** Not being stuck up, snobby, picky, ****y, or any of the other VERY nice words I have been described as in your countless *** waste both of our time. Thank you for those (sarcasm font). I'm looking for a partner, someone to share my life with, not someone who does his own thing while I do mine. Just a little food for thought so your brain doesn't immediately kick into retaliation mode for something you read that you didn't like. :)More about me:I am educated and intelligent (no, they aren't the same thing - if you think they are .....).I am quick witted and have a great sense of humor that tends to be on the naughty side.I am practical, logical, and frugal.I am honest and will tell you things even if you don't want to hear them. I despise, detest, and refuse to have anything to do with liars and game players.I can't stand stupidity, and there is entirely too much of that in the world today!I am responsible, respectful, and considerate of all others, at times to a fault.I am passionate and know there has to be chemistry in addition to a good foundation.I have a strong work ethic and have worked hard to get where I have in life.I appreciate the little things.I am happy with my life and what the future holds, I do however severely miss intelligent adult conversation. I am not looking for someone to support me or my kids. I take care of us just fine. "Am I really asking for too much?": This refers to what I really want and hope to find here: A man that is my best friend and biggest advocate. A man that is witty and can keep up with my back and forth but knows it is all in good fun - he can dish it out as well as he can take it. And while I am sure this will bring me a variety of unwanted ***, I want a man that I have amazing chemistry with. A man that will want me just as much and as often as I want him. I want a man that I get excited about seeing even when we are old and gray because I still want him just as much.So, am I really asking for too much? First meetings are different than first dates. Definitely depends on the person. We can talk about it. ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Jade from Palmetto | Woman | 42 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Hello there! I am new to online dating, and so feel very much like a fish out of water. I have a few friends who were successful using sites like this, so I thought I would give it a shot. So, here goes...I have two children, ***½ (the ½ is very important) and one 5. The three of us practice Taekwondo, and absolutely love it. I also train in Krav Maga (yes, I secretly pretend I am a ninja or a super spy). I am an outgoing, active, and competitive individual. I am pretty direct (not in a rude way) and transparent, though I have a sensitive side. You will never wonder what I am thinking or feeling. I am quick to smile and I love to laugh. So, a bit of bantering and witty comments goes a long way with me. I love to cook and eat just about any type of cuisine, and love to share it with others. I have been in sales for over 14 years, and it is absolutely my calling. I am focused on my career, however I realize it is just a job. I don’t play games, and I appreciate honesty, integrity, and transparency in others. I also very much appreciate chivalry (a little goes a long way) and people who are not afraid to openly show how they feel about someone (this goes for friends too). If you say you're going to do something I expect you will do it, and I hold myself to those same standards. I believe mutual respect, lots of communication, trust, and being faithful are key to a healthy and successful relationship. Also humor....laughter is really important, in fact I can't live without it. :-)My ex and I have an amicable relationship (no drama). The kids are number one priority for both of us, and so we focus on making sure they know that. My ideal man doesn't necessarily need to have children, but he must be good with kids. I am very involved in my kids' lives, so I would eventually want you to be involved in their lives too. Likewise, I would want to be involved in your children(s)' lives, and I would treat them with the same respect and kindness that I would expect mine to receive from you.I am looking for someone who will become my best friend, my lover, and everything in between. I truly believe you are out there somewhere, and I can't wait to meet you. :-) This is a tough one, because it really depends on who I am with. I'd say the best first date is one that was originally intended to be a quick cup of coffee or glass of wine, but turned into hours of talking and laughing.

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  • May from Palmetto | Woman | 45 years old | Scorpio
    May

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    *** I am a travel nurse .. never know where I might turn up next ******* maybe near you. I call West TN home .. I am single and I am from the country, a very small town in fact, and although I work in the big city I really enjoy going back 'home' whenever I can. I enjoy the best of both worlds, dinner and a night out to a quiet walk and a picnic. People think that I am basically a quiet person, until they get to know me; it just takes a little while to feel them out, I have a very dry, quirky sense of humor that is not appreciated by all. I am a great listener and try my very best not to give my 2-cents worth. If you have a crazy significant other, be it a true mental condition or just crazy jealous please do not send me a message. I do not need the drama in my life that these people cause. Thank you ever so much. Oh, and if you do, do not fib about it because you will get caught . I do not drink nor smoke. It is your liver and you may do all the damage to it you want .... but they are my lungs and all I ask is for a bit of common courtesy.I am a fairly well rounded woman. I am comfortable in shorts grilling in the back yard or dressed to the nines for a night on the town. I am old enough to know how to carry myself in most all situations. I am not too sure what I am looking for but I hope that I will know it when I find it. I do not think that outward appearances are all that important but there has to be some initial attraction.I like a man that will offer to help. Yes, I can mow my own lawn but do appreciate the offer of help. And, yes, I do know that men know how to wash clothes but I will still offer. If you would rather wash the clothes then I will mow the yard.. lol. I think that a relationship should be a partnership... there are no his nor her jobs... however there is respect and sharing required.;Intelligence isn't always knowing the answer, but knowing where to find the answer". "There is only one thing I don't know, that is everything".read this in someones profile and loved it .... just had to use it.'A journey starts but with a single step so if you don’t hear from me then fill free to start the journey' ... so simple but so true.life is not measured by the breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.Falling in Love is when I lay in your arms and wake up in your dreams.You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by seeing an imperfect person perfectly."-Sam KeenAs we grow up, we learn that even the one person that wasn't supposed to ever let you down probably will. You will have your heart broken probably more than once and it's harder every time. You'll break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken. You'll fight with your best friend. You'll blame a new love for things an old one did. You'll cry because time is passing too fast, and you'll eventually lose someone you love. So take too many pictures, laugh too much, and love like you've never been hurt because every sixty seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back. Don't be afraid that your life will end, be afraid that it will never begin.""Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option." ~UnknownIf you can't take me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best ***Marylin"It's much easier to turn a friendship into love, than love into friendship." -- Proverb"A man that makes you cry is not worth your tears - a man that is worth your tears will never make you cry." ~Unknown"I might not be someone’s first choice, but I am a great choice! I may not be rich but I am valuable. I don’t pretend to be someone I’m not, because I’m good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I’ve done in the past, but I’m proud of who I am today. I may not be perfect but I don’t need to be. Take me as I am or watch me as I walk away."THE GEOGRAPHY OF A WOMANBetween 18 and 22, a woman is like Africa .Between 23 and 30, a woman is like Europe . Well developed and open to trade, especially for someone of real value.Between 31 and 35, a woman is like Spain , very hot , relaxed and convinced of her own beauty.Between 41 and 50, a woman is like Great Britain, with a glorious and all conquering past.Between 51 and 60, a woman is like Israel, has been through war, doesn't make the same mistakes twice, takes care of business.-preserving, but open to meeting new people.After 70, she becomes Tibet : Wildly beautiful, with a mysterious past and the wisdom of the ages.... An adventurous spirit and a thirst for spiritual knowledge..THE GEOGRAPHY OF A MANBetween 1 and 80, a man is like Iran , ruled by nuts.Ok new pet peeve of mine. We are not texting nor are we 15 yrs old. If your profile and messages look like something being texted between 2 teenagers ... I am probably not for you. The occasional correct abbreviation is great but not the whole conversation, I like the written language just as it is. humm... the first date is always a hard one. A nice peaceful lunch is always a good way to start. And, if every thing goes well .... maybe date number 2 later that night... lol.. it can be done. "You should be kissed and often...and by someone who knows how." - . . "Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass....It's about learning how to dance in the rain"Have basic manners been lost? It never fails to amaze me what some will say and/or do. and the really sad part is that for a man to say/do the things he does that somewhere some woman has let him.I read this in a profile and like it.26 Things you should want to do for me!!1. Know how to make you smile when you are down.2. Try to secretly smell your hair, but you always notice.3. Stick up for you, but still respects your independence.4. Give you the remote control during the game.5. Come up behind you and put my arms around you.6. Play with your hair.7. My hands always find yours.8. Be funny when I really want something.9. Offer you plenty of massages.10. Dance with you, even if I feel like a dork.11. Never run out of love.12. Be funny, but know how to be serious.13. Realize being funny when I needs to be serious.14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.15. React nicely when you are actually being being short.16. Smile a lot.17. Plan a romantic date full of cheesy things I wouldn't normally do.18. Appreciate you.19. Help others out.20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1.21.22. Sing, even if I can't.23. Have a creative sense of humor.24. Stare at you.25. Call for no reason.26. I'm saving this one for you!"A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT HONESTY CAN BE COMPARED TO AVEHICLE WITHOUT GAS. YOU CAN STAY IN IT AS LONG AS YOUWANT, BUT ITS STILL NOT GOING ANYWHERE"Friendship is love without the wings!Seduce my mind and you can have my body, Find my soul and I'm yours forever.

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  • Lynnette from Palmetto | Woman | 58 years old | Pisces
    Lynnette

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    Woman. 58 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-62

    Hi! My name is Lynnette. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Palmetto, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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