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Ayn, 41

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About Me

I have been described as intelligent, compassionate, loving, intense, great sense of humor, adventurous, and happy. I'm a little shy at first, but once I get to know you a bit, I'll open up. As for fun, I like to try a little bit of everything, but I especially like to travel from little weekend getaways to international vacations. When I am old and grey I want to be able to say that I have tried as much as life has to offer. I love watching movies (Captain Jack Sparrow has my undying devotion), hanging with friends, cooking (I'm Italian...I can do it), and watching professional/collegiate sports events (Go PSU! My pro teams are not so hot right now :( ), preferably in person (tv just lacks that interaction). I really enjoy reading as well. I'm addicted to the bookstore. I am a romantic and have a good view on relationships. I think guys in the past have been intimidated by the fact that I am capable of taking care of myself. I'm not looking for someone to ply me with material things, but to take care of the real me. I'm looking for a best friend and lover.A little update: I read everyone's profile but there are some things that I am firm on. If you smoke, I am not interested. It's not attractive to me. If you are separated, then I am not interested in getting involved until you are legally divorced. You have a lot to deal with and I believe you will need to focus on that before you get involved with me. I think a first date should be fun and interactive. Catch a baseball game, visit the state fair, take a dance class, or go to the zoo. Anything that will make you laugh and enjoy the evening.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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