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Kena, 41

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About Me

I'm tired of all the players and bs. I need someone who won't lead me on and will show some respect. If you can't do that don't bother messaging me.~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Please!!!!!! DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU HAVE NOT READ MY PROFILE!!!!!.....I'm really not a mean spirited person and my profile, w/all of it's stipulations, is NOT a good representation of me. I know I sound like a b****, but anyone that knows me will absolutely tell you differently. They will tell you how open, caring and loveable I am. That being said, the nonsense that fills my inbox is wearing me out! SO....**If you have contacted me before and I have not responded... and you choose to try again (and again and again), just please dont?!?!**If you send me a message and either did not read my profile to see WHO I AM LOOKING FOR (please scroll down to that section) ...or you just choose to *** preferences and try anyway, please don't! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Yes, I'm picky on who I talk to and spend time with. I'm completely fine with it. I don't think I'm better than anyone else. I just know what I want and won't settle. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ABOUT ME:I've been single for about a year. I thought my last relationship was "the one". It lasted ***yrs. So, here I am...I love all types of music. I always spend my free time doing something music related. I also love the beach...it's very spiritual for me. I enjoy hiking, football, long walks, cuddling by a warm cozy fireplace and much much more. Would love to share them all with the right guy. Oh yeah, bad hair days really bum me out...lol! A sense of humor is SO important! I love to laugh (who doesn't??). I'm extremely independent, honest, sincere, intelligent, easy going, fun loving, spontaneous and passionate. My friends would say I am loyal to a fault.Why you should get to know me? I really am easy going and can accept quite a bit. Say what you mean - mean what you say. It really is that simple. I CAN RESPECT THE TRUTH, EVEN IF IT'S NOT PRETTY...BUT LYING JUST MAKES ME INSANE! SO, PLZ, JST DONT DO IT! BE AN ADULT AND SPEAK THE TRUTH AT ALL TIMES! I'm not one of those girls that it takes a lot to make happy. Material gestures are nice but your time is the most valuable gift you can give. A quick text, call or *** the blue, just to say HI can really do wonders!My perfect day would be knowing I made a difference in someone's day. Some of the most important things in my life are my friends, family, music...~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~WHO AM I LOOKING FOR? The man I am looking for is HONEST! w/himself as well as others, confident but not obnoxious, works hard, plays hard. He'd be responsible, dedicated, determined, passionate, ambitious, caring, sincere, intelligent, funny...and be a good kisser! :) He is...***TALL -.....- my family is short (we're Italian) and I love them. I just don't want to date someone short. Clearly this is an issue for a majority of the people that seem to be attracted to me. Yes, I know I'm short too (I always thought 5'5 for a girl was average height, but I'll concede to being short if it makes y'all feel better.) I wear heels all the time so that puts me at a minimum of 5'7 and as you can see from my pics, I'm curvy so I feel much more comfortable w/a guy that is significantly taller than me. I'm sorry but that's just the way it is...*Age range ***ish*CAUCASION!*American - born & raised*Non-smoker*Tattoos and goatees are cool but not into piercings...and not into guys w/long hair*Strong mentally & physically*funny!I've dated mostly military guys so that is the look I go for I guess - somewhat fit, short hair or bald. Ruggedly handsome but not GQ. Please have a recent pic, preferrably one where I can see your eyes.Things that do not matter to me: Your income (other than you have one), your car (again as long as you have one), your house and your ex. I'm NOT looking for someone who is perfect b/c Lord knows I'm not a perfect person! But I'm hoping to find someone perfect for me. I know and understand the significance of physical attraction. I completely agree that it is important to have that but it is equally as important to find someone you can talk to and laugh with.I know how what I've outlined above comes across and it's not meant to offend anyone. Just don't want to waste your time or mine.I'm NOT here for chat buddies so if you are, pass me by, please. I "chat" with a purpose...with it hopefully leading somewhere.If you date a lot of girls at the same time, again, pass me by, please. I date (talk to***guy at a time. So, if you are lucky enough to get my number, you are the only one I am talking to. I do not give my number out easily and it makes me VERY weary of those that do. Giving out my number, to me, is like giving myself to someone. It's a BIG DEAL to me. Just keep that in mind. anything EXCEPT fishing, camping and hunting and Nascar (or any auto racing). It's ok if you like those things...I'll just go shoe shopping while you're doing them :)~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~“A woman without curves, is like jeans without pockets, you don’t know where to put your hands.”

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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