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Ela, 41

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About Me

READ CAREFULLY that way we don't waste each others time.I recently quit smoking. Its been almost 6wks since I've had a cigarette, so I'm still a work in progress lol. I'm not like every other women on here. I know exactly what I'm looking for, and what I'm not. Life is way to short for drama and BS. 1. Im not interested in any big over weight guys, sorry im a small petite women an over weight guys just dont turn my head sorry.2. I do like younger guys, but i will date a guy my own age, if he sparks my interest. I'm pretty much just a simple country girl that loves doing guy stuff lol. I was raised by my father so i've always been a tomboy. 1. Im not a materialistic person, i don't care about what fine objects you possess or how much money you have. Im looking for what you have in your heart. 2. Im not looking for a father for my children, they already have a dad, but if your the right guy, they would like to be your friend.3. Im not looking for a guy to support me or my kids, ive done just fine with doing that myself. Thats not what im about.What kind of guys do i like: Well im a total sucker 4 a guy in a uniform dont know why, i just think they look sexy as hell an ya just gotta love a country boy/cowboy, if your afraid 2 camp dont waste my time. I also like a man that is muscular an built, they dont have to have a 6pk or nothing just dont look like your about 2 give birth thats just nasty. Lets face it you wouldn't be interested in me if i had more rolls than the Pillsbury dough boy, well unless you like big women. I want some1 i can trust thats the most important thing in a relationship. Im 100% faithful 2 who im with an i expect the same in return. Cheating is 4 losers, you might as well stay single if thats what your gonna do. Sorry 2 any1 that this offends but im very open an honest about what i like an dont like..sorry. What im looking for is this: The one that i miss when i can't be with him, the one that makes my heart skip a beat when he touches me an makes me melt with every kiss. The one that will be faithful, honest, trusting, caring, respectful an loving. He must be fun natured an love kids an animals. An above all must be willing to spend time with me.Help me save a life today an join your local ASPCA.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Earlean

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Ok guys I read your profiles and these are the main things I look for: are you a christian? You are atleast 5'10" and in pretty good shape. I am by no means in perfect shape but I watch what I eat, work out and try to stay active. I have grand kids, if that bothers you keep looking. I am a strong, caring & compassionate woman. I love to dress up but am also comfortable in a t-shirt & jeans. I am very much a girly girl but not afraid to get dirty. I am a christian & believe in God not religion. I enjoy going out or just hanging at home cuddling on the couch watching a movie. I love picnics, romantic walks & watching the sunset. I like to take weekend get a ways, road trips and I love surprises. The best things to me are the simple things:writing a poem, a candle lit bubble bath after a bad day, bringing me an ice cream or my fav candy. I am very passionate & affectionate. I love all types of music from christian, rock, country & some rap; it just really depends on my mood. I am looking for a godly man, he must make God first in his life. He should love spending time with family but also enjoy a night out every now & then. He is smart, honest, sensitive, hard working, ambitious, passionate & has a sense of humor (I love to laugh). He must be romantic & a gentleman (opening doors for me, dropping me off at the door or getting the car when its raining, carrying my bags). I am an old fashioned girl and like a man that is leader but not controlling. I love adventure & spontaneity, love to have fun, he has to be able to keep things exciting. Also he must be at-least 5'10", I like my man being taller than me. I am a hopeless romantic. I believe in love the cant eat, cant sleep and every time you kiss its like fireworks kind. I want someone that wants to be my best friend, partner and my everything. I believe too many people now days want perfect and run when things get rough. The biggest thing for me is to be yourself. Do not lie or act like something you are not. We are only given a certain amount of time & I don't want to waste it. If you want to know more, just ask...Good luck on your journey! 1st meeting, meet for coffee or maybe lunch somewhere quiet so we can talk

  • Ethyl

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi there! Thanks for stopping by. I was previously a full-time nationally-ranked athlete. I'm also a Level 3 certified coach. Between athletics and academics, some good quality 'down time' is often needed and enjoyed. I'm usually smiling and full of energy, with a definite competitive edge. I'm confident, driven and goal-oriented. Pet-peeves include negative attitudes, poor spelling/grammar... and unnecessary vehicle idling!..;do-nothing" beach vacation. I was lucky to grow up speaking both official languages.About you.... You're university educated (grad school?), VERY fit/athletic (important!!), and definitely a non-smoker. Yes, those are the deal-breakers. Age ***? You're young-at-heart, attractive, competitive, successful and passionate about life. You're confident and ambitious, take pride in your achievements, and aren't afraid to take chances in life in pursuit of your dreams. You also enjoy supporting others in their own quests. You're career-driven, but appreciate that there's more to life as well. You communicate well and easily, and enjoy intelligent conversation and debate. And of course, kindness, trust, and honesty are a given, and you naturally treat people well :-)So if any of the above rings true to you, drop me a line! Cheers!

  • Marta

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am 42, A mother of the children all over the age of 18. I am a grandmother to 4 great children. I worked in the dental field for over 13 years. Now taking some time off. I love trying new things going new places. I have three dogs (pitbulls) that are my babies. I am the kind of person that does not put on any airs. Im very down to earth. I listen to all kinds of music. I mostly love sothern classic rock like Lynard Skynard I also like Dance music and new Hip Hop, I love watching T.V shows like NCIS, Law and Order SVU, CSI Miam when it was on. and I love coffee. Especially Starbucks. So I love to go for a coffee break.I I am looking for the right man that will let me be me and like me for that not try to change me cus Im pretty awesome the way I am.I am very involved in my childrens lives and my grandchildren too so if that a problem than Im not for you. I am not an expert on first dates. But for me meeting for dinner and drinks is a good start. If it goes good from there the skies the limit.

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