Total users: 61,595,012 Online users: 221,617
Shandi, 40
United States, Georgia, Locust Grove

Online

About Me

First and foremost I want a friend, someone who embodies the parts of me that I am lacking in, and still has some commonality with me. I don't know how else to do this but to date, and then hope something comes of it. Right now I am in the building phase. It is a slow process.I like honesty, creativity of any kind, culture, history --especially Celtic History, but I will take what I can get. Please be liberal leaning with intellectual skills, compassion, and be able to be engaged and available to other people you are around. Gay Friendly, not too judgmental, and fairly open-minded would be nice also. Please no African American Men. I'm simply not attracted to you, sorry,I'm sorry but due to rude short messages, I expect you to meet the character limit with some sensible English if you wish to impress me AND message me here.Conservative Christians need not apply. I am an Irish Pagan. Atheists and Agnostics welcome.I dislike egotism and self-righteousness of any kind. Even my own. ;)I have a bit of fire in me. I am an Aries and of Irish descent. I burn bright occasionally, but it is over quickly if the flames are not fanned unnecessarily --and sometimes I can be guilty of that, i admit it: it is a work in progress. ;)I love history and ancient, modern culture, and travel. I also like computer and video games, at the opposite end of the spectrum. I am over the whole 'dating bar scene'. I prefer places with a little culture to them: pubs or quaint bars some such thing; small cafes.I love food, both to try to cook it and to eat it. I am only a moderately decent cook myself, but I like to experiment. I love to eat a wide variety of things including: Japanese cuisine, especially sushi, Thai, Greek, Middle Eastern, etc. I am a brave eater to say the least.I like most alternative/goth stuff from the 90's, some jazz/blues, big band, swing, rock-a-billy, Celtic Traditional Music (Mostly Irish), and a little bit of classical. I'm not a big top 40 fan, or a big fan of country or rap/r&b. There are some exceptions to every rule.I read mostly sci-fi and fantasy, although generally unknown female writers. I like yoga long walks in beautiful places. I dislike most sports, and am not into extreme activities of any kind --you go right ahead.I am looking for someone who likes to laugh and joke; quick witted and comfortable in their own skin. Someone is comfortable hanging out at home and cooking and watching movies, with occasional trips out during the week. A true unappreciated geek who is looking for a quasi-hip (in her own mind because she has a piercing and a tattoo) girl who is independent and will tell you exactly what she thinks.I dislike people who do not follow through, or tell you what they think you want to hear, *** being honest. Lay it on me, I can take it. I can't promise you will like my answer but life is too short to not say what is on your mind. Coffee or a happy hour drink is more than fine. We should generally know within a half hour to 45 minutes whether we like each other or not. The second date is better for a casual dinner. NO MOVIES. I can think of nothing less exciting than spending a lot of money to sit in a dark enclosed space with someone I don't know, and can't talk with to get to know. ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

English Indian Irish Mexican Portuguese Fantasy History Sci-Fi American Football Bowling
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Luetta from Locust Grove | Woman | 40 years old | Taurus
    Luetta

    Online

    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'll try most things once so I'm pretty open that way. I'm not a meat eater and love animals so I'm looking for someone who's open to that and also enjoys being around animals. :) I like people who are fun, good-natured, easy to be around and would also like to get outside and do things together. If you can really make me laugh, bonus.I can be shy in large groups or when I first meet people but have a good sense of humor (sometimes sarcastic so it is a plus if you can hang with it.)

    Chat
  • Jaliyah from Locust Grove | Woman | 39 years old | Aries
    Jaliyah

    Online

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I like to go camping and fishing. I love to go to the beach. I love to laugh and have fun? I am a positive spiritual woman. I believe in honesty, common courtesy and respecting every one equally. I love all types of music from r n b soul to old school classics. but i love some rap also. I would like to find someone im attracted to physically, emotionally, and all around fun to be around. Someone who is understanding, supportive, structured, and well rounded. I think conversation is important in getting to know someone. Our first date would probably be to go for cofee. Or to lunch, dinner. Depends on what we plan together. Lets have fun.

    Chat
  • Airlia from Locust Grove | Woman | 39 years old | Capricorn
    Airlia

    Online

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Single mom with the best 11 year old son in the world. Most of my hobbies have to do with him. I am a property manager and photographer.Thankfully I have a camera if I'm taking pictures I'm happy. I got on this sight just to meet people and go outside. So for its served its purpose. I met a lot of people .. When I got on this sight I had the attitude of no expectations so no disappointments.. This would have been fabulous in my 20s or if I didn't work or have a son. This on line dating is kicking my ass. Its a bet tricky keeping up and track of it all.So had fun going out with different people( and don't judge me that's what this sight was made for and your on it too:) Now I'm looking to go with the same person. My simple pleasure have changed in the past 15 years and so they should have. What makes me smile now is clean sheets, waking up to a clean kitchen and the smell of coffee, after a good date on Saturday talking about it in my robe mid Sunday morning, dinner parties with a few friends and drinking wine around the kitchen counter, . I have a few more, but really, do you want to keep reading? Meet for coffee in the daytime. If the coffee is good and the company is better then more on the second date.

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: