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Nicolasa, 38

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About Me

- in every facet possible. I do a little of everything imaginable. I try to learn everything I can. There's a long list of things I'd like-to/will do, but I'm happy with what I'm currently doing. That's pretty vague - so here's the more-descript version: Im musical, I'm a techie, I'm a dork, I'm a social flutterby, I'm a nature-lover/adventurer, I'm overly-creative...I love life and find beauty and fun in everything. What I Do I have lived a very colorful life - a very full life. I'm trying to settle it down a bit and enjoy a slower pace with my little mini-me. She's awesome - and I'm not saying that simply because I'm biased. "Little A" has come through more in her 1 year of life than most face in their entirety.-mom; dad is not around. There is not really any drama there & little one is with me 100% of the time. I do it all on my own and I feel completely spoiled that I get this little amazing person all to myself. I'm stable, I have a very awesome job. I'm blessed that my mom can watch A while I work...and I wish I could get paid as much as I do to work part time so I could have more time with her. I'm fascinated with how quick she's growing already and watching her learn. She's hella-smart and a complete little sponge! So obviously, if you want to get to know me, you must be kid-friendly. Otherwise, For non-working time, I love being outside...as does the munckin...in the fall, we both (yes her included) LOVE football RAWR!! Basically, any random adventures. I volunteer locally for charity events - usually playing music - usually military/service-related events. Because of little one's "adventures", we also do a few things for Children's or anything heart-related. I also donate all of my old phones to women's/homeless charities. I'd like to start a musical group that plays on occasion at retirement homes....old 40's music. Something to make them smile. Skillz, I has them! I conquer anything I put my mind to. Seriously. I can learn any ***; I can pick up languages; I've spent the past 2 years learning networking stuff (which is what I do for work now); I can dance, sing, paint, draw, build-things, work out complex problems, mediate social problems between friends (or co-workers), pick a killer fantasy football team - and do it all in high heels and backwards. (More points if you get that reference) I'd say I'm pretty awesome at being "me". Movies: I own about ***dvds and could easily add more...I enjoy most genres.- Mindy Project, New Girl, &-9.....oh yeah, and FOOTBALL! Music: I love all music, but generally, my radio is on classical in the car - or country. I sing & play a mix of blues/indie/folk. LOVE bluegrass. Food: I'm a foodie. I love all foods (aside from fast-food which doesn't count as real food). I try to eat healthy - I believe in listening to your own body for the right diet - mine likes a pesce-vegan kind of diet. Less cheese/breads, more veggies/fruits/seafood. It's like I'm at the beach all the time! :D Couldn't-Live-Withouts: MusicFamily & FriendsThe oceanBooksSnuggle-time with munchkinGood food/wine. Inside My Head: There's a constant soundtrack in my head...it never stops. I also picture anything everyone says in cartoon version internally. Randomly, I'm pondering life, music, the beach, adventures with my munchkin, what my little munchkin is doing while I'm away from her...sleep.... You should message me if: 1) You have something interesting to say - if you want a response, I recommend something witty, funny, intelligent, and/or that I can't help but want to respond back to. I'm not going to respond back to "Hi, how are you." Here's your answer: "I'm great! Thanks for asking."B) You're equally awesome and fun/laid-back/exciting (yes, those can go together without complete paradoxical implications)...and looking for quality friendship & laughter.*-set to be a cabana boy, are independently wealthy, and show up with flowers. I'm probably not going to meet up with a random stranger after one conversation. Get to know me here, move to ***, etc. and then we can do something public and kid-friendly. I'm a single mom & munchkin is a year old....so if I'm important enough for you to get to know, you'll understand, respect, and work with this. ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cristen

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Hi!Thank you for stopping by.Laughing until your crying is the best and when your old, grey and on the porch I still want to be able to laugh. Outdoors and the ocean will always be a Favorite :) I love to meet people and am truly interested. My motto is there are no strangers only friends you haven't met yet. Integrity is Very important, and I don't play games or have any drama :) Yes there are a few of us out there that live this way. I have been through a lot in my life and have learned how precious it is.I Love international travel and see new people / cultures.I'm old fashioned and I truly do want a man to be a man, not one more of my girlfriends :) I was raised in the South, not SoCal. My faith is a significant part of my life, and I am not on here to "serial date". I was in the military, and had a Great time. It was an amazing time in my life. I Love to stay in shape and know my way around a gym but am not a gym rat ;) I LOVE outdoors - biking, hiking, and I love to hang out at a coffee shop and relax as well. Soooooo Here's an idea of what I am looking for; I am young at heart and very energetic, and not afraid of someone somewhat younger. I am looking for marriage and family, and with a best friend. I am looking for someone to bring the best out in me and I get to bring the best out in You. I love personally growing and exploring all that life has to offer. Basically, I am really happy with my life and am looking for someone that enjoys their life as well! Don't be nervous :) I promise you'll have a Fun First phone conversations. I'm in Real Estate and in my business I am on the phone a lot and am used to having fun with first conversations :))First a meet and greet :) I love everything from coffee shops, to Horseback riding, to a creative unique experience.

  • Harper

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    Say hi and get to know me and learn more. I feel that if I put to much on here then you dont have anything to learn about me. Plus it take some of the fun out of it. I feel if a person truly wants to know me then they will take the time. I do

  • Jamila

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    Hi, there. I am a Silicon Valley professional seeking a friend for life. I am a well-rounded individual that works hard and enjoys traveling, dinners with friends, outdoor festivals and good old fashioned intellectual debates over the events of the day.I like comedy and action movies. I love listening to the First Wave station on Sirius. I like video games and spent many years studying martial arts. My list of places to go is fairly lengthy already and am starting to work my way down the list. I am looking for a long term relationship and not seeking a hook-up. I believe I have a lot to share with a partner and knows that all good relationships require their own amount of effort.

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