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About Me

In a relationship, I like to be openly affectionate. I would rather sit next to you than across from you at a restaurant. Every now and then I like a relaxing day at home, but not too often. I like to get out and do things: river kayaking, skiing, camping, hiking, seeing some live music -I'll dabble in mountain biking, but I'm not very good at it and I prefer the fire roads. I like cooking dinner together, and I'm terrible with the barbecue, so if you're good at grilling meat, I don't have to learn how to do it. ;) I like occassionaly entertaining guests in my home -I've had a few taco game nights at my house (good times had by all). I want to be in a relationship where, in the hopefully few *** tension arises, we both make the effort to understand each other's perspectives. I'm looking for someone who is laid back about the small stuff, but when it comes to the important things, is direct about how he thinks things should happen. I like it when my boyfriend is a little on the chivalrous side. I tend to be more often on the introverted side when I first meet people, but I can be an extrovert with those I'm comfortable with.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Shandi

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    First and foremost I want a friend, someone who embodies the parts of me that I am lacking in, and still has some commonality with me. I don't know how else to do this but to date, and then hope something comes of it. Right now I am in the building phase. It is a slow process.I like honesty, creativity of any kind, culture, history --especially Celtic History, but I will take what I can get. Please be liberal leaning with intellectual skills, compassion, and be able to be engaged and available to other people you are around. Gay Friendly, not too judgmental, and fairly open-minded would be nice also. Please no African American Men. I'm simply not attracted to you, sorry,I'm sorry but due to rude short messages, I expect you to meet the character limit with some sensible English if you wish to impress me AND message me here.Conservative Christians need not apply. I am an Irish Pagan. Atheists and Agnostics welcome.I dislike egotism and self-righteousness of any kind. Even my own. ;)I have a bit of fire in me. I am an Aries and of Irish descent. I burn bright occasionally, but it is over quickly if the flames are not fanned unnecessarily --and sometimes I can be guilty of that, i admit it: it is a work in progress. ;)I love history and ancient, modern culture, and travel. I also like computer and video games, at the opposite end of the spectrum. I am over the whole 'dating bar scene'. I prefer places with a little culture to them: pubs or quaint bars some such thing; small cafes.I love food, both to try to cook it and to eat it. I am only a moderately decent cook myself, but I like to experiment. I love to eat a wide variety of things including: Japanese cuisine, especially sushi, Thai, Greek, Middle Eastern, etc. I am a brave eater to say the least.I like most alternative/goth stuff from the 90's, some jazz/blues, big band, swing, rock-a-billy, Celtic Traditional Music (Mostly Irish), and a little bit of classical. I'm not a big top 40 fan, or a big fan of country or rap/r&b. There are some exceptions to every rule.I read mostly sci-fi and fantasy, although generally unknown female writers. I like yoga long walks in beautiful places. I dislike most sports, and am not into extreme activities of any kind --you go right ahead.I am looking for someone who likes to laugh and joke; quick witted and comfortable in their own skin. Someone is comfortable hanging out at home and cooking and watching movies, with occasional trips out during the week. A true unappreciated geek who is looking for a quasi-hip (in her own mind because she has a piercing and a tattoo) girl who is independent and will tell you exactly what she thinks.I dislike people who do not follow through, or tell you what they think you want to hear, *** being honest. Lay it on me, I can take it. I can't promise you will like my answer but life is too short to not say what is on your mind. Coffee or a happy hour drink is more than fine. We should generally know within a half hour to 45 minutes whether we like each other or not. The second date is better for a casual dinner. NO MOVIES. I can think of nothing less exciting than spending a lot of money to sit in a dark enclosed space with someone I don't know, and can't talk with to get to know. ;)

  • Salena

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I enjoy live shows and concerts, can eat pizza at home one night and go out to a nice dinner the next evening. I spend a couple nights a week hanging out with my girlfriends. I love rock music, going to the movies, and checking out new restaurant and wine bars. I hate football, but love baseball (go Giants), and would love to go see a hockey game. I can't ski, but love the snow.-)I am self-employed, have been for the past 7 years and love it. I previously worked in corporate for a large electronics and video game company, and currently do writing, editing and public relations. I am a loyal and honest gal who loves to have fun and enjoy life. If you are contacting me, you should have most of your life together, and the last puzzle piece is that perfect woman. Who knows if I am that puzzle piece, but we can find out.:-) I am looking for someone who will treat his perfect match with respect, love and loyalty. You should know where you are going in life - don't expect me to guide you and help you every step of the way. I want someone independent, who is not afraid of an attractive, outgoing, intelligent, and fun woman with a good sense of humor. Here's a few other facts about me:My friends would say I am very outgoing, nice, and a hard-working, driven woman.I don't really know how to use Macs/iPads, etc., although I do own an iPod:-)My favorite colors are black to wear, but you never know when I will put on a bright yellow dress, or bright red sweater paired with jeans.I will probably not add you to ***, until I see if we have a connection, or later on down the line, we are actually dating or in a relationship. I am a somewhat private person and have a tight circle of ***, plus peers/colleagues who work in the same industry as me, as I sometimes use *** social media tool for work.I love guys who act like kids at heart, as long as they know how to act like a grown-up when the time calls for it.I am still on good terms with my exes, meaning we don't hate each other, and I am friends with a couple of them on *** include this on my profile not as a mean to discuss my ex, but to give you an example of my character that I am still on good terms with them.I don't drink beer, but love "fu fu" drinks. Somehow, I also enjoy jager:-)I prefer Monster over Red Bull. It totally depends on the person. First dates are often awkward, so lets play it by ear.

  • Janiya

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I'm a single mom. I was a stay at home mom for 14 years. I now go to school part time and work for the local school district. My kids are my biggest priority. Being a good friend. My best friend says that she can always count on me. The first things people usually notice about me My eyes I think. They are the windows to my soul. Go on a walk, go to dinner, feed the duck, something simple.

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