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Alene, 39

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About Me

Hello, First of all, thank you for reading my profile. This is where you are supposed to "sell" yourself, which is odd for me, but I'll try. Here it goes: I have been divorced for 12 years, have 2 children. I do have a successful career, and am self sufficient, so not looking for someone to take care of me. I can take care of myself, but would like to have someone to share life with. I love to laugh, and want someone whom can be serious, but can also be a goof when the mood allows, because I love to laugh and be sassy. It seems people these days lay out specifics about what the person they are looking for needs to fulfill, or what mold they have to fit into. To be honest with you, I just want someone whom can be completely honest and leave the games at home. If you are looking for someone you can play, you may want to move along. My likes? Well, I love to cook, just hang out, movies, more of the simple things in life. I am not a club person, but will go to the local bar with friends for an evening. I cook and bake when I am stressed so my friends can always tell when I have had a tough week, cause they all get desserts afterwards. :-) I make them, but then give them away as much as I can. As far as goals and aspirations: My goal is to just continue with happiness, but find someone whom wants to join in and share what life has to offer. Low key, coffee or go for a walk, somewhere that we can talk and relax.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kylie

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    Dating should be fun, right? I don't know why we all make this so damn hard. People should just TRUTHFULLY break basic things down...it doesn't always have to be a game. So let's clarify a few things. First...the fact that my status does not say I am falling all over myself to meet some man and settle down and make babies does NOT mean I am looking for kinky secret sex. Don't message me asking for hookups. Second...NO, I don't want to see your penis!! They're usually ugly anyhow. Ick. Third...PLEASE...no one under 30. It's flattering in a kind of weird way......sorry! Telling me that I don't look "that old" isn't going to make a difference. I AM that old. I really doubt I am going to have much in common with a 25 yr old guy. But thanks for the compliment (I think).So now let's do this the easy way. The necessary stuff: I am a mother of 3 older children...one has autism. Autism is a **** but it hasn't killed me yet. If a man can deal with Autism, big points with me. BIG points. My kids have a FANTASTIC and very involved father so I'm not looking for anyone to raise them...but being nice to them is necessary. Because I have three kids, I am not looking for any more. That does not mean I don't want to date someone with kids...I LOVE kids. That means I don't want a GROWN 40 yr old child. Easy enough, right?A little about me: I am a fun person. I'm always told that I am a funny person. I enjoy a good time. I enjoy camping and spending time outdoors. Lately I have had the urge to get out and hike so if you like that...even better!!! Get my butt out there and let's HIKE! I like to listen to local bands and I love concerts. Love to travel? I'm your girl!!! I have a bucket list of places I want to go. As much as I can be a real sweetheart....I can also be a serious pain in the ass sometimes because I am very independent. I make my own money and I take care of myself so I don't need a "daddy" to watch over me. As you can probably tell, I am outspoken. I have never had a problem telling someone what I think. I am tall, blonde, blue eyes...I won't lie...I could lose weight. I am working on it but I'm not going to stress over it. I would rather be healthy and strong before anything else. I am attractive but you should probably not be bothered by "bigger girls" if you want to spend time with me. I have a big ass...ya better be an ass man. What I'm looking for:Honesty (dear God, HONESTY), someone with a work ethic that doesn't want to be saved...I don't want your money but I'm not EVER giving mine away again. Someone that can have a conversation that doesn't always revolve around his "glory days". I like a good trip down memory lane as much as the next person....but if you're living there...not for me. Someone that can deal with my occasional sass and think I'm awesome anyhow...cause really, I can be pretty damn awesome! Someone that can put up with my constant dreams and desires to go and experience LIFE! I'm the girl next door who never wants to get stuck in her neck of the woods....I want to EXPLORE :)See...easy and honest, lol. If reading through all that didn't leave you tired and shaking your head then I would love to hear from you. I am open to just about everything as long as it is public. I am a little cautious of new people and won't meet anyone anywhere private. Dinner is ok but not my favorite. Sometimes just getting a cup of coffee and going for a walk is an amazing time :)

  • Cher

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    Relationship is: Not about AGE, Not about DISTANCE, Not about Communicating every moment of every day. What's more important is having TRUST & LOYALTY...The TRUST of girl to her man and the LOYALTY of man to his girl...Before you begin reading you should know...I often do NOT respond to profiles in which children are in the main photo...I'm sure you're all proud of your children and want them to be seen...I'm just not to keen on them being seen here. After all it is a dating site and not the face book! ;) If you're mentally depressed (I am not a pick me up), manic depressant, bi-polar or any other type of thing, we are probably are not a good fit. Indeed I have a great sympathy but have dealt with it more times than I care to admit. I have no need to help society in that manner. And please dudes...put some clothes on! ;)All around good girl...mother of two fantastically brilliant children, writer, author, substitute teacher, cheer-leading coach. As a writer you'd think something like this would be a breeze...not so. I am an avid gardener and nothing relieves stress more than digging in the dirt. I love children and have housed over a dozen children that do not belong to me b/c their parents didn't feel the need to raise them further. I'm very goal oriented as well as educated. I'm not looking for 'someone' just to take care of me...I do that pretty well on my own. The same goes for someone that is looking for me to 'take care' of them. I love butterflies and lying on the beach, big dogs and anything unique or 'weird'. I'm not into the bar scene and rarely get out due to me being a writer. I am presently starting a foundation for the deaf and have been doing so for the last year and a half. Hearing is a 'gift', should we not all be able to utilize it? I am NOT a ***kind of girl so if that's what you're into please proceed to the next profile...I value my time as much as the next person and have no desire to become joined at the hip. I love being in a relationship but do not want my life *** around someone else's goals and dramas. (No drama here, if you love the drama, please proceed!!) Shared goals are important but one must remain independent from being thrown into a rut in life.I am extremely honest and rude to a point. Rude only after you do not want to hear the truth, lol. Life is too short to 'candy-coat' and dance around how you feel. I am a tyrant in the defense of the 'underdog' and would give the shirt off my back for the greater good. My hobbies are extensive, i.e. gardening, writing, crocheting, cooking, sewing, drawing (My favorite medium is charcoal.)...yadda yadda...just your typical domestic goddess. There isn't anything that I can't do and if there were my children would say, "Then she'd only buy a book..." I can lay stone and brick as well as build an addition. I grow tremendous gardens and can as much of it as I can to feed the masses. I dig old cemeteries and adventuring into the dark unknown...playing baseball and football as well as cheering on my favorite team (The Pack) on television. I appreciate life and am grateful and thankful every day that I can put both of my feet onto the floor and stand and then...to hear the beautiful voices of my children. Grateful for everything that I am and for what I have and daily I remind myself that someone has it much worse than I ever have, it keeps me very grounded. My musical tastes are heavy metal and classical/symphony with Metallica, Chevelle, Tool and A Perfect Circle being on the top of the list. Not much into Rap/Country/R&B...if you are, great, I'm always willing to listen.I've met some amazing ppl through this site and some...well...not so amazing. LOL! If I've sparked an interest drop me a line, if not, I wish you all the luck in the world, and FYI I am not a 'booty' call and perverse messaging isn't appreciated. I'm just not that kind of girl (Well unless you've known me a long while!) :D Something relaxed and comfortable...I'm always down for a cup of hot tea and intriguing conversation.

  • Mackenzie

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Well here goes nothing... I would like to think that I am a very loving and truthful person. I give 110% and expect my partner to give the same. I understand that a difference in schedules can make things a bit harder but the willingness to work thru them is needed. Everything goes back to having good communication in a relationship. I stand behind my chair and listen to everyone and give the best advice that I can. Good or bad, I still give it. I think we should have some sort of PHD or atleast get better pay. I love my job and I don't do it for the money. It is a great feeling to know that I play a role into making that person beautiful or I gave that family free haircuts for school because they can't afford it. I have 3 boys 18, 14, and 12. My family is the center of my world. I live in a small town that is a great big circle of family. You can usually find me around a fire with them. There is nothing that I would not do for any of them. With having three boys and all of them in sports, a lot of my spare time is at a game somewhere. I try to be at every game but it is not always possible. I always have my camera with me so you better watch what you do around me, I will not think twice about passing that picture around. This is all me .... my boys, my family, and my career I'm happy with what I have but to share it with someone would be great. It don't get much better than this. Thanks for taking the time to read my profile and hope to hear from you soon. A first date could be a few drinks in a quite corner or maybe over dinner. I am not a picky person. I think anywhere a good conversation can take place is a great first date.

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