Total users: 63,589,441 Online users: 228,673
Merla, 39
United States, Georgia, Jefferson

Offline, last seen Sat, 04 Jul 2026 02:36:58

About Me

I am tired of looking. Tired of thinking i might have found someone only to figure out i haven't. I am honestly about to throw in the towel on it all. according to my friends....the right guy is out there (apparently the ones I have been dating haven't been good enough for them or for me). Well, I wish he (you) would hurry up and appear because I am seriously tired of this dating game. I am ready to go on my last first date. I am ready to have my last first kiss. I am actually looking for someone with character, who is intelligent, funny, random, has an independent aspect to their personality, likes to do things alone but enjoys doing things together more, who is open to getting to know each other and having fun. I would like to meet that someone who is looking for a true friend and partner. Someone that wants a serious relationship with romance (long kisses, holding hands, midnight massages, etc), laughter and the surprise of what tomorrow might bring. Someone that isn't afraid to come into my life, or me into theirs. Someone that can give, not just take. So, a little about me. I believe in the best about everyone, i believe that everyone deserves a friend, and second and third chances, and help when they are down. I am sensitive and emotional at times (all emotions exit thru my eyeballs), I trust easily,and believe about everything that is told to me until you give me a reason to not believe anymore. I will answer just About any question you ask, honestly. If you don't want to know, or will pass judgement with what you might find out then don't ask as we will not get along. OK.....more about you. You are between 38 and 43 years old, but may appear younger than your age (I've been told I do, so that is ok). You are at least 6 feet tall. As i am 5'8.5" I think it is just weird to look eye to eye with the guy I am with. I want to look up, I want you taller and stronger than me. You are down-to-earth, intelligent, compassionate, respectful and have a great personality and a quick sense of humor. You are slightly sarcastic, but not mean (if you don't know the difference, you are not for me). You appreciate random conversations and can talk on just about anything. You love random communication and You don't mind random conversations by phone, or text. Does this describe you or someone you know? :)If you are close to being this person, maybe we should talk. I think we might actually get along. The first date should start early, somewhere casual. Maybe a coffee shop or a drink on a patio. The early date makes it easy if there is no chemistry to go on to other plans for the night, or if there is chemistry it allows the getting to know you date to last longer.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Greek Indian Action Sport
Wink Icon color PERSONAL INFORMATION Fave
Chat

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Cyndi from Jefferson | Woman | 37 years old | Cancer
    Cyndi

    Offline

    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 18-37

    Hi! My name is Cyndi. I am never married other caucasian woman with kids from Jefferson, Georgia, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

    Chat
  • Shakita from Jefferson | Woman | 36 years old | Virgo
    Shakita

    Offline

    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hi there , tanks for stopping by. I like skiing in winter, will try snowboarding next season hiking, camping, taking dance lessons once in a while, explore new places and cuisines, just being outdoor and active . LOVE beach, water, sun, walks. It would be great if my partner can share some of my interests with me or will be willing to try. I am open to new things too.Traveling is also a passion,will be whole better to go some places with the special oneHonesty is on top of my list, I am open and like to maintain honest relationship, self-awareness or understanding of what I am and why I do certain things, caring about people who I love and who loves me.When I am thinking of my ideal man I am more focusing on the best traits rather than on the physical characteristics, also chemistry is important to me. I like to find a man who keeps healthy life style, workouts , does some kind of sports, open to talk about inner thoughts and share the emotions, passionate about what he does, dependable and not being afraid of possible commitments, kind, generous with sense of humor, who finds ability to laugh and can admit mistakes and able to talk about feelings before issues fester, who likes to explore and learn new things and loves kids. Best of luck to everyone ! Message me if you feel we can click Meeting for coffee , walk

    Chat
  • Joi from Jefferson | Woman | 39 years old | Aquarius
    Joi

    Offline

    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I'm a hard working, independent, caring, single mom with 4 beautiful children, that mean the world to me and they are my #1, so if ya can't deal with that, look on... you'll never know what you've missed out on! lol :) I tell it like it is and am brutally honest, I like sarcasm and i dish it out well. i have fun at about everything i do, life's too short not to! so go ahead and throw me a line and we'll go from there. Have a good one and hope to ttyl. :) I'm open to anything....

    Chat
See more
Follow Us: