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Merla, 39
United States, Georgia, Jefferson

Offline, last seen Thu, 12 Feb 2026 17:56:08

About Me

I am tired of looking. Tired of thinking i might have found someone only to figure out i haven't. I am honestly about to throw in the towel on it all. according to my friends....the right guy is out there (apparently the ones I have been dating haven't been good enough for them or for me). Well, I wish he (you) would hurry up and appear because I am seriously tired of this dating game. I am ready to go on my last first date. I am ready to have my last first kiss. I am actually looking for someone with character, who is intelligent, funny, random, has an independent aspect to their personality, likes to do things alone but enjoys doing things together more, who is open to getting to know each other and having fun. I would like to meet that someone who is looking for a true friend and partner. Someone that wants a serious relationship with romance (long kisses, holding hands, midnight massages, etc), laughter and the surprise of what tomorrow might bring. Someone that isn't afraid to come into my life, or me into theirs. Someone that can give, not just take. So, a little about me. I believe in the best about everyone, i believe that everyone deserves a friend, and second and third chances, and help when they are down. I am sensitive and emotional at times (all emotions exit thru my eyeballs), I trust easily,and believe about everything that is told to me until you give me a reason to not believe anymore. I will answer just About any question you ask, honestly. If you don't want to know, or will pass judgement with what you might find out then don't ask as we will not get along. OK.....more about you. You are between 38 and 43 years old, but may appear younger than your age (I've been told I do, so that is ok). You are at least 6 feet tall. As i am 5'8.5" I think it is just weird to look eye to eye with the guy I am with. I want to look up, I want you taller and stronger than me. You are down-to-earth, intelligent, compassionate, respectful and have a great personality and a quick sense of humor. You are slightly sarcastic, but not mean (if you don't know the difference, you are not for me). You appreciate random conversations and can talk on just about anything. You love random communication and You don't mind random conversations by phone, or text. Does this describe you or someone you know? :)If you are close to being this person, maybe we should talk. I think we might actually get along. The first date should start early, somewhere casual. Maybe a coffee shop or a drink on a patio. The early date makes it easy if there is no chemistry to go on to other plans for the night, or if there is chemistry it allows the getting to know you date to last longer.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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