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Brandi, 39

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About Me

I'm a Sardonic, easily amused, optimistically cynical, Outgoing introverted girly Tom Boy that LOVES good food.But most importantly I'm a Momma.I'm from So Cal. I use the word *Like* entirely too much.*Like* a lot). I have no intention of typing out a sales pitch about myself. I won't lie, whoever the lucky fella is that catches my heart won't have it easy. My free time is limited, I'm not always able to go off on an adventure ( However, when I do have free time I like to jam as much fun and adventure into that time as possible!), he'll have to be independent and secure enough not to have me at his beck and call and he'll have to be okay with always coming second to my kids needs.Doesn't sound all that enticing, does it?But, in return. I am affectionate, attentive, caring and loyal. I'm a pretty good cook, I won't make you watch a chick flick or show (cause I don't like them either) and I'll never ask if an article of clothing makes me look fat. I'm not impressed by material possessions your fancy car isn't going to make me swoon (unless it's older and in better shape than me). Okay.. I guess that was a little sales pitchieWhile a real meaningful relationship would be awesome, I'm not in a rush. One day I'll meet someone amazing that will see I'm worth the effort. (hopefully before I'm in the old folks home)Until then, I'll be happy to make some friends (I mean that in the literal sense, not the NSA way - stop asking)Speaking of which!! just an FYI.. As a chick that was raised by her father with very little female influences. I tend to get along better with guys and most of my close friends are guys. If you're the jealous type.. don't bother talking to me. You'll just drive your self crazy. I've been single for a long time, I've known these guy for years, if there was anything more to the friendship it would have happened by now.Also.. I know I look young for my age. This is a blessing and a curse. I'm an ageist, I would REALLY prefer someone closer to my age. 5 yrs either way (preferably on the older side) would be perfect.. By the way.. I won't respond to messages if you don't have a picture. Or if you do have a picture, but you're not wearing a shirt or you're flexing or making a duck face or some other form of douche-baggery is going on. Also, while compliments can be nice, they can also be awkward, if the only thing you write is some aesthetic compliment.. that doesn't really lead to much conversation and sometimes (most times) it just makes me think the sender is creepy.I seldom initiate a message as I'm very aware most fellas aren't interested in Mommas.I swear I'm not THAT complicated and chances are, you won't even get to meet my kids... unless of course you turn out to be amazing. Something casual and friendly.. like having a cuppa tea or a drink in a quiet bar or lounge.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Vicenta

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    :o) I am down to earth, easy to talk to, fun to be around, love being myself, and hope you are, too! I'm very honest and appreciate the same. I'd like to get to know you if you are "real". Just be you... I'm caring and genuine. I have a wicked sense of humor and enjoy being around people with the same. I prefer to be up front and speak my mind. I like a warm smile and eye contact. I believe that an attraction is vital, as well as communication. I can tell you this... even though I tend to find guys with facial hair (goatees), tattoos, and motorcycles/racecars attractive (physically)..... that does NOT mean it is something I need (it is, merely, something that makes me melt at times - a bonus, if you will). Moreso, I am wanting mutual respect, someone who I can be comfy with, and a guy who has similiar ideas as I about what we want/need in a relationship (if and when we get to that point). :o) I am NOT wanting a one night stand, so please do not contact me if that is what you are seeking. I am a one on one gal and very loyal. If you would like to know more to see if we might be compatible, shoot me an *** me something that you think makes you unique from other guys and let's take it from there. Please only respond if you are serious about getting to know me...I prefer a guy without kids (unless they are adults), someone who is a non-smoker (at least most of the time & courteous about it if he is occasional), and someone who is at least within a ***Hope you have a great day! :o) Whatever we both agree upon.. somewhere casual. :o)

  • Peace

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    The about me stage. Posting pictures is the easy part, I'd rather just pose naked than talk about me.. 100,***characters. I will try to re-live my adolescence as the awkward girl at the lunch table here and do my best to fit right in. For the sake of my sanity, there won't be a Q&A session about what is your fav colour, do you have a half an hour lunch break, blah blah because I'm not here to answer a million questions about that. :) I'm here for SEX and SCANDAL. (Kidding.) I will say this: I come from a family who duct tapes my Christmas presents every year and a circle of friends who insist on settling our disagreements with dance Pad.lol *I look my best in the 3.1 seconds between opening the front door with a giggle and seeing you stand anxiously on the other side. Now it is time for us to all join hands and sing Kum Ba YaDislikes - telemarketers, red wine, people who don't signal, last callI'm looking for friends to socialize with I'm on here to meet awesome people! GO WITH IT.

  • Elinore

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I'm a simple girl who leads a very simple life. I think it's the little things that are important. It's not what you are doing that makes an activity fun but rather who you are with. I work full time, go to school part time and have children who bring an over abundance amount of joy into my life. I've been by myself for quite some time so can take care of myself and my kids. I have a beautiful house, a truck I love to drive and a job I wake up happy to go to every day. I'm happy and content with my life, love my job and just am hoping to find someone to complete it all.Some things I do enjoy are the summer and fall time. I enjoy reading a good book in my free time. I absolutely love music and would much rather listen to that then turn the tv on. I listen to a variety of music and try to go to as many concerts as possible. I believe that music speaks to the soul and through lyrics can speak exactly how you feel. Don't get me wrong I love to cuddle up on the couch and watch a good movie or tv show with someone special. I am a huge baseball fan, love the Tigers. Bowling is always a good time. I love to cook and bake and am pretty darn good at it. I have a small very close family who mean everything to me and we do spend a lot of time together. I believe laughter is the best medicine.So much to say about me but so little that I will actually put on here. I believe that you can get to know someone so much better in person or talking one on one rather then through this. These little spiels can only give you a glimpse into what a person is really like. If you are interested, message me and lets go from there.Would be nice if just one man would show me that this site hasn't been a waste of my time. Still waiting ..... Take a walk in the park while getting to know each other or coffee some place quiet

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