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Am I the only one that is scared by a good percentage of the people on this site? Here's a bit of unsolicited advice....don't post pictures of yourselves that make it look like you are in a mug shot....for me personally...they scare me. Motto to live life by: Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming "WOO HOO, What a Ride!"Looking for someone who is real and true (please interpret that as HONEST, someone NOT fake)....don't want your drama and lies. Most people on here say that they are an honest person...but this site is very tongue in cheek - I don't trust a majority of what I see or read on here. Pretty much figure it's up to you to get me to trust you. And do me a favor - don't take that as a challenge. I'm not naive, but don't be on here looking for someone special just to****people around.I want someone I can talk to. Most importantly someone who I can laugh with, preferably everyday.A guy with an ego but has humility - someone who is confident but not conceited. Someone who likes kids, I have 1, a son, he's in (eeeeeeeek!!!!!!!) 8th grade. I'm not sure about having more kids. I say unsure, because I can't have more kids...willing to meet someone with kids. I raised my son on my own his entire life, I have no daddy-drama, and don't want your momma-drama. I like music, I have a few favorite TV shows, I love action adventure and romantic comedy movies(I cry during sad movies - double X chromosomes what can I say), I hate HATE ghory horror films but I do like suspense or "thrillers". Football fan here - I'm a NY Giants fan at heart, but will also root for the Jets (who says you can't have a favorite AFC and NFC team?). I'm a realistic optimist, I need someone equally as cheerful. I am spontaneous and am usually up for anything, I love surprises(giving and receiving). I'm affectionate and loyal. I want to believe in love at first sight, but I've never experienced it so I'm skeptical. I'm honest and blunt to a fault.I love a man with tattoos. I don't have any myself, and will probably remain that way until I'm 65. Don't ask why 65...it's just a number. If you don't have tattoos...that's cool too.I love the beach and the ocean but I won't swim in them, if I could get paid to travel I would(but I love upstate NY too). I'm close to my family, but not in that freaky unhealthy way-I value my familial relationships. I need someone who can stand with me, stand on his own, and let me stand on my own, all at the same time. I know it's a tall order. But, I'm worth it. Isn't love worth getting what you want? I'm not psycho, and would prefer someone who is also equally not a psycho. No working out for me, don't mind camping(it seems to be a big thing on this site, just remember running water and plumbing are just basic necessities you can't deny), no drugs, no BDSM (had to see if you were paying attention!). So...what's your story? Send me a message and maybe we can chat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Nannette from Hiram | Woman | 36 years old | Virgo
    Nannette

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    First and foremost, let's get this out of the way, shall we...*Please keep in mind that I am a large and lovely lady (that's right, I said it, I'm a LADY! (ha)) so if that's not you cup of tea...;) To each his/her own. Truly. I'm not 12, you won't hurt my feelings, scouts honor. I'm in a good, happy, productive place in my life and am looking to meet positive, open people with a pleasant disposition. Now on to the important stuff: Dorky, easy going, introvert, badass vegan looking for someone cool to hang out with. I'm focused on my self improvement and I really really enjoy my alone time and my space so something simple, friendly and fun is what I would prefer. I do need that friendship connection first so no random preverts, please. Let's be adults, k! Long term drama (it almost always is, isn't it) is not on my radar. So put on your big boy pants ands lets keep it honest. I'm pretty straight forward and need that in return. Yes, I'm spelling it out because apparently most fellas think all women are blubbering idiots that need to be emotionally coddled and manipulated. Guess what, not true. I know what I want, I hope you do too. Musts: someone that can hold a decent convo and appreciates the comedic genius of Wilfred. You should also not hate cats because I may or may not have 15 of them. Kidding. Am I? I am. BUT AM I?? I know vegans are as elusive as Big Foot riding a unicorn so I'm not holding my breath, but if you happen to be one, well that's total icing. :) Passionate - I am very much so in what I believe in. Lack of passion is a lack of life. Things that interest me in no particular order: evolution, sarcasm, TOOL (the band, not a hammer), yoga every damn day, competitive thumb wrestling, Chuck Palahniuk, Louis C.K., history, exploring, knitting scarves (because that's all that I know how to make) cooking (yes I can!), ***friendly, crotch grabbing, moon-walking, walking on the Moon, astronomy, traveling (let's see the world before we eradicate it) photography, alien abductions and feeding my brain.Things that do not interest me in no particular order:Double negatives, bacon, men in sandals, men in sandals eating bacon. Friends first, most definitely. I'm not about rushing or forcing anything. Good luck and thanks for reading. A nice coffee date followed by a Kung-Fu fight to the death.

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  • Zaniyah from Hiram | Woman | 36 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    ****PLEASE READ****If YOU can't handle SARCASM, then you CAN'T hadleME!!!!!!I like to leave this to the "get to know u" phase however I will give u the "reader's digest" version....I'm a mother of ***,15&12). I love being involved in their lives. Im a very family oriented woman. I enjoy the company of good people. I've been on a lot of different "journeys" learning many of lifes lessons along the way. I'm ready to go in one direction and hope to have some one accompany me, however if it's only for a season, reason, or lifetime. I'm ok w/ that. Good luck to ALL and may the best MAN win ;) Rememberable

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  • Jocelin from Hiram | Woman | 36 years old | Taurus
    Jocelin

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    I try my best to be good at a variety of different things rather than exerting all of my energy towards one aspect of my life. Search for energetic person, who hasn’t yet got tired of fun.

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