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Am I the only one that is scared by a good percentage of the people on this site? Here's a bit of unsolicited advice....don't post pictures of yourselves that make it look like you are in a mug shot....for me personally...they scare me. Motto to live life by: Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming "WOO HOO, What a Ride!"Looking for someone who is real and true (please interpret that as HONEST, someone NOT fake)....don't want your drama and lies. Most people on here say that they are an honest person...but this site is very tongue in cheek - I don't trust a majority of what I see or read on here. Pretty much figure it's up to you to get me to trust you. And do me a favor - don't take that as a challenge. I'm not naive, but don't be on here looking for someone special just to****people around.I want someone I can talk to. Most importantly someone who I can laugh with, preferably everyday.A guy with an ego but has humility - someone who is confident but not conceited. Someone who likes kids, I have 1, a son, he's in (eeeeeeeek!!!!!!!) 8th grade. I'm not sure about having more kids. I say unsure, because I can't have more kids...willing to meet someone with kids. I raised my son on my own his entire life, I have no daddy-drama, and don't want your momma-drama. I like music, I have a few favorite TV shows, I love action adventure and romantic comedy movies(I cry during sad movies - double X chromosomes what can I say), I hate HATE ghory horror films but I do like suspense or "thrillers". Football fan here - I'm a NY Giants fan at heart, but will also root for the Jets (who says you can't have a favorite AFC and NFC team?). I'm a realistic optimist, I need someone equally as cheerful. I am spontaneous and am usually up for anything, I love surprises(giving and receiving). I'm affectionate and loyal. I want to believe in love at first sight, but I've never experienced it so I'm skeptical. I'm honest and blunt to a fault.I love a man with tattoos. I don't have any myself, and will probably remain that way until I'm 65. Don't ask why 65...it's just a number. If you don't have tattoos...that's cool too.I love the beach and the ocean but I won't swim in them, if I could get paid to travel I would(but I love upstate NY too). I'm close to my family, but not in that freaky unhealthy way-I value my familial relationships. I need someone who can stand with me, stand on his own, and let me stand on my own, all at the same time. I know it's a tall order. But, I'm worth it. Isn't love worth getting what you want? I'm not psycho, and would prefer someone who is also equally not a psycho. No working out for me, don't mind camping(it seems to be a big thing on this site, just remember running water and plumbing are just basic necessities you can't deny), no drugs, no BDSM (had to see if you were paying attention!). So...what's your story? Send me a message and maybe we can chat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Sherlyn

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I am a fun loving,smiling all the time,kind of person,I am honest,passionate, I like a great conversation about anything and everything,I live for my 2 wonderful children whom are my life,I love to cuddle,watch movies,hold hands while walking along the beach,give hugs,.I have a passion for music,I enjoy going dancing,quite dinners out or just a nice quite night at home..Movies,I love thrillers,drama,comedy or a good action movie..I am open minded,.I am hoping to meet... A man that is trustworthy, honest, loving,Passionate,Romantic in his own way, hardworking, loves kids, someone that enjoys the outdoors, camping, long walks,someone that enjoys going for a drive, A man that smiles and laughs and is there for me when I am having a bad day.Someone who is willing to be with me threw good times and bad,Someone that spoils me with his heart not his money, Someone that will call or text just cause he feels the need just to say i miss you..A man that is looking for a future..Someone That I can travel with, A man with a great sense of humor.. That will hug me and hold me tight, cuddle and kiss me just because he feels the need to. A man that will love me for me.. I Might not be someone's first choice, but I am a great choice. I may not be rich but I am valuable. I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm good at being me. I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I am proud of who I am today. I may not be perfect but I don't need to be. Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away!!!If your not looking for a relationship leading to full term..I am not the one for you..I am looking for a life beyond just the casual dating thing..I am looking for my future happiness with the man that can hold my heart safely in his hands..I am looking for my best friend, lover and a friend to my two beautiful children..I am not like some woman out there..I will not sleep with you first to see if we click..sex is a big part of a relationship I agree..But its not first and foremost when we first meet..If that is all your looking for please move on... Wow first date, I am a simple kinda woman,I come from a country back ground,I could see a walk down by the lake followed by a ice cream.....I am a romantic person of course I just find the first date wouldn't really consist of romance..

  • Yi

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    ***classy sports coupe. One previous owner, no passengers, low mileage, needs slight body work but definitely a fixer upper. Ample trunk space. Lol size wise. I'm not referring to my exhaust pipe.I am a great mix of wit, charm, and overall the epitomy of awesomeness. I thrive on learning new things and taking adventures. Its an absolute must that conversation ebb and flow. Some incredible pub with a band playing. Even a cover band rocks occasionally lol

  • Lise

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    hi, first time on a site like this. i am 37 and have been divorced for 2 years and looking to get back in the game. i like to do many things indoors and out and have alot of interests. i am mostly into hard rock and heavy metal music, my favorite kindof movies are comedies and action. i'm not a complex person, very down to earth and straight forward. if you would like to know more feel free to talk to me.

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