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Am I the only one that is scared by a good percentage of the people on this site? Here's a bit of unsolicited advice....don't post pictures of yourselves that make it look like you are in a mug shot....for me personally...they scare me. Motto to live life by: Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out, and screaming "WOO HOO, What a Ride!"Looking for someone who is real and true (please interpret that as HONEST, someone NOT fake)....don't want your drama and lies. Most people on here say that they are an honest person...but this site is very tongue in cheek - I don't trust a majority of what I see or read on here. Pretty much figure it's up to you to get me to trust you. And do me a favor - don't take that as a challenge. I'm not naive, but don't be on here looking for someone special just to****people around.I want someone I can talk to. Most importantly someone who I can laugh with, preferably everyday.A guy with an ego but has humility - someone who is confident but not conceited. Someone who likes kids, I have 1, a son, he's in (eeeeeeeek!!!!!!!) 8th grade. I'm not sure about having more kids. I say unsure, because I can't have more kids...willing to meet someone with kids. I raised my son on my own his entire life, I have no daddy-drama, and don't want your momma-drama. I like music, I have a few favorite TV shows, I love action adventure and romantic comedy movies(I cry during sad movies - double X chromosomes what can I say), I hate HATE ghory horror films but I do like suspense or "thrillers". Football fan here - I'm a NY Giants fan at heart, but will also root for the Jets (who says you can't have a favorite AFC and NFC team?). I'm a realistic optimist, I need someone equally as cheerful. I am spontaneous and am usually up for anything, I love surprises(giving and receiving). I'm affectionate and loyal. I want to believe in love at first sight, but I've never experienced it so I'm skeptical. I'm honest and blunt to a fault.I love a man with tattoos. I don't have any myself, and will probably remain that way until I'm 65. Don't ask why 65...it's just a number. If you don't have tattoos...that's cool too.I love the beach and the ocean but I won't swim in them, if I could get paid to travel I would(but I love upstate NY too). I'm close to my family, but not in that freaky unhealthy way-I value my familial relationships. I need someone who can stand with me, stand on his own, and let me stand on my own, all at the same time. I know it's a tall order. But, I'm worth it. Isn't love worth getting what you want? I'm not psycho, and would prefer someone who is also equally not a psycho. No working out for me, don't mind camping(it seems to be a big thing on this site, just remember running water and plumbing are just basic necessities you can't deny), no drugs, no BDSM (had to see if you were paying attention!). So...what's your story? Send me a message and maybe we can chat.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Johnetta

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Hey guys, This site was recommended to me, so I thought I'd give it a go. Not sure what to expect, but I figure there's no harm in trying! ABOUT ME: I'm an easy-going, genuinely nice woman that is known for having a big heart and great sense of humour. My friends would describe me as someone who is loyal, selfless, and extremely sensitive to people's energy. I enjoy time well-spent with good friends, but also value my personal time. Physical fitness is a big part of my life: I take care of myself, but not to the point of being neurotic. It's a personal preference, so I do not expect others to feel the same. I love to eat...with respect to cuisine, there's not much that I don't like. WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR (I THINK):I prefer genuine, mature, and innately "good" guys (note: this doesn't mean they can't have a badboy side, lol), who can make me laugh. I tend to be attracted to intelligent guys, which doesn't necessarily mean "book smart" or "well-matriculated"...but rather guys that I can learn (anything) from, or that can make me think differently about things. I work hard...sometimes too hard, so I'm looking for someone that will make me not want to go back to work once the work day is done. It would be nice to meet a guy that will add something positive to my life, and not more headache, heartache, stress or drama. If I can't be myself around you, then what's the point, right?Good luck with the search!

  • Noni

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    Been on and off here a few times & much like the The Tale of Two Cities - "It was the worst of times, it was the best of times." So let's see where this time around takes me. Single mom of 2 wonderful kids, I work full time, and I'm the ultimate sports mom! I'm very assertive, animated, and an honest person.Let me also give ya a few of my "negative, not so perfect" qualities, just to save some time so no one's caught off guard. What?, you say! Negative qualities, no she couldn't possibly not be absolutely perfect! Alas, I do have some flaws ***; sentimental), I'm not a fan of flashy stuff (jeans, t-shirt, hoodie, tennis shoes and I'm all good), I can't stand slow drivers, just a lil bit impatient, and keeping along the "impatient" thing - please don't keep telling the same thing over and over and over again! So great, if ya can handle or at least tolerate my lil imperfections, then bring it on!*I might not be someone's first choice, but I'm a GREAT choice.I may not be rich, but I am valuable.I don't pretend to be someone I'm not, because I'm pretty damn good at being myself.I might not be proud of some of the things I've done in the past, but I'm proud of who I am today.I may not be perfect, but I don't need to be.Take me as I am, or watch me as I walk away.**Oh and guys don't be a D0u€h3, girls really don't like guys who are a D0u€h3! (I spelled it that way cause I don't think meetville will deem the "proper" spelling appropriate - hmmmm). If the first one goes good, then a second one just might be in your future.

  • Jenelle

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I like to go camping,hiking,fishing,walks on the beach I also like to stay home and watch movies im pretty easy going and like to do anything,even going out to have a casual drink every now and then.

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