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Shanda, 38

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About Me

I love double entendre, goat cheese, wine, soup and crackers, animals, sunny days with a breeze, dark days with a storm, wit, humor with intelligence, strength with compassion, loyalty and honesty. I have a lot of great friends who make me laugh until I snort, have my back at all times, and love me despite my flaws (like the snorting when I laugh). I am looking for a man that can be one of those great friends and more. As for me, I am stable, humorous, a bit quirky at times, compassionate, empathetic, sympathetic, a good listener, laid back (really!), and enjoy people who add to my life (don’t suck my soul). I enjoy relaxing with some friends and drink, nothing too fancy. I have never been into the clubs…not an age thing, just a me thing. I try to stay healthy, and don’t spend much time on the couch; my mind tends to race otherwise. My musical tastes are across the board, but chances are it is melodic and soothing to me or has a good beat I can dance to ;). I am not clingy and really not looking for a clinger, however, I want to know you are interested in getting to know me and I will reciprocate appropriately. If I get the sense that we are not on the same page, I am fine with ending it. Generally like to keep it short and low-key...coffee or a drink. These encounters are usually enough time to see if a conversation can be held and if there is any chemistry. Hopefully, if things go well the dates will increase in length!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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