SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Lavonda
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
As most people, I love sex-want it often-but it's not my only focus. Id like a man who really enjoys it & revels in pleasing his partner like I enjoy touching & pleasing him. I have to click with someone physically, emotionally, & mentally to really click. If it's all you wanna talk about, we won't get anywhere. As for fun, adventure, & sports=I'm not into sports, but, I think sports are a healthy fun; mentally & physically. I'm more of a laid back person, as is my sense of adventure. I like time with family & friends, I watch TV & internet & enjoy getting out to do things. I like the arts, dances, music, art, etc. I'm not a drinker or partier. I'd like to visit places in my bucket list. We all have different interests, that's a good thing, we can still enjoy each others interests sometimes, too. I'm passionate, sexual, romantic, caring, sensitive, loving, loyal, sincere. I'm definitely more a middle of the road person. I'm not religious, nor an atheist, I like nature & the city, I like going to the park, having a picnic, or going to a symphony, or a concert, a ballet, or seeing street dancing. Please read my profile before messaging me. Please don't message me if you're not interested in a relationship. I'm not interested in a fling or f.b., I get too attached. I won't pursue, if you're interested, say so. One way to show you're interest is by showing who you are, getting to know each other. I want to get to know someone, so if you can't talk & open up, I'm not interested. I click better with someone who takes the time to be real, honest, conversational, a little time to get to know each other, connect, etc. No drunks, smokers, or illegal drugs. I like diverse cultures. I want someone who wants to give in a relationship, someone who'll communicate, not hide things, won't lie, is kind, caring, passionate, attentive, affectionate, sweet, romantic, a cuddler, etc., shares who he is, wants the physical & emotional aspects of a relationship, etc. I'm not saying *** love, but I'm looking for someone who's really interested in a relationship, who's really in. Almost all women give so much more than men, I'm tired of giving so much, I enjoy giving when I'm given to also. I've always given much more than I've gotten & I honestly deserve much better. I don't like prejudism, racism, belittling people, or cruelty, secrecy, lies, players, or someone who thinks flirting with others is harmless. I appreciate someone who doesn't have a temper. Someone who can agree to disagree. There's many sides to each person making them into the unique puzzle that they are & having a differences & commonalities that work well with each other - well, it's an absolute magic trick trying to find a good fit.- yeah, we all have our preferences or what normally works best, but there are times when none of that matters, it's all about finding the right fit. MOVIES & TV: comedy - romance - action - some suspense - some drama -- love educational tv -- hate horror -- MUSIC: soft rock - classic rock - *** country - jazz - happy blues - big band - chinese pop - indian - american indian -- hate hard/metal rock -- FOODS: Asian, Indian, American, Mexican, are favs in order listed -- I always regret answering IMs so I usually don't answer them. Eating, meeting for a drink, going to the park, seeing a movie, window shopping, doing something nice like go to an orchestra or something, doing some kind've activity or craft together, putt-putt, dancing (though I have no dancing skills), bowling, walking, etc. I like getting out & doing things & being at home, too.
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Nanci
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Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I'm just me. A dedicated and loving mother, Christan, aunty, sister, daughter, and friend. I'm usually found running a kid somewhere or hanging out with some of my favorite kiddos. I have one child of my own but typically have a stray or two. I am heavily involved and committed to children's and youth ministry. They are my babies. Hobbies? Well, I love to read, hang with friends some, play cards (spades mainly), take care of my son and my home. Kinda take it as it comes. Goals/Aspirations... I'm in more of a "planning" phase now. I have reached several of my goals I set early in life and am at that "wonderful" age where you get to start checking the next box on all those surveys that officially makes you MIDDLE AGED. So... not sure what this next phase will bring. Careerwise, I'm pleased with where I am and am developing a plan for the future. I guess my goals at this point are more centered around relationships - settling down - ultimately marriage. As for what makes me unique, I'll let you be the judge of that. Since I know myself pretty well, I think it's all pretty standard - but you may be mesmerized! Music - YES. I love all types (well, not opera and the newer hiphop garbage). My preference is probably 70's/80's R&B or some soft pop. Developing an appreciation for blues and jazz. Music is an escape to me - But that's a whole other story in itself.... I'll leave you with this for now. If you want to know more, give me a shout.Oh.. You may be wondering what it is I'm looking for. Well, I have a pretty good idea but I've learned not to mail order requests to God. In a perfect world, He would give me a checklist to craft my ultimate perfect vision. But, since we live on earth, that's not the case. I CAN tell you that whoever is my intended man loves God with a passion and strives to be like Jesus. Not someone who went to church a couple times as a kid.... But a TRUE follower of Christ. I strongly believe it is the mans 'duty' to be the spiritual foundation of his family. Since I am marriage minded (not tomorrow or next week mind you) it would be silly to date outside my expectations for an eventual husband. Been there. Done that. Not worth it.Beyond the spiritual piece, he is loving, kind, affectionate, a father figure and role model, intelligent, and gorgeous to my eyes. Still reading? Let's chat..... First date? Hmmm.... I like to keep it light. The first meetings are the most crucial so good conversation is a MUST which means no noisy pubs, quite movies, etc. Probably a nice dinner somewhere where you can hear each other and maybe a stroll afterwards if the conversation is still going well. I'm not too demanding in this area - I'm certainly not high-maintenance so I'm sure whatever you're planning will be great :)
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Rachal
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Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 35-45
I'm a single mom of 3 I am a caring & compassionate person almost to a fault; some would say that I wear my heart on my sleeve. I'm the type of person who will put your needs above my own and far too many times which has caused me to be taken advantage of too many times in relationships. I am a simple person who enjoys the simple things in life, not high maintenance in the slightest bit. I like to have fun, joke & laugh, I'm rather sarcastic & slightly foul mouthed at times. I am an affectionate person & absolutely love to kiss and cuddle however I am also very strong independent and yes at times a little stubborn (I'm Irish/French, that's my excuse & I'm stickin to it lol). For those who see the BBW part of my info and get scared away I want to make clear that I am a smaller BBW and I carry my weight well, I am currently 204lbs and loosing :-)****IMPORTANT NEED TO KNOW INFORMATION BEFORE CONTACTING ME***********I was recently diagnosed with a Meningioma Brain Tumor. It is noncancerous however it is not just a blob in my skull that's just sitting there causing no harm to me so I'm not for the weak type. I need somebody up for the challenge to walk beside me not behind me. The road with my BT hasn't got bumpy yet but in time it will. I love music of all genres; preferably alternative, classic rock & modern rock/pop;; of course Zepplin. Movies I prefer horror/comedy/drama/suspense; favorites are The Notebook, Wizard of Oz, Seven. Favorite tv shows are The Walking Dead & Sons of Anarchy, favorite sports are WWE, Nascar, MMA (even though I don't follow it I enjoy watching it). When it comes to reading I like true crime or suspense. My kids are my everything, I'm all that they have had for a VERY long time so you must like kids! They are all teenagers & 1 is a special needs child due to ADHD/BIPOLAR/ODD so if you aren't a patient & understanding man please pass me by. I'm not a Xbox that was put on this earth to be played.........can somebody show me that sincere men aren't a myth? I have been cheated on physically & emotionally, I have been used financially as well as other ways, I have been pushed aside to see if the grass is greener on the other side and I am on the verge of giving up I can't stand to be lied to and anyone who can look you in the eyes and have no problems with their conscience at all then they would have no problems telling you a lie about anything, even cheating. I don't need that kind of bullshit. I don't expect perfection but I do want somebody who is willing to show & prove to me that he wants nobody else but me Dinner? A movie? Drinks? A walk? Coffee? It all Depends on the the person