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About Me

I am a strong, relaxed, well rounded, down to earth, and funny female. I am divorced and have two wonderful kids, one is 15 and the other is 20. I am in the military but don't let that intimidate you. I work really hard, and as you can see in my photos, I don't get out of my uniform often. I do, however, make time for my loved ones. I have taken a break from dating over the last several years so I could devote time to my kids and figure out what I want in a partner and out of life itself. I am very open and non-judgemental, you can ask me anything and I will answer you. I don't have the time or desire to play games, life is too short.My favorite smell in the world is a burning campfire (a real aphrodisiac for me), my favorite sounds are a child's laughter and the sound of rain hitting the roof. Being in the military, I have travelled quite a bit in the US as well as outside it. I love travelling to new and exciting places (soaking up the local atmosphere).I enjoy reading (most recently became OBSESSED with the Shades of Grey series), going to historical sites, museums, canoeing, camping, amusement parks, and movies. I also like to go to wine-tasting events, musicals, riding motorcycles, listening to music and dancing (want someone that likes dancing as well). I listen to alot of different types of music (except rap). I am open-minded and am willing to try new things. I take everything that happens in life and use it as a learning experience. I am a fairly positive person who genuinely cares about people. I am hoping to find someone who is romantic minded, knows his way around the bedroom, enjoys sex and can handle a high libido, makes me feel desirable and needed, wants to lavish affection on me, protect me, and wants to make me as happy as I will make him. I am all about give and take, I feel relationships should be about equality and mutual satisfaction. I treat my guy like a King and want someone who will treat me like his Queen. I have been down the one way street before where I give everything I have to a relationship and get nothing in return. When I am with someone I do everything I possibly can to let them know how much I love them and put them ahead of my own needs. I am looking for someone who will be faithful, loving, strong, and thoughtful. I want someone to curl up and watch movies with, someone to walk hand-in-hand with, someone who loves to show affection. I need someone that is financially stable and is able to manage their money well (I spent 12 years living with someone who felt he needed to keep up with the Joneses although he didn't have the means, and lived paycheck to almost-paycheck). I am not saying you have to be rich, I'm just saying I don't want money to be an issue in our relationship. I am a simple person, I don't need stuff to make me happy, just his company. Actions speak louder than words to me. I am hoping to retire from the military in a couple of years and would love to have someone to spend the rest of my life with and take care of. I am just dating for now but if I met the right guy...I would be willing to make a committment.If you are interested feel free to message me... I am up for anything...I believe it's the company you keep and not the things you do that make everything fun!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Kolour

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    First of all... If you are looking for casual dating, no commitment, no strings attached, friends with benefits, a roll in the hay or whatever it's called, DO NOT message me! It's clear why I'm here. Our mentalities will not mesh if you are just wanting some fun on a physical level so get off my page. Having said that, here is a little more about me...I'm a girl who enjoys friends and family. I love to hang out and am game for just about anything. I'm a strong-willed, stubborn woman who has a hard outer shell, quite tough to crack ...but if you do, you will find a soft, sweet person underneath. My children are my animals. I have 3 English mastiffs. I'm not real sure if I have a desired type of man that I am looking for. However, I do know he will be a polite and respectful person. I love to laugh and joke. I'm a daughter of two retired military parents and I don't tolerate rudeness. I'm easy going and enjoy all sorts of activities. I'm a stage actress by hobby. Some of my pics consist of me as some of my characters. Can u guess which ones???. ;).. I'm down to earth. I'm clumsy, assertive, and occassionally outspoken. However, never rude or disrespectful. I'm very big on communication. I believe it's one of the key elements to a solid relationship foundation. I'm a kid at heart. I love cartoons and cried when Mufasa died. (How many of you know who that was?) ;)) I sometimes have endless energy, which can probably get on your nerves. I am a major animal lover. I love to cook and hate to dust. I love playing ping pong and I'm pretty competitive at skeeball. I can come off quite intimidating, but that's part of of my barrier. I'm actually not too bad once you get to know me. Oh, and a word of advice, a picture can say alot, but so can the absence of one. Having said that, you probably would pass my profile up alot quicker if I didnt have any photos on it. Perhaps thats what is happening to those of you who havent loaded a pic on yours. ;) I like spending time with people. If you travel due to your job, thats going to be a challenging task to accomplish. Make it count when you are in town and communicate when you are not. You will suprized how far that little bit will go and what an impact it will have. Im not looking for a perfect package, as I know im not, and it probably doesnt exist. But, I am a pretty understanding person if I know whats going on. If you keep me in the dark, then I have no clue and assumptions can arise. Just be open and honest, because I know we all have flaws. :) There's nothing that cant be worked through. I like to give you all my negatives first and if you're still around after that, then you have earned the positives. Because if you can't handle me at my worst, then you don't deserve me at my best. ;) A very relaxed and low key evening. A drink or two to loosen us up and then I overtake you in darts, pool, bowling, or skeeball. LOL...Just kidding, I really suck at all those, I just enjoy playing them! :0

  • Devon

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

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  • Lou

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I am a girl who used to thirve on constant change. I have ejoyed moving around the U.S. with my job. However, in contrast I also enjoy certain aspects of life staying the same. I still enjoy driving my car I bought when graduating from college (yes that was man, many years ago!). My family and friends are very important to me. I have moved back to MI twice to be closer to family. I am thankful for the flexibility my career has offered me.On first meeting I tend to be the more quiet and serious type. Once someone gets to know me it becomes obvious I am surely not opposed to having fun.I have been having an Awesome Summer with family and friends. But being the stand out single party is not always the bright spot of any adventure. So I am going out on a limb and trying the challenge of online dating again. How does one sound unique and interesting here? Hmm... Truly just getting toegether for a cup of coffee or a drink and having a chance to talk would be great. If conversation is interesting and flows easily to continue on to dinner could be an option.

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