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Jess, 37

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About Me

I am in process of my dissolution. I have healed from that part of my life and ready to move on. There's no drama and jealousy as most would expect. We just were taking time to allow our daughter to adjust as her best interest is at heart. She now tells me I need a boyfriend. Lol. If she's ready....I'm ready!I am passionate and energetic. I like to have a healthy balance in my life, and put as much care into my relationships as I do my daughter. I am a positive person and always try to see the good in everything. I give my all in everything that I do, and I don't give up easily. I am very grounded and make decisions based on research and my ability to see the big picture.I have a conservative exterior, but that isn’t who I am. I like to get to know people before I open up, but I think of myself as warm, friendly and generous. And my friends say I’m tons of fun. Sometimes I lack a filter and say exactly what's on my mind, but it is more for comedic purposes. I love to try new things and am always up for an adventure. Bring on the surprises!I have a passion for music, and played in a punk band in college. You would probably never guess that I used to have bleach blonde, red, pink, and sometimes blue hair! I lead a full life, and have some really great and almost unbelievable stories. Many people say I should write a book. You'll just have to get to know me to hear some of my life events. I come from a large family (I’m the youngest of five children), and they are very important to me. My oldest sister is 15 years older than me and I love that because I was exposed to more than just what my generation had to offer. Without them, a relationship simply won’t work. It is important to me to build a foundation in my relationship based on trust, passion, understanding, and thoughtfulness. I am looking for a man who enjoys music, seeing live shows, hiking, nice dinners, laughter and good conversation. I enjoy learning new things, and hope to find someone who can teach me about his interests.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • So

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    Woman. 36 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 33-43

    At a stage in my life where mediocre just won't do. I prefer to be alone versus committed to Mr. Wrong. Cautiously optimistic. I am a pretty open-minded person who sometimes goes against the grain. I would enjoy spending time with someone else who shares that quality. The rest you can learn later... (And I am height-weight proportionate and photos DO look like me, lol!)Ok, an updated disclaimer:Wow, this certainly is more difficult than it needs to be, people! If that doesn't work for you, then please just keep on moving along--no hard feelings. I am a single mom of a 3 year old, so my time is limited. However, I assure you, that should you be "the one" or even someone I cannot immediately eliminate as having that potential, then I will make time for you. I guess I'm pretty picky. At my age and stage in life, I have to be. So...if that means I go on a hundred dates and still choose to come home alone at the end of the evening because that spark, that connection, that potential "can't live without you" feeling isn't there, then let's not hate each other for that. I have settled before and hated myself for the bad decision; I learn from my mistakes, so I don't plan to do that again. Sometimes, everything can seem perfect on paper, then--ta da!--no chemistry. Sorry, folks, but I want it ALL! The best friend, awesome kisser, life partner, make-me-weak-in-the-knees guy whom I just can't function without. If you're not that person, it's nothing personal--I'm not even sure he exists! While on my quest for this potentially mythical man, I like to have fun. I'd love to make some more friends as I don't believe anyone can ever have too many. I'm sort of relationship-conditioned after spending most of my life in them, so, sadly, I do miss having another adult in my house who could laugh or cry at the same movie I am watching. Ya know, normal human stuff. I'm the kind of person who likes a variety of things. I'm not a workout or sports fanatic, but I don't mind if you are as long as there is time for me in there too. I do like staying active and doing outdoorsy things as much as I like getting dressed up for a nice dinner date or ordering a pizza and watching the Colts. I also am not perfect, but if we should happen to seem perfect for each other, I promise I will tell you everything you need to know. I don't believe anything real can be built on something less than total honesty. I could go on and on, which is why my first attempt at this was intentionally brief; however, some situations have caused me to want to explain a few more things. So, yeah, I over explain everything too, because I believe the "why" behind our actions is important, so if that drives you crazy, I am not the person for you, lol! Any two people can have a first date. Those should be casual and used to determine if the much more important second date will ever occur. :)

  • Anabel

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    Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 36-46

    I love going to concerts, shopping, being outdoors not afraid to get dirty but love being a girlie girl also. Looking for a energetic, responsible, well balanced, stable man with a cute face and nice smile.

  • Minta

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I like bonfires, camping, hiking, canoeing (that never looks spelled right?) big trucks, old cars....Reading, movies, sports GO STEELERS, hanging with friends, good food...pizza I LOVE PIZZA!I'm currently in my second profession and I love love love it! I am really a huge believer in honesty...I'm not perfect and I don't expect you to be, i'm not gorgeous but I've seen worse, I'm not super-athletic but love to do things that push my limits (i just completed the warrior dash), I'm not hung up on looks but I know what I find attractive.I am a Christian, I try to go to church every week and am trying to raise my kids with the same morals and values that I was taught. I'm far from perfect but I strive to do what's right. I would like to find someone with the same beliefs.Some of you seem to be confused so let me clarify: my profile says "does not want children"...that means I no longer wish to grow tiny humans inside my body....it does not mean I wouldn't date someone with children. Well you can only toot your own horn so long....I guess if you want to know how awesome I am you will just have to ask ;)UPDATE:1) I require teeth...preferrably nice teeth and 28 of them (that means you have all of them except your wisdom teeth....go ahead..count them with your tongue).2) I do not date outside of my race...I have a sister-in-law who is black, mixed niece and nephews...I'm not prejudice its just not for me.3) please know how to spell and use proper grammer...I text in slang a lot but I am college educated and can form a complete sentence...I would like the same. Anything where we can talk and get to know each other.

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