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Lucilla, 40

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About Me

This has been a year of many changes for me! :-) I am, first and foremost, a good Mom. I have two children (ages 6 & 8) that live primarily with me. They are good kids who have big hearts and open minds and that is why I feel like I am doing a good job! I am at a point in my life where I'm not looking to "start" a family with someone. Ideally, someone I'd be interested in dating already has kids, is a good Dad, and is in no hurry to have a blended family.My hobbies and interests have been primarily consumed by little league and school events. Having free time due to a divorce schedule has left me with time on my hands to try new things and find new hobbies! I would love to learn how to shoot skeet. That may seem very random, but I shot competitively when I was younger and used to be the state champion in archery! (Seriously!) I want to start taking tennis lessons soon. I would also jump out of a plane with the right guy or learn how to scuba dive with you. I would love to travel and explore the world more! I believe that having a grateful heart brings you happiness and peace. I believe in helping others and volunteering when you have abundance in your own life: time, resources, or money.I am a good conversationalist and I would enjoy flirting with you and making you feel like a priority in my life. I enjoy the classic "girly" things that most women do, but I can leave my make-up behind and go camping with you (the real kind - with no electricity). If you ask my preference though, I'd rather be in the cozy cabin with a roaring fire and a great bottle of wine - and enjoy YOU more! I hope that you're the type of person who can rock a suit one night and be scruffy the next... all while having a good time. It is important to me that you can be comfortable in all settings because you're comfortable with yourself. I also believe that being friends with the person you love keeps mutual respect and admiration of your differences alive. I am interested in a man who knows who he is and is not intimidated by the opinions of others. He can be soft spoken and yet assertive when needed. His strength of character and our shared core values are important to me.He is interesting and makes me think! He "gets me" and appreciates me and vice versa! He has interests that he is passionate about in his life. He is sweet and thoughtful. He is established in his chosen career and he enjoys what he does for a living. He understands what's important in life and strives to live that way.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

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