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About Me

edit: PLEASE do not contact me if you are not interested in pursuing a REAL, mature relationship. I hate to feel it necessary to say this, but apparently what's obvious to me isn't always obvious to someone else. I'm getting very frustrated with men who don't know what they want, or change their mind midstream. I also am not on here to chat. This may sound cold, but I don't get on here for long, and would rather spend that time learning about someone that is looking for the same thing, rather than someone who just wants to pass the time. If you think I will want a private pic of you undressed, please don't contact me~end edit~First, let me apologize for the photos. I perform at renaissance festivals, and as a wrestling manager (yes, like the minor leagues for WWE) so it's really the only time I'm in front of the camera... I assure you, I'm quite normal... and have a normal job. Secondly, my profile will come across to some of you (this means the "nice" guys) as harsh... I apologize. Unfortunately, there are more men out there that seem to need things spelled out for them. I hope you understand.A Little about me: I'm brutally honest, a little goofy, & proud geek. I am a lady-who likes a few unlady like things. I'm a single mother, happy in my own skin, proud of my "battle scars" in life, eager to learn more, & always ready for a waterfight. I'm a tomboy, a priss, like scary movies, but scream when I see a spider. I'm rational & analytical, yet cry over Hallmark commercials at Christmas. I love: football, baseball, hockey, Nascar, camping, movies including sci-fi & action, sunday bar-b-ques, & house projects, and wrestling. I get dirty working on the car & wear a dress & heels for those special nights out. I'm very affectionate, love to laugh, & can enjoy any environment with the right company. Lazy Sundays curled up with a good book and good company is wonderful, so is a weekend at the races with my daughter, or performing at a Renaissance Festival, or Wrestling event.What I'm NOT looking for: I'm not looking for a "hook-up", no matter how hot you think you are! I don't "need" something to do, my life is plenty busy. I'm not looking for someone to "hang out" with... I have friends for that already. I'm not interested in "seeing where it goes", I know where I'm going. What I AM looking for: I'm looking for someone who is wanting and "ready" to be in a relationship, someone who's ready to think beyond this week or this year. No, I don't expect it to happen today... but if it's not the goal going in... it's probably not going to be (refer to the old cow/getting milk free saying). I'm very easy going and laid back, and not into drama or games. I'm an affectionate, romantic person who wants the same in return. A sense of humor is a must, so is accepting that I am raising a child on my own. We are a package deal, so please don't expect me to ship her off to a sitter all the time... I rather enjoy her company. I have a "normal" job monday through friday, but I also am a performer at renaissance festivals. It does take a good deal of time, so I'm hoping to find someone who at the very least respects this passion of mine... though I would love it if he had an appreciation for it and wanted to be involved. He should function primarily with the cerebral head and not the carnal one... let me spell that one out for some of you... if you need to mention sex before we ever meet.... we won't meet. Finally, he should have some class and manners (which would eliminate me ever having to mention the previous requirement). I am a woman, not a tramp, I will be treated with respect. I prefer a first date to be relaxed. Dinner at a locally owned restaurant (one of those perfect hole in the wall's that only the locals know about) is a great way to spend time talking, relaxing and getting to know each other. I prefer the casual/laid back environment where I can get to learn about a person, rather than putting on airs at a fancy restaurant and trying to keep up appearances. I would rather meet YOU, not the person you present to the general public.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Chance

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    Woman. 40 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 37-47

    I'm a mother of 3 teens n 1 grandson who's turning 2 in June ***! I will tell u they come first n r very special too Me! Inly hv my daughter living w me! I love anything outdoors! hate winter it's very long n I'm glad it's over! if u hv any questions feel free to ask! I hv a bf idk it will depend on the what u like as well

  • Margarita

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    Woman. 38 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 35-45

    I recently read a message from the App : Text From Last Night and the girl said "I'm on a date and the guy just said "balls deep" three times in ten minutes - thank you plenty of fish". I find that funny. Having said that I am hoping to meet a guy that can avoid phrases like that at least on date number one. After that - all is fair in love and war.Since I have a great sense of humor I tend to think almost everything is funny. I like Ninjas and Roosters. Ever see them in the barnyard? It happens. I think it's funny. Some people deserve to get pecked. Especially stupid ones. On a serious note I am not really a ninja assassin although it sounded cool when I listed it. More like I'm in sales. I own my own flooring company and run an ecommerce website. Not as cool as a ninja. My office does have nerf guns so if I feel like having an office war I am equipped. Dating is never easy. But I believe in making the best of it and laughing while doing it. People are different and we need to remind ourselves that we don't want to date someone just like ourselves. You cannot change someone to suit your own needs, you have to accept people as they are. We all need to eliminate all expectations and laundry lists of qualities you desire in someone else, and just be open and allow things to happen. Don't wait for the perfect moment, take a moment and make it perfect. Also - guys - post pictures. I did, there is no reason you can't follow the rules and do the same. Alcohol - just saying - if you do not engage in the consumption of some alcohol, we will probably not click. Just being honest - no good conversation began over a salad. Just my thoughts on flaky people. We all share the same energy source hence the evolution of karma. You cannot hurt another person or make another person happy without doing the same for yourself. When your actions reflect this principal your life reflects the same.I love to travel. I love new restaurants and wine. Yummo!I like trying new things. Meeting new people and exploring things. NOTE: I do not want to meet jackasses who are trying to get laid. If you are unable to take a girl out on a date and you want to 'come over' please do not send me a message. I don't know when this site turned into a Sex Forum, but some people are serious about wanting to meet someone and date someone - if you are not serious there are a plethora of whores elsewhere. I would like to meet for****ails somewhere. Or a stroll or bike ride or anything creative with some great conversation. I don't care to be the decision maker all the time, i just want a guy to be creative and make a play. Something simple. See how the chemistry works. I don't really want to meet at Starbucks. I grab my latte at 7 each morning while answering *** starting my day. So if you ask me out to a coffee house - you clearly did not read this.

  • Janiece

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    Woman. 37 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 34-44

    I love the outdoors. I love movies horror are my favorite. I love all music. I love wwe wrestling. dinner and a movie or a picnic.

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