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Benjamina, 39
United States, Georgia, Ellijay

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About Me

Been on my own over 15 yrs now, kids are older, I now have more of "me" time (One graduated University, other doing ***semester victory lap at high school)Thinking men are more drama than women.....hmmmmmLooking for someone to complement my life not complicate it!!!! Can get the drama from TV...Look great in that little black dress..but the jeans fit just as nice!!!I have two handsome boys that will always be the special "men" in my life. Time flies, one recent University grad and one in high schoolI enjoy working out, my partner needs not to be in to fitness, must understand and appreciate my passion for it. Like to do anything outdoors in the warm (no lets say hot) weather. Prefer the warmer weather, however, more excuses to cuddle in the cold....Enjoy nights out on the town, can also appreciate the quiet nights at home with a glass of red wine (sometimes turns into a bottle or two...only with good company) oh and this girl can appreciate a nice cold beer.. Thoroughly enjoy a good sense of humor, laughter and communication. What you see is what you get king of gal.....My motto...."Go with the flow". I don't sweat the small things, very easy going....(not a drama queen, I think that is what she's called)Looking for someone who has goals and values and knows what they want in life and ready to tackle with a strong, humorous, independent woman.(Laughter and friendship are key to surviving the roller coaster of a relationship).Love to watch all sports, playing is better...GO STEELERS!Enjoy walks (never boring can talk about anything) and being in the kitchen...we can swap secret family recipes........always up to learn something new...only have to be shown once.......yep....I am willing to lie about how we met!....Sorry, I won't respond if you don't have photos (you can always send some along with your message if you don't like to post them up.)Great quote: Everyone you meet comes with baggage, find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack! We can decide.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Latin Comedy Family & Kids American Football
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