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Elfleda, 31
United States, Georgia, Commerce

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About Me

I have an inbox full of "hi, wanna chat?" messages; please come up with something unique and enticing if you would like a response. Thank you :)Now on to the good stuff :) Who I am:I'm a defense litigation paralegal and a devoted mother to my 22 month old daughter. She is the light of my life!My career is fast paced, but I love that I have a good work-life balance.My parents *** me great morals so I definitely know the difference between right and wrong and I'm a good girl.I'm honest, sometimes to a fault and I'm not afraid to make and/or admit to my mistakes.I think I'm pretty funny :) I'm optimistic, affectionate and romantic, realistic, level-headed, independent, responsible, intelligent; and not just book smart, I have common sense too lolI also have enough wit to banter with the boys, but in all honesty, I'm not a HUGE sports fanatic. Don't get me wrong, I like sports and I'd be happy to go to a baseball game once and a while, but I don't want to spend all day Sunday watching football and golf.What I'm looking for in a man:Well-spoken and intelligent; someone that can challenge me intellectually, but can also make me laugh.You must know the difference between your and you're, also their, there, and they're. Grammar and punctuation are not difficult. Take the time to use them. A solid career is a must and it should make you happy, not be something you dread doing everyday just to pay the bills.Financial responsibility is also huge for me. I'm not asking for a sugar daddy, nor do I want one, but you do need to be able to take care of you without a woman directing you on how to do so. I need a grown man.A nice gentleman who believes in chivalry would be a plus, but it seems to be hard to find these days.Honesty; say how you feel and mean what you say. Please don't play games to try to manipulate the situation.You must be family oriented because my family is my world!What my "relationship needs" are:I need someone who is independent so that we do not lose our own identities as individuals by becoming indentifed only as a "couple." I need someone who is honest and upfront.I need someone who is energetic, enthusiastic and has a high self-image.I need someone who will support and/or participate in my personal and professional interests.I need someone who is NOT looking to be taken care of, but who is realistic about the hard work it takes to build and maintain a stable and happy relationship.I need someone who will take the time to find a resolution to issues as opposed to avoiding conflict by settling for a temporary "I'll say what I think you want to hear to end this discussion" agreement.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    i am a single mother of one child, i am looking for a real man not a kid or someone that doesnt know what they want... if your divorced or separated be sure your over with it... if ur not well get out of here!!! dont make other people wasting their time...life is to short for games.if you are only looking for sex well I am not the one! if you want to know about me feel free to ask!!!oh and by the way be yourself...I know i sound like a b....but i am not lol actually i am to nice just not into games or bs. we will see!!!

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I like to go out and do things especially when the weather is nice. Looking for someone to chill with and someone who likes children I have an amazing 5 yr old daughter. I listen to all kinds of music prefer hip-hop and r&b. Just tired of meeting people with no goals in life. I'm a good woman who likes to take care of her man just looking for someone who deserves it.

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  • Amey from Commerce | Woman | 33 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    "Nobody's perfect. We're all just one step up from the beasts and one step down from the angels." Umm, let's see: I'm pretty easy-going as far as dating is concerned. I'm not really looking for full-on commitment right away, but I am open to whatever possibilities are out there. I'm not husband-hunting or desperate for a serious relationship, but if that's what happens, so be it. I am a single mom of two kids and we stay pretty busy, so my dating and relationship time is limited. I am widowed and haven't really dated for a few years, so just embrace the awkward!I consider myself a very honest person and will usually tell you anything, if you ask.I have some issues with dating sites. I mean, it's difficult to get a sense of someone's true personality from pictures and a few paragraphs. And finally, I think it is important to let you know that tattoo on my chest (over my heart) is my late husband's dog tag. I know that bothers some men, so it's just best that you know from the get-go. I have no plans to have it removed; if you aren't man enough to accept my life, and my experiences, then you probably aren't man enough to be a part of my life. I know that sounds really catty (POF won't let me write the b word, because apparently we're all 12!) it's not meant to, just my perspective. First date? Anything that's no pressure. I would prefer not to go rock climbing or something crazy that I will probably injure myself doing. I'm not afraid to get dirty, be it hiking or riding four-wheelers, etc. I'm also not opposed to the whole dinner-and-a-movie route; it's always a good stand-by.

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